i hope he comes to regret throwing me away. even his best friend said that was a stupid move.

he does. he still got over it though:

>"yeah i fucked up. oh well"

>>81835705
No clue what this drama is, but this mentality is weird.
>I regret something I can fix, but I won't.

>>81835954

can he fix it though. once you fuck up a relationship its over, theres no going back

>>81835965
You can in many cases. Look around this place, so many people cry out daily for someone who disappeared to come back. In most cases it can be repaired.

>>81835976
>"so many people cry out daily for someone who disappeared to come back"
>"This is proof that once you fuck up a relationship, you can fix it"
O_o

>>81835976
no, you cant fix it. but i understand why you would want your ex to try

>>81836004
I don't get how that's controversial. People fix broken connections all the time or seek for them to be fixed. Friends become friends again, sometimes people who break up date again. It's not a zero sum game where you get once chance ever. That's not to say it's a guarantee that all connections can be fixed, but quite a large number can be.

>>81836024
Most things can be repaired if people are willing to repair them.

>>81836051
you cant repair love once broken

>>81836034
It's not "controversial," it's out of touch with reality. Those dudes crying about being dumped aren't there to be picked from and un-dumped, they're there to whine until they get over it. Their relationships are not going to be fixed.

>>81836058
Why do so many people in the real world get back together then? Do you think people magically forget about someone and fall out of love with someone who breaks up with them?

>>81836070
because they hope against reality, they hope they can fix it. but they know it's not like before, that love once broken cannot be mended.

>>81836078
>>81836070
thism akes me so angry. yuo can love strongly again after adversity. you can love again if ppl try. it a short life so if ur not gong to try your best htne why are u trying. people who throw others away so easy lkiek that are making bigm mistakes.

what a derailed thread

>>81836107
pretend to be a girl and erp jerking me off

>>81836100
im sorry, im not trying to make you angry. i simply speak from experience. after love js broken, there's no choice but to move on. it can never be like it was before.

>>81836078
Yet 40-50% of people who break up do get back together, you are free to look this up if you want to.
>love once broken cannot be mended
Love is something that is built, it isn't a one time magical force where you meet "the one." It's all about the effort put in. People do mend it all the time, and some refuse to mend it after being stung.

>>81836117
yes love is all that. but once broken, there's no repairing it. the crack is permanent

>>81836129
>>81836116
love is powerful. love is the strongest thing ever. real true love. you can paint over the crakcs with gold and reapir it stronger. the crack isnt permanent if people try. nothing is ever pefrect people going to get sad and hurt but. why dont they try???

>>81836129
Like, I got married less than two years after I broke contact with a woman that I had orbited for more than five years.
There is no chance for her. I'm freakin' married.


Time marches on and there is no going back.

>>81836129
Only resentful people won't let cracks heal, not everyone is like that. This is doomer non-sense. My grandparents broke up when they were young, got back together, and stayed together forever over 50 years. This isn't some mystical scenario, you just either feel like some connection you have you don't want to heal or someone refused to heal their connection with you.

>>81836137
they dont try because they know there's no going back to the way it was before. and they want to keep looking elsewhere

>>81836143
This we agree on time does move on if no one does anything, which is why connections people regret losing should be mended as soon as possible if both people want that connection restored.

>>81836154
do you want that old connection with that person though? or do you simply miss having a connection like that with someone

>>81836148
then they're FUCKING RETARDED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>81836154
That's a big if, and it's wrong to say that all connections should be restored.

>>81836163
This depends entirely on the mentality of the person involved. For me personally, I want the connection I had with that exact person. I know I could get a connection like that again, but I do not want that. To me people cannot be replaced.

>>81836168
be honest. you dont miss your ex. what you miss is having a deep connection with someone.

>>81836178
Not all should, but most can be if people are willing. There are scenarios it's impossible of course.

>>81836188
wrong! wrong wrong wrong! wrong wrong worng wrong wrong wrong wrong!!! i miss them! every day every minute every hour!

i miss them and they are once in a lifetime, not one in 100,000!!!!!!

>>81836185
>i want the connection i had with that exact person
do you. sounds like you only saw them as a prop.

>>81836199
>once in a lifetime
how do you know? you havent even lived out your whole life yet.

>>81836200
>do you. sounds like you only saw them as a prop.
You know nothing about my situation, and nothing I said implied that what so ever. If they were a prop then I would only miss the connection and not the person. That's the exact opposite of what I said.

>>81836185
If you don't currently have a connection with that person, then it's not the actual person that you want to be with, but the idea of that person, and any person can fulfill your idea of that person.
If people cannot be replaced, then don't replace everyone else with one connection, and don't force someone that you think you care for into a slot they don't fit into.

