robots, have you ever been sexually obsessed with a woman? like you are always lusting after her and don't even notice anybody else? my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you? i need to learn

yeah. she was beautiful and intelligent. she dominated my emotions

>>81855920 (OP)
i go through short phases of being obsessed with one girl and it is always because they are hot so just become hot i guess

YOU have to like the thing he likes
HE has to be better than that thing

>>81855920 (OP)
fuck u succubus im not helping you

>>81855920 (OP)
just be nice :l

ot won't work on chad though..

>>81855920 (OP)
The girl I'm obsessed with posts on 4chan with a CJ thumbnail asking anons how is it possible for a woman to get a man obssesed over her.

>>81855920 (OP)
This happened, she was simply complex, interesting, etc, and had good looks to support that. You need both to instill those levels of obsession.
It was so bad that I was still hopelessly obsessed even after she cheated on me. Maybe because she kept trying to remedy things after, too.
I'm not everybody though. Some normgroids are superficial and good personality won't matter with them.

>>81855920 (OP)
>men admitting that stacy is all that matters while screaming about women and chad on r9k all day
Huh so it was always pot calling the kettle black

>>81856113
Who admited to this?

>>81856119
All the replies above, dear ragepait poster.

>>81855920 (OP)
>like you are always lusting after her and don't even notice anybody else?
They need to become codependent on you somewhat, for lonely dudes I think the best way is to fulfill more than his romantic or sexual desires, like if he wants a maternal figure become his maternal figure if he wants a friendship bond you need to become both his girlfriend and best friend

>>81856131
None of them are talking about a stacy besides maybe >>81855949

>>81856136
Every man (especially ugly ones) thinks a woman being attractive matters the most, and they admit to it as well. Try going for your own league.

>>81856145
This isn't really proving anything, can you point me to where anyone said anything about a Stacy?

>>81856113
>>81856145
Stacys don't have saggy booba with cute nipples pointing down. That's what I like and it's not a Stacy trait of what conventional attractiveness entails.

>>81856154
>mid stacy-chaser is still in absolute denial about admitting that he only wants stacy
Tip: men always lie

>>81856171
>she's stacy but she has 1 small flaw nobody cares about so surely she's just as mid as me!
I wish I was as naive as you.

>>81856184
The ragebait isn't working anon. Try again?

>>81855920 (OP)
almost ten years later I still think about a girl I used to be with. She was kind and patient and understanding with me when no one else would be. She tried to show interest in things I liked and laughed at my attempts at humor. She was patient with me when I was angry. She spent many long hours drawing pictures of things I liked for my birthday and on the holidays. When I was feeling down she used to make me these little sketches of times we shared together on the back of flashcards to cheer me up.

I never met any other girl that actually cared for me like that and I think about her and miss her every day. I desperately wish I could go back to a time where I had someone like that. I had no idea how lonely I would end up

>>81856196
>a flaw
Dare to say saggy bouncy tiddies are a flaw once more and I'll find your home, kidnap your pet, and buy them dog cookies.
First warning.

>>81856096
>complex, interesting, etc, and had good looks to support that.
Lol I really get you anon when you grow up a bit isolated and distant from other people and you finally find a girl that just clicks with your personality and you can talk with her for hours is a very wild experience. The issue is that for you she is a literal one of a kind, practically your soulmate but for her you're just one of the dudes she talked for a bit or had a relationship with.
This is why I think having a preference for personality on a woman is retarded, cool and interesting women are a commodity highly in demand since women are so fucking boring on average. Go date a boring hot girl and fulfill your emotional and spiritual connection needs with other men.

>>81855920 (OP)
I'm demisexual so not obsessive in the traditional sense like a stalker or something. For example. Once someone genuinely reciprocates those feelings I tend to become very attracted to them and they'll be the most beautiful person in the world to me. When those feelings end on either side so does my attraction. That being said I'm often drawn toward unconventionally attractive nerdy people and those who tend to break the mould. Librarian or scientist types in the streets and passionate freak in the sheets. Sex and body positive people are also attractive to me on a surface level because it often means they are a free thinker

>>81856337
>Go date a boring hot girl and fulfill your emotional and spiritual connection needs with other men.
Fucking gay. No thanks. The only thing that you can get from boring normgroid women is achieved through simply jacking off. Because forget raising a family with her lol, unless you want to drive yourself insane.
And there's no emotional or spiritual anything with other men. Friends are great sure. But it pales in comparison to those women that are highly in demand. I don't give a shit, I'm not gonna be happy either way so I'll just keep seething about it.

>>81856370
I mean nigger I can only warn you that you are making yourself miserable this way. You are probably not as deep or complex as you think, your soul mate is probably most men with aspergers lol.
>I'm not gonna be happy either way so I'll just keep seething about it.
I'm ngl I think it's better to never truly experience this type of bond with a woman, you will be happier living in ignorance anon.
>. Because forget raising a family with her lol, unless you want to drive yourself insane.
Most normie women just want to raise children in peace desu when they reach their 30's.

>>81856370
And please take no offense from me asking this. Do you assume conventionally hot girls are just boring and basic without getting to know them first? Looks don't matter that much to me so it's nice to chat to them and find out they have some sort of niche hobby they often have to hide in order to fit in. I don't really agree with it but I also understand since we all tend to wear a mask in the public eye

>>81856404
What's up with your obsession on men? I mean if you can feel that way with them good for you, but uh... again, I'm not gay.
>I'm ngl I think it's better to never truly experience this type of bond with a woman
I already said that I did. I agree, it'd have been way better to have lived in ignorance. I met another girl after that who was just as good, but she didn't want to date me. So I got double the trouble. I can't do anything about my standards anymore, really. It's kind of like a infohazard.
>>81856434
I assume that they're normgroids, good or bad. The odds of meeting the type of girl that I'd like are honestly low since they probably wouldn't be outside anyway.
Here's how it goes: I legitimately cannot see a future with them. Sex, sure, all that, and then a relationship that immediately falls apart because it's just simply not what I want. I'm not subjecting anyone to that. So, I'd rather distance myself from them. In my case it requires far more than just a niche hobby for one of those girls to have the kind of personality that I like. They need the whole life. 4chan, internet, all of it. And it doesn't work if they're introduced to it after I met them. You can't just morph someone's past experiences who make them who they are today, because that's impossible.

