I am using dating apps and it is so brutal. I get no matches no matter what I write to women. I must be so fucking ugly.

>>81847647 (OP)
You're most likely just plain/boring

i meet people organically/irl because apps have been useless since i turned 30, and app people are weird. Currently tapping (non-exclusively) a 24-year-old slut who mostly sees women but i'm the exception :3

>>81847678
Yeah so what most people are boring. Also I don't think I am boring like most people think of themselves. I am just very nerdy. With dating apps it is all about looks or they would at least match with me. I can't do irl because of my autism.

>>81847647 (OP)
It's worse when you get matches and none of them reply, giving you false hope so you use it for weeks to no avail

>>81847700
It's about your ability to take flattering photos. Are yours all head-on sadboy selfies?

If you can't do irl, wtf do you want a gf for? You can sit at home on your own.

>>81847717
Yeah that is also pretty bad. I have used duo and more girls there reply to you but only once and then they ignore you. It is all just a huge waste of time.

>>81847742
Some yeah but not all.
Because then I could do things with her.

>>81847774
you can also do things without her. things where you'd meet people. No one wants to be your babysitter. Exposure therapy works.

>>81847786
I tried that and can't connect with people there. I went to a board game meeting and to an animie con and I could not bring myself to talk to people.

>>81847796
two whole things? :O

those are a bit generic too.

i go to alt/punk/goth/queer/furry things

are you too much of a normie for that?

>>81847647 (OP)
Foids are only on there to see how many likes they get and to hook up with Chad at his convenience. Delete your account. It's only contributing to the problem by validating the platform. Us being on there is akin to the marketing trick where they produce a shitty version of something so more people will buy the premium version. Stop being used.

>>81847812
No idea what you mean with normie. No I don't like loud music, tattoos, parties etc. all of this shit is for normalfags.
All of this is anyway pointless alone I feel like just sitting at home and doing nothing because nothing I do changes anything.
>>81847841
But I have no idea where to meet women. Like I have said I can't do irl I am way to awkward and shy for that.

>>81847874
lots of things have quieter spaces, and everyone uses earplugs at music things. Learn to fully insert them, carry a couple types for different amplitudes and frequency curves, and you may find you do enjoy loud things. or just stay away from the loud.

you could also just go play Magic with autistic transfems, or go to other nerd/gamer things.

are you at least keeping a calendar of things you want to do at home? that's a good first step

>>81847678
Boring = not being a 6'5 white with gigachad face

>I get no matches no matter what I write to women
But you can't write anything to them before you have matched.
I think you're lying.

>>81847874
>But I have no idea where to meet women
At work is a good place, if it's not too prestigious and you're about the same level experience.

>>81847916
i'm 5'7"

different people like different things, and women are people

>>81847924
>at work
Please don't. >:(

>>81847934
>t. cockblocker

>>81847911
Why would I go to a concert with earplugs and just stand there in a crowd of people and listen to music I don't like? What is the point of that other than wasting money and my time?
Also I don't want anything to do with trannies, I told you I want a gf.
>are you at least keeping a calendar of things you want to do at home?
No because I honestly don't want to go anywhere alone anymore it is all very stressful for me. I honestly don't see the point anymore. Going to the con alone was already nearly too much for me.

>>81847921
I use dating apps where you can do that.
>>81847924
There are no women at work and I already said I can't do irl. I am a shy guy.

>>81847929
Get married to one or go through ones phone and you will quickly find out their nasty little hivemind

>>81847982
I am a OP and women don't care about height I am 189cm (6'2).

>>81847958
Do you have co-workers you can go out to eat and have drinks with?

>>81847994
I have coworkers but I am autistic so I can't connect with them I only know them briefly. I think everyone underestimates what autism means.

>>81848024
you have a job. i'm struggling to even do that and i fuck. (You) shouldn't though, judging from (You)r previous posts.

>>81848045
forgot to say i have an autism diagnosis and can't pass phone screenings

>>81848045
You have no idea how much I struggle. Did you ever heard about the concept of loveshy? That is me. I thought it would be easier with dating apps appa where women already show basic interest from the start and we both know that we want to date but it is impossible.

>>81847678
Are you the same anon who talked about meeting a girl(probably male) in an orgy? If yes then you're both gross.

It's ilegal to talk to women in 2025

>>81847678
>irl
Theres no way to meet women irl
>at work
A good way to get reported to hr and fired, also every girl has a good dozen of orbitters already