I am an autistic (womanoid) and I really don't get this whole ai bf shtick because my main social and emotional issue - that I don't know what to talk to people about and how - still remains unsolved. You still have to lead the conversation with ai and I have no idea what to say to it. I'd prefer someone who will just rant all day long about their own life and feelings and who gives me themes to latch unto for discussion this way. How does it all actually work or is it another one of those things that are marketed to mentally ill but are actually for turbonormies?

>>81834423 (OP)
I can talk about things with you if you like

>>81834423 (OP)
I prefer Dungeon AI because it's more of a creative writing exercise. You can read other people's published stories there

I translate from foidspeak into normal speak
>I am a lazy piece of shit who can't even be assed to ask some basic questions or to have thoughts on my own and I will only give you shitty replies to whatever you said or wrote without any way to keep the convo going
Hope that helps.

>>81834423 (OP)
>How does it all actually work or is it another one of those things that are marketed to mentally ill but are actually for turbonormies?
you got it
look at the data on the main demographics of A.I. users, be it Chat GPT or Deepseak, all super-normie countries, all retards

>>81834440
>>81834423 (OP)
i am like that but i am a male

>>81834440
What are "basic questions"? "How are you"? How is it supposed to keep discussion alive for longer than 2 messages?
I post a lot on anonymous image boards because the things I wanna discuss I usually so specific and kinda cringe, that I feel like any lone individual won't be interested but amongst the crowd I may find someone who is.
I dunno what people talk about that actually facilitates romantic connection though.

>>81834432
What things?

>>81834442
What is a normie country? First time I'm seeing such expression.

>>81834423 (OP)
womanoid

>>81834498
>what things
Idk guns or something

>>81834498
Talk about something anything even it is fucking autistic. The right person will be okay with it or at least try. You have interests or hobbies in something right? Then talk about it. Or just talk about books, ideas, movies etc. etc.

>>81834423 (OP)
The poll showed most if not all that claim to be women here are in fact trannies

When I had my last gf, she was way more autistic than me and this was exactly the way we spoke, we rant about our day in turns. Fun times. The solution is, you need a robot bf.

>>81834500
coitus hole

>>81834423 (OP)
If you can't even have a conversation with a digital entity whose entire purpose is to talk with you then I can only imagine I'd have to carry the entire conversation.

>>81834546
>Talk about something anything
Nothing comes to mind

>>81834593
>>81834605
My point exactly. Holy shit. Are you even sentient?

>>81834498
normie countries, y'know? where the majority are low-inhib and very *very* extraverted
see India, Brazil, Mexico, etc.
some countries like Finland or Japan, they're quiet folks - they know and *want* order, they've got things sorted out so they dont need much AI

>>81834546
I wanna talk about ar tonelico, animal behaviorism and traditional textiles. I don't think digital characters have anything to say on such things and neither do regular people. The most closest to normie thing that I could enthusiastically talk about is architecture but an average person is still more likely to not care than care.

>>81834564
I wish it was as easy, most self proclaimed "robots" are actually just sexless normals. The incel infestation have been a ruin for anonymous webs.

>>81834689
So what you can talk about that and if the other person wants to talk with you and you are able to explain it then there will be a conversation.
Again I bet all your answers are something like "yeah" "okay" or "idk" or something similar. Speaking is like a dance if the other person does not want to dance with you then there is nothing you can do.

>>81834743
No my answers are usually twice per day walls of text. If, I am asked anything that is.
But I have no idea how to initiate or what do with normal key phrases. Anyways back to main theme, which is
What do people talk to ai's about that they get attached?

>>81834792
For men it's usually positive affirmations. Men have a serious lack of hearing the words "you are good enough". For girls it's having the fantasy boyfriend they see in their yaoi cartoons. They listen, they give positive feedback. That one super popular mobile game even has the guys track your period, and will learn how you best react to them while on it, and then adapt. Something no real man can do.

>>81834423 (OP)
>That I don't know what to talk to people about and how
You too, huh?
I think most people I've known who had AI girlfriends were not just lonely, they were also happy with something pretty shallow. They didn't really want a partner, they just wanted to be told it was okay to be themselves, if that makes sense. They have learned it's not safe to open up to people, and they just want to open up to something, anything, and feel heard and validated rather than awkward or ashamed. They think it was about having a partner, but really it was about acceptance and the harsh way society has treated them. They're filling one need in the guise of another.

