Unironically what is the bluepilled politically correct reddit answer to this?
I'm legitimately curious as to how this is men's fault.
Here's what based and redpilled Grok ai thinks:
Emotional Expectations and Communication Styles: Women tend to prioritize emotional intimacy and have higher relationship expectations. In lesbian relationships, with two women, these expectations can amplify, leading to quicker dissatisfaction if unmet. Studies suggest women are more likely to initiate divorce when emotional needs aren't fulfilled, which may double in lesbian partnerships.Societal Pressures and Discrimination: Lesbian couples often face unique societal stressors, like discrimination or lack of acceptance, which can strain relationships. These external pressures may disproportionately affect lesbian couples in less progressive environments, contributing to higher divorce rates.Parenting and Family Dynamics: Lesbian couples are more likely to have children than gay male couples, often through adoption or previous relationships. The stress of parenting, especially under societal scrutiny, can increase relationship strain. A US study found 12.3% of lesbian adoptive couples divorced within five years, compared to 2% of gay male couples.Speed of Commitment: Lesbian couples may move faster into marriage or cohabitation, a phenomenon sometimes called "U-hauling." This rapid bonding, driven by emotional intensity, can lead to marrying before fully assessing compatibility, increasing divorce risk.Economic Factors: Lesbian couples often face a double gender pay gap, leading to greater financial instability, a known divorce risk factor. This contrasts with gay male couples, who may benefit from higher average incomes.Initiation of Divorce: Women, in both same-sex and opposite-sex marriages, are more likely to file for divorce (e.g., 67.2% of same-sex divorces in the UK in 2021 involved female couples). This may reflect lower tolerance for issues like infidelity or unreasonable behavior, which is cited in 55-65% of same-sex divorces.
>>81831373 (OP)foids are far more neurotic, emotionally unstable and long term thinking averse than men are on average. If you asked a bluepilled redditor though they would probably try to discredit the study itself but if that was out of the question then they would spin to some shit about internalised misogyny and homophobia
>>81831373 (OP)As a bi dude this makes sense. Im more inclined to stick with a dude than a woman because I know a dude will be straightforward about issues in a relationship. Women have a tendency to lie and engage in gaslighting and manipulating and other BPD tactics.
>>81831373 (OP)"umm, if you didn't want her to divorce you maybe you shouldn't have ignored her and tried to control her??"
>>81831373 (OP)The Reddit answer is to use the men/men section as something wonderful about lgbt people and ignore the rest of it.
>Divorce
That's implying they get married. Most homosexual couples don't get married.
>>81831373 (OP)>the one who leaves a marriage is the one who's sick of getting mistreatedThe one who's mistreating the other person has no need to leave, they can keep going until they die. That's why you rarely see abusers divorce the ones they abuse.
>>81831373 (OP)Gay men are way less likely to just enter a long-term relationship. They tend to have casual sex and shit instead and only marry in specific circumstances when they know they'll be together long-term. Also I would say men care less about marriage in general, especially gay men. In part that is probably from them being more practical but also I do not think marriage is romanticized for men as much as it is for women.
While for lesbians, I don't think they sleep around as much due to women being less coomerish. They value the idea of a marriage and romance more than sex, with the marriage being hyper-idealized to them from a young age. It is kind of a stereotype for lesbians to jump into a serious relationship super fast with someone they barely know, and without kids to hold them down like in a straight couple or the slowness or marriage in a gay ones.
So, gay dudes tend to prefer casual sex, hookups and friends with benefits and shit, and only get married in extraordinary circumstances when they really want to be together. Gay women jump into relationships really early and get serious quick before properly knowing whether they want to be with that person yet, since they do not want sex as much and instead idealize marriage and want romance. Straight couples are more in the middle, with men wanting to coom and women often wanting stability, making them get married sometimes more quickly than ideal and more often than gay men, but also the factor of children complicating divorce.
>>81831462Necessitate, not imply. Implications arent inherently obvious
>>81831373 (OP)Those women are traumatized by cis men and lash at their lesbian partner. If you only count lesbians that never had relationship with a man, that rate drops drastically
Yes, the cope is that deep
>>81831373 (OP)Faggots fuck on the side constantly and without jealousy in-between they are extreme unapologetic degenerates.
Women are extremely jealous they never consent cheating unless they are the one's doing the cheating.
This should be simple to understand.
>>81831373 (OP)for men with a bachelors degree under the age of 65: divorce rate is 12%
the blackpill answer is that if you are in a community where divorce is common, you will think divorce is common. nobody in my workplace or my entire friend group has been divorced or thinks about divorce, so in my mind divorce doesn't really exist. my parents are still together, my wifes parents are still together, and the only time we hear about it is from hollywood tabloids.
>>81831373 (OP)42% is way too low, it's closer to 50% and 70-90% of divorces are initiated by women.
As for why, we could get into details but I'll just use the umbrella term of compulsive partner disposal to answer it.
>>81831373 (OP)you dont understand progressive thuoght and you are asking for asnwers on an incel board
see if you can figure out why this makes you monumentally stupid
>>81831373 (OP)Men consider if something is worth fighting about while women will divorce a dude because they did some retarded tiktok 'test' and he reacted with confusion.
>>81831373 (OP)As a brilliant YouTube shorts comment said.
Two Eve's fighting over who gets to eat the apple.
>>81831373 (OP)Mensch need to step up and become Ubermensch.
Marriage is a patriarchal tradition that is meant to just establish property ownership and child rearing work calibration. It doesn't make any sense for two women to be married or be particularly loyal to each other, they enjoy the relationship while it's still fun and then go their own way. Women do not see any sort of romantic value in marriage
Women aren't capable of feeling true love because they're subhuman.
>>81833730A lesbian relationship is a minefield, imagine two people that can't see a fault in themselves, manipulate and gaslight each other and take no advice.
With men they can at the least cope with "the men are dumb" and "I'm a master manipulator".
by the powers vested in me, i pronounce thee faggot and faggot. you may kiss, faggots.
hahahahaha
