Thread 81842403 - /r9k/ [Archived: 297 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/15/2025, 11:56:24 PM No.81842403
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What's it like having a female friend? Are they nicer than guy friends?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:05:20 AM No.81842520
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>>81842403 (OP)
idk, theyre all different. but in general they are nicer in my experience. more willing to put effort into the friendship than men.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:05:27 AM No.81842521
>>81842403 (OP)
Impossible since there has never been a male-female friendship (where both are young) where the male creature only has platonic feelings. Male creatures are incapable of friendship with women, you should know this by now unless you're underage, OP.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:05:55 AM No.81842528
no, they bitch about their exes, current boyfriends and hookup shenanigans (how they can't lock up a chad).
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:06:23 AM No.81842533
They just use you for your male abilities because they think you are a simp.

No such a thing as a genuine male-female friendship.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:06:49 AM No.81842541
>>81842403 (OP)
>Are they nicer than guy friends?
In my experience, the answer is generally yes, but you're also liable to receive some stupid bullshit that no dude would ever do to you
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:07:05 AM No.81842544
>>81842403 (OP)
It was good, she was brazilian, talked to me everyday until she stopped and I realized she got cooler friends to talk with.
Nicer probably, she used to do asuka poses for me. But a guy friend is just better in the end.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:08:47 AM No.81842570
>>81842403 (OP)
Can't imagine having a female friend. Why would you offer her your insight and attention while she offers her body to other men? Literal cuck behavior but maybe that's just my opinion.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:10:11 AM No.81842592
>>81842521
>Male creatures are incapable of friendship with women
They can be friends with ugly women. The only reason women don't have similar problems is because most women think most men are ugly.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:11:12 AM No.81842601
>>81842570
But what if she hugs you and talks to you about stuff? Could be cool
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:15:35 AM No.81842654
>>81842403 (OP)
I'm a faggot, so naturally, my experience with women is different.
>What's it like having a female friend?
Honestly, never a dull moment. Women live for fucking drama. No matter how well their lives are going, they will find a reason to bitch, gossip, and create problems. Which I find entertaining. Beats hanging around with happy guys who either brag, have nothing to talk about, or try to help you like you're a project to be worked on. Not that I don't appreciate the sentiment of the last one, but I just want to fucking chill when I'm with friends.
>Are they nicer than guy friends
Yes, but. Don't take their niceness at face value. Like I said, they love their drama. They are 100% talking shit about you behind your back. Also, if you gain their trust, you will hear shit that will probably put you off women forever.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:37:00 AM No.81842883
>>81842403 (OP)
One of my best friends is a woman. We have been friends for close to 20 years now (we're 30something boomers). We have never dated or hooked up. We had a discussion about potentially dating once. We both decided we are much better off as friends and wouldn't work as lovers. Anyways, it's nice doing/learning about stuff I wouldn't normally be exposed to with my guy friends. I also like getting a woman's perspective when I need advice. She has given me some really good advice, both for dating and for other situations. I've done the same for her too.

>inb4 simp, beta, she's just using you bro
She is very generous and has never once made me feel used or exploited. She insists on paying most of the time when we do things and go places, even if it was my idea. Any time I have needed her help or someone to talk to she drops everything to be there for me. We are on each other's phone as emergency contacts. If I ever get married (>implying I even have a gf) I'd ask her to be a groomsman.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:41:40 AM No.81842952
>>81842592
It doesn't have to with ugliness or attractiveness, it's about testosterone. Men should be castrated, simple.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:51:03 AM No.81843082
>>81842952
>doesn't have to with ugliness or attractiveness
No, it definitely does. If you found more men to be attractive, you'd have a harder time being just friends with them. Like since you think most men are unattractive, you don't really an issue having platonic relationships with them.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:52:13 AM No.81843101
>>81842883
That sounds like a good friendship, anon. Wish I had something like that. How does she treat you when she has a boyfriend though? That's never caused any issues?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:13:53 AM No.81843379
>>81843101
Not really, besides she is understandably busier and has less free time when she has a bf. But she doesn't completely disappear and cut me out of her life. She still makes time for me when she is in a relationship. When she starts talking to a new guy she is always upfront with the fact she has a very close guy friend and if he (the new guy) is insecure about that and makes an ultimatum he'll lose.

I do something similar when I'm seeing someone. Most girls are cool with it after meeting my friend and realizing there isn't any sexual tension between us. They generally like that you're able to see women as more than just sex objects. One ex asked for a few random phone checks to see if I had any nudes of her and make sure nothing was going on. One nutjob FWB lost her damn mind about me having a female friend. Full on banshee screaming accusing me of fucking my friend behind her back and demanding to know if she or my friend was better at sucking my dick and which one of them had better tits.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:15:56 AM No.81843405
>>81842403 (OP)
I wouldn't say she's nicer than my guy friends, but I also don't tolerate mean friends in general. I don't mind banter or whatever though and I don't regard that as mean.

She'll have some very silly woman brained ideas sometimes that I have to explain in length why she shouldn't do, which can be a tad bit annoying.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:50:54 AM No.81843829
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>>81842403 (OP)
They are typically nicer and more expressive, so they it can be cool if you're into that kind of thing. Honestly I've found women get boring pretty quick since so many of them are either desperately inoffensive of sjw types. Honestly I've always favored the tomboy, openly degenerate, and loud/chill types but they always seem to get run out of any places I join pretty quick (either by haters or creeps). I'll say that women are typically more likely to invite you to do things with them and that can be nice since nobody ever seems to want to do things.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:56:28 AM No.81843893
>>81842403 (OP)
they are better at being nice in the moment, but it's been out of politeness and social acceptability rather than care in my experience. if you can get over that and accept that she's both not attracted to you and is actively pursuing the people she's actually attracted to, go for it. it builds perspective if nothing else.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:52:00 AM No.81845075
>>81842403 (OP)

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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:58:28 AM No.81845130
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>>81842403 (OP)

>female friend, le heckin' female friendarinos guys!
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:21:30 AM No.81845342
>>81842403 (OP)
idk i've basically only had female friends