That or they're just kinda happy with a super shallow and superficial imitation of a relationship, IDK. That shit was never good enough for me.

Personally, I always felt a partner needs to be able to surprise you. Part of a relationship is learning who they are as a person, and the most beautiful things about them are often the most unexpected. An AI GF is something you create, that is shaped by how you interact with it. It's not the same. It's like dating a terminal people pleaser who's trying too hard to be anything she thinks you want.

>>81834631
I think a lot about things. I just generally have no desire to share my thoughts with anyone else and I usually choose not too unless someone asks me a question.

>>81834440
This ain't it. It's just that in social situations, no matter how much you rehearse those basic questions, your mind goes blank. Or you already infer the answer by observing them so you don't think to ask a question you already know the answer to. Or all your attempts to start a conversation fall flat so you panic. The easiest way to define it is not knowing what to say, but in reality it's a complex cluster with the core problem of double empathy.

>>81834874
> For girls it's having the fantasy boyfriend they see in their yaoi cartoons. They listen, they give positive feedback.
Cool but what do I do with them if I'm not interested in that. I don't affirmation sorta, I'd find it myself if person could just talk about himself and then I catch something relatable

>>81834960
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Personally, I always felt a partner needs to be able to surprise you. Part of a relationship is learning who they are as a person, and the most beautiful things about them are often the most unexpected.
Yeah, exactly how I feel about it all

>>81835006
I guess a lot of people disagree. I never got the concept of 'types', you know? So you have this preconceived idea of what your ideal partner is like, and if the person you're with isn't that, it makes them less appealing? How the fuck does that sound healthy for either of you? You're wanting them to be something they aren't, or they're constantly aware they aren't your ideal. But that's the norm for some reason. Shouldn't you be trying to learn who they are rather than holding them to some arbitrary standard?

>>81834689
I know. Even I as a moid can't relate to them nor what they're saying. A guy spends his day neeting, plays brainrot type of vidya where you just smash buttons and yell, rest of the day is donating mom's money to e-girls and porn crushes, then the guy complains how all women are whores for not wanting him.

But there are filtering options. Females were better at it back in the day. Simple way is to let the guy talk. If he has hobbies, he should not have trouble entertaining you with a story. Even if it is an autistic rant about how an awesome historic empire went into ashes because of a misunderstanding. Or he likes dogs and describes the breeds and their traits and how he once had such dog and how their friendship went. Positive minded men always have something to talk about.

>>81834989
FUCK. This has been my biggest problem when it comes to socializing with normies. I can kind of mask alright if I'm operating at 100%(which is almost never) but if I'm burntout or stressed, I cant think of anything to say at all. Its pretty bad right now. People will ask me something and I literally just want to stare and stay mute but I have to force myself to respond. Do you work or are you neet?

>>81835108
I'm neet at the moment, I go in and out of jobs.
You'll also find that a lot of this is just not feeling comfortable around the person you're talking to because they're a neurotypical and on a subconscious level you recognize that dealing with their kind is a stressful experience with a lot of miscommunication. You probably don't realise you're not comfortable around them because alexithymia, though. It really helps me whenever I can spend time with fellow autists I click with on a regular basis. In person, too - that's an important part because otherwise you won't pick up on those subtle differences between NT and ND and you nervous system is just gonna think it's another neurotypical anyway

>>81835378
>I go in and out of jobs
Yeah same. I just can't seem to manage working a full time job. I can manage for months at a time but I always tend to crack eventually and fall apart. I kind of got lucky with my current job though. Part time, nighttime warehouse thing. Plenty of other social weirdos there, not too much pressure to keep up with normal people in and there's actually people that don't seem to mind how I am. Which I haven't found at any other job I've had.
>It really helps me whenever I can spend time with fellow autists I click with on a regular basis
Do you have many friends? Where do you meet other autists? I think I have maybe two friends and a couple acquaintances at this point. Which I don't think is very much by normie standards but I haven't had any friends for the past 6 years. So I'd say that's pretty good for me.

>>81834996
Have you considered you might not be the target audience? Not everyone needs to like the same thing just because they also happen to have a vagina. If you don't see the appeal then that's that. Other people do.
Shit's not complicated.