stop teaching men to lovebomb. faggot knew me for 2 weeks, confessed (acted like he was in love with me), and retracted that confession 5 days later because i wanted to wait a little (emphasis on a little) bit before showing my face.

Your fault for dating an oofy doofy simp faggot

>>81847643 (OP)
>stop teaching men to lovebomb
Some of us are naturals

>>81847643 (OP)
dont call him a faggot thats uncalled for

from experience if you don't lovebomb they get bored and ghost. i don't like doing it either but if i don't she'll leave for a guy who does.

>>81847649
we didnt even date. he was trying to use me to replace his 3 month (online) situationship that ghosted him, but realized i wasnt going to be like her, lol. i still have to talk to him because hes apart of the (failing) friend group im in. so thats fun

>>81847650
>>81847656
just end yourself atp

I lovebombed a girl because i'm afraid of her dumping me. I don't want to retun to inceldom. At least this isn't an online relationship.

>>81847687
>just end yourself atp
whyy what did i do
im nice

>>81847687
would you rather the guy slowly build interest in you over months instead or something? it sounds like the issue isn't actually the timeframe it's that he was faking it.

>>81847687
Lmao and yet you're dumping this crap here, why? Accelerate the demise of your faggot friend group.

i mean why would you let yourself get invested into a woman if you dont even know what she looks like?

how the fuck do you get into these weird relationships and where do I find my clingy obsessive romantic gf

>>81847763
This. Send your face to everyone but him

>>81847643 (OP)
You fucking fembots aren't happy with shit. Honestly just stop fucking dating if you're going to be unhappy because someone doesn't fit your fucking standards that are high you dumb bitch

>>81847779
>>81847811
are there some hidden words in my post i dont remember writing what the fuck are you guys on about

>>81847743
he was definitely faking it. i wouldn't of minded something rushed but it was literally 5 days. thats very rushed

>>81847763
wheres the rule that says i cant blogpost anon? its annoying not illegal

>>81847772
to make sure your personality works together first? looks are temporary

Is it lovebombing to tell a girl you'll never leave her, after just a few hours?

>>81847643 (OP)
can you give an example of what lovebombing looks like over text or voice call? I'm learning from others' mistakes

>>81847643 (OP)
acting like you're my soulmate and i'm completely enamored is the only way you'll ever maybe put out for me since i'm not chad, it doesn't always work but sometimes it does and that's good enough for me, i will throw a tantrum when it doesn't work though

>>81847887
yes omg?

>>81847891
its hard to notice in the moment desu, but if its very soon in the relationship and you guys are acting like boyfriend/girlfriend, run.

>>81847931
>yes omg?
What if she obviously wanted that from me, and I meant it?

>>81847946
its still immoral because theres no trust ti back you up

>>81847984
>theres no trust ti back you up
What could I have done about that? I can only make myself worthy of it, with time and consistency

>>81847643 (OP)
I like how foids always go for the dick shaming jokes and ad hom without fail. That's all they have because they're retarded. lmao
>>81847811 fucking preach bro

>>81847931
it's so difficult sometimes to hold back and not express your love for them and desire to make them your whole world, because you really feel that in the moment. and it can actually feel wrong, at least for me, not to express that, it feels like you were given the gift of love and withholding it from your bf or gf is a terrible mistake with cosmic consequences. there is this conflict between present desire and long-term relationship planning.

>>81847643 (OP)
>>81847931
Why can't I make my interest immediately clear? I have never approached anyone, but I'd definitely lean into lovebombing if I did. I just wouldn't be able to help it.

>>81848005
where did i say that

>>81848044
this is fair im just traumatized because it happens all the time
really depends on your intention and such

>>81847779
Send your pussy to everyone but him actually
>>81847869
Nobody cares, whore. Kill yourself.

>>81847643 (OP)
>men are so starved for affection that the slightest effort of being nice towards the random man makes them fall in love with you
>this even works with men sometimes
H-haha yeah, couldn't be me.

>>81847643 (OP)
>stop teaching men to lovebomb
People don't teach men anything. We're all just winging it.

>>81847656
If they are getting bored and ghost then you should stay the hell away

>>81847643 (OP)
Why do you zoomers love this artsyle so much

>>81848258
everyone needs love and it's okay to admit it and recharge even if it gets awkward
youre unique and your experience has value to someone and you always have potentials to be creative and loving and be loved

>>81848333
Thanks for the hollow platitudes, anon.

>>81847656
>from experience if you don't lovebomb they get bored and ghost.
You're not only establishing an expectation that you cannot sustain long-term, but it's without substance. Even if you do not suffer the ailments of a mental illness that compels you to love-bomb and then turn away, the issue that you aren't chill and interesting enough for people to want to be around you naturally is going to be an issue. Someone who is interesting and not stressful to be around is someone who will attract people naturally.

This statement goes out to you and everyone in this thread that defends this practice. It's not cute; it's as toxic and hollow a practice as you are because it's not real. It's a hasteful move rooted in fear, not love, compassion, or peace. It is an illusion and a form of manipulation that robs both people of real, genuine human connection. I don't say this out of anger or hate, but out of sincerity. I hope that someday, the people who exhibit this can make those real human connections without fearing the worst and inflicting the worst back.

>>81848353
>interesting and not stressful
Defin interesting because I am the chillest nigga in the VC

>>81848344
they're an expression of my desire to connect with individual anons, an outcry from within my soul and the last convulsions of the remnants of the internet

>>81848418
Maybe, but just because everyone needs love doesn't mean everyone will get it.

>>81848353
>Just Have Charisma
Just Kill Yourself

>>81848405
Possessing interests (a 'world') of one's own independent of others. A drive for one's interests, hobbies, and passions that extends to your character as a whole. An interesting person has his own thoughts, feelings, and motivations. You can be chill and still be a dull fuck, see? You've got to have a life outside of the person you're lovebombing. That makes you not only more interesting, but less overwhelming and fatiguing to be around because you're not reliant on another person to function/exist.
>>81848438
You can be interesting and not have much charisma. A great deal of the people who lovebomb are hollow as hell and just live day to day, often making other people their 'worlds' and living as if by extension or attachment. Just because you're reserved or potentially socially inept doesn't mean you'll live a life without any passions or meaning. I'm diagnosed as autistic, and don't do well in many kinds of social functions, but never has someone who spent time around me said I'm boring because I live a driven life where I want to learn and discover things, and actively endeavor towards these things regularly.

>>81848510
Consider that I live a driven life full of passion and that people are bored around me because I lack charisma, faggot.

>>81847643 (OP)
LOL. Take him home and fuck him if you want to keep a man. The good ones will stay and keep fucking you. Women act like men are some enigma... No shit he retracted his confession and dumped you when you failed to show interest and fuck him for five whole days. U are lucky he gave your dumpy ass five whole seconds to get with the program and suck him dry

>>81847777
In anime bro.
Actually I had that in middle school/high
Then the dumb bitch broke up with me.
Then obssessed about me but refused to ask me back out. Most likely wanted me to make the reconnect move. Dumb bitch.
Then she tried being a lesbian and a bunch of weird shit because she mind broke herself.

>>81849987
She was your second half and you wasted your one chance at love because you refused to forgive her for one common mistake and thus you destroyed her life

>>81847643 (OP)
I lovebomb girls but I mean it. I fall in love easily, got married in 20's, divorced in my 30's because she cheated, am now dating again