>>81836206
i have lived out a long life. i know what i know. and i know what i feel and i know i will feel like this for YEARS

>>81836210
true. it's just the way you worded it:
>"i want the connection i had with that exact person"

sounds like you didnt know them at all~

>>81836220
oh you'll be fine.

>>81836232
I WON'T BE FINE!!! I'm not fine. i'm not fine now and i won't be for a long time. i hate it because i know what i'm going to be like for years as i roil around like this!!!!!! i've done this before i don't ever want to do it again i want. i want them. i want them back...

;;

>>81836245
;;

sigh. im sorry.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XiaviaTYZF0

>>81836248
;w;

im sorry too.,

>>81836219
If you cherish the time you spent with someone so much that you seek only that person, then you do like and care for that person. That real thing that happened, and the real time you spent is not an "idea." How in any regard is caring about a specific person replacing others, or having feelings forcing someone into slot? It's wishing to reconnect with someone you truly cared for. What you said makes absolutely no sense, it is just a giant faulty logic loop to accuse someone of not caring for zero reason.

>>81836253
just shut off your emotions for awhile and live in the moment

>>81836269
>you seek only that person
Psycho behavior, restraining order worthy

>>81836270
in what moment? the moment knowing theyre gone? so when i turn my emotions back on again it all comes back in again? OH I HATE THIS. i want hugs from them ;; not this...

>>81836281
aww it'll be ok
*gives you fat hairy naked old man hug*

>>81836274
>Wanting to be with a certain person instead of other people who like you too is psycho behaviour
Anon, I truly hope you are baiting. Liking one person more than another person is what love is.

>>81836292
f-from them nonny, but i appreciate the gesture nonetheless

>>81836294
And sometimes that other person doesn't like you back, so you have to forget about them and get over it.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7qFfFVSerQo

when my ex left, i wanted to hang myself and cried for days, listening to this on repeat. i would text her everday until she blocked me. she unblocked me later, and i slowly healed over time. it took about a year and a half maybe 2 years to heal in full. my eyes get a little watery listening to this and thinking about it, but that's from remembering how sad i was and not because i miss her now.

shit sucked man but im alright i suppose

>>81836301
that fat tard hijacked our thread convo, he is not me, he is just some horny goon

>>81836281
you just have to turn off your emotions for now.

>>81836324
HEY
I am not just some horny goon
I care

>>81836228
It sounds like you are just being mean to posters for no reason
>>81836315
I agree with that, eventually when enough time passes and there is no hope of reconciliation you have to move on and just remember the happy times you shared. This however in no way means that if they were the one to try and reconcile things then it's "doomed" like you claim. It's only doomed if they were to do so when I wasn't single.

>>81836333
Bro I'm sorry bro but you're cooked

>>81836281
What are they like? I am sorry you hurt so much. I hope you feel better soon.

>>81836333
you talk like some fucking redditor, it's obnoxious. my part in this thread is done anyway, multiple people are interjecting.

>>81836357
hello, I'm the idea of your crush. want to make out?

>>81836331
I'm a horny goon and I don't care about you at all. I just want to use you to take my pent up frustrations out on

>>81836365
Well, that's the difference.
I care. Good day

>>81836324
well i give anyone free (you)s

>>81836329
therse no point, i would have to turn them off for 3+ yuears, i am an aobsessive lover

>>81836354
they are the first colour on the rainbow. they are the mildew on the grass in the morning. my head si completely brainwashed for threm.they have been ntohing but nice to me always no matter how bad thing swere.

>>81836357
>you talk like some fucking redditor, it's obnoxious
Never used that site sorry. Being perpetually spiteful and tilting windmills doesn't make you fit in more.

>>81836380
>red
>dew

I broke up with my e-gf 3 months ago and I still miss her. I think she said she was open to going back together but I dismissed it. Don't think I'll get over her no matter what.

>>81836399
i am going to give you a swirly you geek.

>>81836399
mountain dew i love you why wont you return my calls please mountain dew why wont you forgive me i swear if you came back id be good please mountain dew please please please come back to me mountain dew i love you so much and i wouldnt know what to do if any harm came to you please tell me that youre doing ok mountain dew

>>81836421
STOP!!! STOP!!!!!! IM NOT OWNEDF!!!! IM NOT OWNED!!!!!

>>81836380
I hope everyone sees the people they care about again

>>81836446
i hope
the whole world
can be happy someday

>>81836371
Bye bitch. Try to not shed on the carpet when you leave

>>81836454
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJX9jUVJ5SQ

>>81836512
not religious or spiritualist sorry

>>81836535
Isn't it a nice thought though, that we'll all gather to one place when it's all done to celebrate?
And it's Willie.

>>81835690 (OP)
>Still thinking about him while he fucks your friends
True sis

>>81836549
naming your dildo after them so you can moan their name while you fuck yourself

No women is worth the price of a man's peace. His best friend is just trying to fuck you from the sounds of it.

>>81836419
you sound stupid