>>81847889 (OP)1. why would you want to learn a new skill? it is not fundamentally satisfying, the need to constantly "improve", especially in things you will never be more than mediocre at, is retarded.
2. why would i learn a new skill in a social environment? an environment where you are judged, constantly passive aggressively "competed" with, and that is not actually good for learning. why would i not learn and practice shit on my own which is objectively better for results and learning? or with a single person teaching you.
"activism" in the modern sense is retarded and for women and low iqs, it's not learning anything it's a bunch of unthinking clowns screaming
book clubs? what are they reading? modern publisher slop for the last 20 years or more has excluded male authors and anything catering to male tastes. i'm not gonna read your dogshit and pretend your 2deep4u opinion on it matters.
meetups? to do what? i'm not just gonna travel to sit and have coffee in a room with strangers, barely converse or get interacted with and then leave, sounds like a real waste of time and money. the average woman is boring as sin, kind of stupid but actually has been told and thus thinks she's incredibly intelligent, and unable to actually handle even the remotest discomfort of disagreement or opinion she doesn't share let alone be able to understand the reasoning when explained. they are not exactly great to simply "hang out" with unless you've known them 20 years and already vetted that they can at least hold a conversation without melting down.
men want wives, nowhere is conducive to giving them wives, thus men will not go to those places they will remain in the places that are comfortable and offer what they enjoy instead.