Relationships - /r9k/ (#81833739) [Archived: 346 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:16:03 AM No.81833739
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How old are you and how many relationships have you had? Also, what do you say on dates when they ask about your dating history?

>I'm 26
>Never had a long term gf but had some flings
>When I was honesty about this in past when asked it didn't go down well so now Idk what to say on dates about it

Also wondering what is a normalish dating history for a guy in his mid twenties. I bet anything other than "I've had 1 or 2 long term gfs and not been single for more than 1 year" is a big red flag to women.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:33:40 AM No.81833866
>>81833739 (OP)
>Never had a gf but had flings
What kind of flings, did you fuck them? If so you don't belong here. That's more normie than having a gf is
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:35:17 AM No.81833876
>>81833739 (OP)
22
0 real gfs, I've been on a few dates though, I just never get more than a few
One girl asked how many girls I've slept with and I said 0 because I'm catholic.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:39:45 AM No.81833899
>>81833739 (OP)
25
Never had a gf, never went on a date. Never talked to a woman about non work/non essential stuff. Never touched a woman other than my family members (not touching in the sexual sense just touching normally)
>inb4 basement dweller
I have a full time finance job, am 6.2, not overweight, dont smoke, dont do drugs or anything
Im just ugly and never got to meet women
What do
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:39:56 AM No.81833903
>30
>3 LDRs (2 of whom I actually met)
>3 ONSes

I haven't gone on a formal date with someone of my own nationality. The women I've actually gone on dates with, we've known each other well enough beforehand and our histories.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:43:03 AM No.81833915
>>81833739 (OP)
35
3 adult relationships - 6 years, 1 year, and 3 years respectively

I've never dated; one of these people was in my friend circle, the other was a customer at work, and the last was a coworker. I feel like my body count is pretty low for my age, but I'm a deeply anxious individual so 'putting myself' out there sounds like a great way to speedrun a nervous breakdown.

Like all dudes I suppose, I wish I could've been more carefree and had fun in my twenties, but that's just not the way I'm wired. My analysis of the experiences I've had so far is that I'd rather have a longterm sexual relationship with someone than a longterm domestic partnership with them.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:48:58 AM No.81833956
>>81833866
2 out of 3 of them yeah. Plus 1 ONS!
If you look up the statistics 95% of guys lose their virginity by 25 so I bet most people who use this board aren't virgins lol
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:51:22 AM No.81833979
>>81833956
I am and i am 25.
Is everyone itt a chad or something?
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:52:09 AM No.81833987
18 n never had a relationship n I usually say non-existent if we're counting when I get asked by acquaintances
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:52:45 AM No.81833992
>>81833956
I'm not a virgin either but they were all relationships. Get off my board
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:54:26 AM No.81834009
>>81833899
Write your height and job on hinge, have photos with friends (can be work colleagues on an after-work aswell), one interesting selfie and one photo of you doing or preparing to do a sport (skiing, tennis, floorhockey)
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:56:43 AM No.81834025
>>81834009
Isnt hinge for faggots.
I tried that pn bumble and never got a single match.
I dont have many pictures of my self those are either in the mountains or on horseback but as i said ealier im ugly and my job doesnt pay well
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:00:00 AM No.81834046
>>81834025
Can you write your job title so it sounds important or just say that you work in finance, have you checked the gender ratio among young people in your city, it can look pretty bad in northern europe and west coast usa, also go on a afterwork and get someone to take a pic
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:00:36 AM No.81834052
>>81834025
Hinge was the app I got the most matches on but it's also really easy to get banned on so don't say any risque messages on it. I got banned for sending "want to make out?" to all my matches lol
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:03:35 AM No.81834065
>>81834046
Good idea that afterwork thing.
As for my job i live in a 150k city and everyone works in finance so its pretty easy to tell that my job doesnt pay shit.
I tried elsewhere in europe but it didnt really work either
I go to hiking and dancing meetups because my parents told me to join but theres only men there
>>81834052
Oh okay idk if there will be many people on there.
On bumble theres like 30 people in total in the entire area.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:09:56 AM No.81834108
>>81834065
I have no clue where that would be but there should be people working restuarants, retail and other things. There are some cities that just have an absurd overpopulation of males, Delft or a few military outpost but i assume there is a decent ratio where you live
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:16:33 AM No.81834154
>>81834108
Luxembourg.
Delft isnt too bad. Its just that the TU skews the numbers, but theres plenty of other cities around it meanwhile, theres no big city close to Lux city, only commuter towns
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:20:27 AM No.81834173
>>81834154
That makes it a bit difficult, youre not getting a better salary if you move (in europe atleast). Being honest i live in northern sweden and the only girls ive gotten close to getting where mildly inbred so i cant really help with rich city girls
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:35:23 AM No.81834280
>>81834173
>northern sweden
Kiruna?
I dont care about my salary.
I would kill to emigrate but no country outside of europe gives visa to europeans and even within europe theres no other country that could hire me.
Ive tried applying in scandinavia, the baltics, poland etc.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:39:12 AM No.81834301
>>81834280
Not that far north although i did spend some time there during my military service, Kiruna in january is horrific. I dont know anything about finance really so i cant help you career vise but if the only place where you can do your job is in luxembourg i geuss you will have to stay and try working yourself up
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:43:58 AM No.81834323
>>81833739 (OP)
>How old are you and how many relationships have you had?
- 38.898yo
- 0 (not counting two 'playground GFs' that I never even kissed)
>Also, what do you say on dates when they ask about your dating history?
What dates? I don't even want dates, nor could I afford them. I want to get laid.
I'd have to lie about having some short-term relationships in the past.
Certainly couldn't tell them that all my 18 fucks were with escorts.
Though I would not want to talk about my past, or her obviously busy past.
>Captcha: AYD0G kek
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 10:17:37 AM No.81834555
>>81833739 (OP)
36. Been in one fake relationship for 3 months. Have had a couple chances at casual things but have never been into casual stuff.