holy shit, stay away from online dating.
Turns out a grown ass 27 year old woman I e-dated for 15 months was edating another guy at the same time. She both begged us to visit her on her vacation, send us videos of herself. Kept on talking how she wants to meet up and have children. She literally copy pasted the same message word for word to each other while gaslighting each other into thinking theres nothing going on. Most weirdest of all, turns out even her real life is completely fabricated. The ex that wanted to marry her but she got cold feet? He exists (probably) but its not actually the guy she named. The guy she called her ex is her friends fiancee lmao

>>81831412 (OP)
Oh yeah this is the type of mental illness I enjoy in a woman. You guys wouldn't get it I do it for the adrenaline

>>81831412 (OP)
yeah this is why you should NEVER edate. some vtuber whore was edating like a dozen guys at the same time while pretending to have a femcel neet facade for her character

Online dating is not e dating. You meet a woman online and then you meet her in real life. Nothing wrong with this. You have to be retarded to send messages to a girl for over a year without seeing her face to face.

>>81831412 (OP)
How did you find out about all of this?

>>81831412 (OP)
vrchat is full of people like this, "couples" that each live in other countries and do shit like sleeping with each other on vrchat (so basically sleeping holding a body pillow with a headset on)

>>81831437
>You have to be retarded to send messages to a girl for over a year without seeing her face to face
dude there's tons of edaters that go that long without seeing that person's FACE ITSELF, guy I know edated someone for 4 fucking years where he never once heard her voice or saw her face because "she was shy" and then turns out it was a GUY catfishing, but for attention not money because the catfish was the one giving him money, hundreds of dollars in total in fact

>>81831442
because she was actually retarded.
She mentioned she was browsing /soc/ and then send me a screenshot of this guy, the guy i was already a bit paranoid about. So i added him and asked him what was up with her.

>>81831559
*she send me a screenshot of a post the guy made with his discord tag

>>81831474
Made my point. It's retarded. If you don't see what she looks like in the first conversation, or if you don't have a irl plan in the first week, you're wasting your time.

>>81831412 (OP)
>She both begged us to visit her on her vacation, send us videos of herself. Kept on talking how she wants to meet up and have children. She literally copy pasted the same message word for word to each other while gaslighting each other into thinking theres nothing going on.
How the hell did you find out?

>>81831774
Ok, now I know the answer. Don't date a 4channer next time.

>online dating
Not real dating. Imagine being such a socially anxious fuck that you cannot form a relatio ship in person.

>>81831437
>You meet a woman online and then you meet her in real life
By this I hope you mean "you met her on a dating app and she lives at most an hour away from you and you have plans of meeting her within the week"

>>81831856
edating is the rite of passage for socially awkward zoomers, I recently found out my nephew who's 15 had his mom drive him halfway across the country from Virginia to Texas to meet his long distance girlfriend

>>81831474
So, in fairness, I e-dated a girl for a year before seeing her face. It was a few months before even hearing her voice. Turned out to be girl, dated her for a few years before she blew things up.
All I'm saying is, that kind of thing does happen without it necessarily meaning anything.

>>81831412 (OP)
Fuck you and your cringey asinine memes, no one who grew up with both parents ever thought boxxy, pedobear and "we are legion" were ever funny, we always used to make fun of the /b/tards over on luelinks for being homos and SA rejects, they were like the Reddit of back then.
The sjw backlash and hwndu shit that snowballed into culture wars in 2016 unironically made this site 10x better

>>81831412 (OP)
easiest solution is to meet people ASAP. If you can't afford to, stop trying to date people that live far away.

>>81832010
>pedobear
he's banned at my local anime convention for being a "pro pedophile symbol"

>>81831882
I'd say she could live up to 3 hours away, but the bar for a second date gets higher the longer you have to drive.