>>81856113
stfu
all yoou literally care about is chad and you think that when any guy likes a girl she's stacy

>>81856513
Ok. Your standards matter. I wish you the best and I hope you find the girl of your dreams

>>81856513
>if you can feel that way with them good for you, but uh... again, I'm not gay.
It's normal to want male friends anon what

it means pain. and lots of it.

>>81856184
>won't accept people eat haggis daily
stop coping with your choosiness

>>81855920 (OP)
she had model hips and was very fit she also was autistic and made slutty eyes and voices at me
shed make these weird giggling noises when touched iykyk the ones. I was a naive 22 yr old boy and i sperged out at her because i was going through insomnia at the time and was all retarded. atleast it means i didnt wear the simp hat and began orbiting her

>>81855920 (OP)
>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you?
She was sexually forward and overt in a subtle way.
She would constantly touch me in small, seemingly insignificant ways.
Look, we are not hard. That stupid 'hinting' shit you dumb cunts insist on doing over household chores and the like? Guess what, THIS is the place it ACTUALLY FUCKING WORKS. All you need to do is hint at a dude, make contact with him every so often, and let his subconscious do the rest. And wear things that hint at what's underneath, like skirts.

>>81856764
>i didnt wear the simp hat and began orbiting her
wait what did you two meet on discord or irl? how did you know all of that about her if discord

>>81856782
i met her through a mutual friend
things soured up really quickly because i let myself be my spergy self and gave her the ick tho. also i think my friend was banging her. again she was very slutty

>>81856807
>also i think my friend was banging her.
grim.
>things soured up really quickly because i let myself be my spergy self and gave her the ick tho.
Anon what I want you to learn from this is that you miss all shots you don't make. You could have asked her out and got rejected then never see her again and in the off chance she accepts maybe you could have gotten laid or something. You did nothing and are still never going to see her again, same end but you didn't even have a chance of winning

>>81855920 (OP)
There was a girl I went to school with that lived in my neighborhood, and I'd always leave school a little bit after her, so I could watch her walk home from a distance. There was this abandoned house on the way and I used to have thoughts about taking her in there and having her. She was very quiet, which I think is part of what attracted me to her, she also had a sadness about her. I never spoke to her, but I wish I had.

>>81856880
>There was this abandoned house on the way and I used to have thoughts about taking her in there and having her

>>81855920 (OP)
>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you?

In my case I had no idea what she had done, but then one day I saw a picture of my mom when she was in college and it looked exactly like her, so then I kinda figured it out.

>robots, have you ever been sexually obsessed with a woman?

yeah, multiple time with different ones

>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you?

Well being hot helps, but besides that:
>at least a bit nerdy
>feel like I can talk to her
>isn't to easy (that doesn't mean plays games, just has standards)
Any time I meet a woman like this she becomes my sole sexual focus, like if I am celibate, I think about her constantly and if I masturbate she's the only thing I can think about or I go soft.

>>81856113
They were just teens and early 20s. Just be young and thin anon. Its never been complicated

>>81855920 (OP)
thats called limerence
or referred to here as "oneitis"
usually only teenagers have that happen to them
occasionally it happens to adults and it fucks up whole marriages and stuff
people here are obsessed with women that look like Ciara
personally for me it was a hapa fellow student when I was in middleschool and highschool, I honestly dont know what exactly I saw in her, we didnt have similar interests, and she is kinda boring, she did laugh at my jokes a lot I guess

>>81855920 (OP)
It wasn't really sexual obsession, but simply having a girl reply to me properly, write first sometimes and compliment me etc. made me obsessed, simply because for the first and only time I felt like it was mutual affection rather than just typical
>Ask her about everything you can, she replies with 2 word response, struggle to find any way to continue the conversation because you have nothing to work with
Simply just being able to have an actual conversation puts you ahead of most women.

>>81855920 (OP)
>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you?
she was pretty and she liked me.

>>81855920 (OP)
She breathed in my general direction

>>81855920 (OP)
Be pretty and nice to me
And have BPD

why don't we start with toy like in black mirror

>>81855920 (OP)
Its just looks and iq idk how this is so complicated, maybe youre someones type like im not trying to actually bang someone with blue eyes and black hair thats how you randomly get a autistic baby.

>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you? i need to learn
Stink. She stank and for some fucked-up reason I liked it. Girls I get OBSESSED with like that, it only happens when I get a whiff of her sweaty tee shirt or smell her bad breath up close. Not all stinky women either, I'm just saying it's scent that sent me over the edge with the ones I liked like that.

>>81855920 (OP)
Don't act desperate or chase him, I did with my bf and now our relationship is suffering.
Even though I have the looks/personality that would make most guys simp

>>81855920 (OP)
>my question is what did she do to cause this reaction in you
Was nice to me, spend time with me, made me feel like a human and listen to what I said. Also she had medium size breasts with pink nipples and was thin like I love women.

>>81855920 (OP)
What would robots have to be manipulated like that, sir?

>>81855920 (OP)
just whisper in his ear and grab him by the bussy