Why do ALL women reject me? - /r9k/ (#81838483) [Archived: 324 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:28:24 PM No.81838483
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It doesn't matter how much a woman is into me initially. I have the same problem with women who approach me to tell me i'm good looking, ask me out, simp for me initially. They ALL lose interest in me anywhere from 5 mins - a few weeks after they get to know me.


Just a few months ago a girl started showing interest in me again, she'd grab my hand, compliment me, for the first time in my life I actually managed to take her to bed. Afterwards things were good and we still made flirty comments at each other and said we should do it again but this too died down and now we're just awkward acquaintances and I can tell she wishes she could tell me to fuck off.

I don't understand how ALL women have the same programming. A woman can be head over heels for you and then she'll see you cross your legs the wrong way, get the ick and be disgusted at your mere presence from that point forward.
Why are they ALL like this? There is so little fucking variation in women. An alt goth girl and a blonde starbucks hoe have more in common with each other than 2 autist incels playing COD together.

This shit will be the reason why I jump in front of a train someday. I'm fucking sick of nearing my 30s and not being able to get what every little skibidi toilet faggot 15yo gets handed to him as a byproduct of simply being alive.
It's not like i'm some kind of weirdo that REEEEEEs at women, i'm just shy and awkward.
Fuck.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:30:03 PM No.81838497
>>81838483 (OP)
become ligmapilled and every worry will go away
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:32:10 PM No.81838514
>>81838483 (OP)
Because you're too nice
Same shit happened to me but I just stopped giving a fuck about women and realized the less of a fuck you give the more they chase you and give a fuck.
Also you took a chick to bed and didn't fuck her aka you weren't assertive/low inhibition enough so yeah you're too nice OP.
be a bit more aggressive but not too much.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:34:25 PM No.81838535
>>81838483 (OP)
You are probably not cute enough for her to overlook your autism.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:35:09 PM No.81838543
>>81838514
>Also you took a chick to bed and didn't fuck her aka you weren't assertive/low inhibition enough so yeah you're too nice OP.
I did fuck her, it was just the first time I had sex with a non-prostitute so I didn't know how to do foreplay and it was terrible. But later she went out of her own way to say we should do it again.

What do you mean by "aggressive"? when I tried to tease her a bit and insult her playfully she basically said I was acting girly.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:35:47 PM No.81838548
>>81838483 (OP)
>he has women show interest in him
Normalfag, leave immediately.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:37:13 PM No.81838559
>>81838548
Doesn't do much if I can't fuck them, retard.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:40:38 PM No.81838596
>>81838559
Does it hurt being a failed normalfag?
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:46:40 PM No.81838660
>>81838483 (OP)
i agree but two autist incels playing COD together are also pretty boring. men arent nearly as interesting as they think they are
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 6:50:21 PM No.81838691
>>81838596
yeah, it does. I only ascended recently in my mid 20s.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 7:14:46 PM No.81838977
>>81838543
>Having sex with prostitutes
Women would rather reward trash like this
Lmao
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 7:15:22 PM No.81838985
>>81838483 (OP)
how is this guy lonely he is handsome and mogs me so much
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:41:04 PM No.81839910
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:42:14 PM No.81839923
>>81838985
Because he's not lonely and pretends so he can get attention. Makes you more relatable as they say
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 8:56:58 PM No.81840084
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>>81838483 (OP)

fellow 30something here,

I used to work in bars and women and men would compliment me on my face. I got exactly zero hoes and bitches, even those who said I had a really beautiful face. I just never had the personality to go along with it, I didn't know how to talk "like a man" would to women, how to flirt and escalate things and eventually just gay-zoned myself because I talked about autistic topics like looksmaxxing. Plus I was picky and wanted thicc voluptuous women only (a demohraphic that likes gymbros and dislikes scrawny pretty boys).
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:01:27 PM No.81840132
>>81838483 (OP)
F. Somehow as a bald manlet, I get some interest from foids. But they always get the ick from my brutally honest and direct profile, and also from the rare times that I get a convo. My 'tism and incel insecurity will always drive them away, even if they claim sympathy.
After two days of sexual conversation, one bitch actually came to my home; she hated my place, and walked out after 30 seconds. I warned her it wasn't great; she couldn't do it at hers because she had room-mates. I'll never host a first time again. I wonder how long I have to wait for the next chance to fuck up.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:04:22 PM No.81840177
i USED to be able to fuck any girl i met from online dating
in the last 6 months, however, i've had a 100% failure rate, i even met a korean girl irl once who was so interested she asked to hang out with me the next day, then inexplicably she rejected me that day too

so it seems ive somehow become extremely ugly and my persoiynality has gone to shit all in just 6 months... or more likely foids standards have just skyrocketed
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:12:09 PM No.81840258
>>81840132
Just go to a hotel/motel anon and get them hooked with sex first. Why would you bring a stranger to your house as easy as that anyway, you don't even know if they'll steal from you
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:17:51 PM No.81840320
>>81840258
I'm too NEET for that. I don't have much to steal.
I was hoping it was be an ongoing fuck-meet thing, and she was talking that way too.
Escorts thought my place was okay, even cosy, but that obviously means nothing now.
Still never had unpaid cunny. FML.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:21:00 PM No.81840351
>>81840132
>brutally honest and direct profile

I don't understand? They get turned off when you talk to them without filter?
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 9:38:42 PM No.81840531
>>81840351
On sites, I get profile views, but no follow up. So they clicked for the photos, and the profile gave them the ick.
They evidently hate it when a non-Chad is making sexual references and heavy implications. The idea is that if they still message, then they must be interested and they have some information that helps escalate the situation. Yet the convo always goes in the shitter anyway. I lost out on seven chances this year (mostly older women); by giving them the ick in convo, or they had red flags of their own. Even on fuck apps, women expect the princess treatment.
I can't date (NEET/asocial), so all I can do is fuck them. I'm just looking for a frequent partner. Yet this is too bad (or too 'clinical') for them to proceed with. They'd do it for Chad though. I have recently gotten even more honest in some of my profiles by saying outright that I have barely had sex. Socially anxious, sexually anxious. Might attract a 'fixer' woman. Some supposedly autist/homebody types have started to show up on the radar.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 10:16:21 PM No.81840976
>>81840320
Can you post some pics of your place anon, blur whatever you need. Now I'm curious