should i focus on getting a job or a partner first?

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>should i focus on getting a job or a partner first?
rape status?

>>81857528 (OP)
Both are hard as shit to get

>>81857540
>rape status
have never been raped and have never raped

>>81857528 (OP)
Even with the economic downturn its still easier to get a job than a girlfriend. And few women will want to be with a man who doesn't have a job. I'd suggest finding a job first.
>No money, no honey

>>81857528 (OP)
Are you male? You won't find any irl partner while unemployed.

>>81857528 (OP)
110% job make a living then worry about finding love

Job. Good luck living without money. Unless you git the survival skills or have someone giving you money, you will die. Yiu won't die if you don't have a partner.

>>81857528 (OP)
No woman wants to date a man without a job, its the most unnattractive thing, it means you can't provide for either her or yourself

>>81857562
>>81857612
i'm a gay man but i guess that still applies

100% focus on a job first. Get on your feet and make sure the basics are taken care of, and then look for community and love

>>81857631
>i'm a gay man but i guess that still applies
Only applies if you are a top in that case.

>>81857803
if a man was into me for being weak and helpless i would be afraid of him.

>>81857754
>you are going to die if you don't reproduce
And that is why Maslow's hierarchy is one of the dumbest shit ever. No one outside of psychmeme 101 takes it seriously. Any researcher will tell you if you sample nothing but white make college students, you'll get a heavily biased and shitty results.

>>81857612
strange that women date those unemployed drug addicts and felons as long as they are tall, dark triad and handsome

>>81858033
Sure but you're not one of those guys so you have to get a job. I'm not one of those guys, I have to have a job. Life isn't supposed to be fair. We're a tournament species but everyone seems to forget that in the comfortable modern-day.

>>81857528 (OP)
Find a job first. No woman wants a loser ass faggot with no job, no money, who can't support himself. Once you have a job, focus on building yourself up. Gym membership. Better diet. Skincare. Better grooming (I mean shaving, haircuts, not your discord pedo activities, faggot). Getting a job, being productive, self improving, will make you a better person and a suitable partner that women will want to date. Please keep in mind though it isn't fix-all type of thing. If you're an incel or have an awful personality none of these things will magically change or fix that and women will still avoid you like the plague unless you're rich or famous of course.

without a job you'll be rejected but with a job you won't have enough time or energy to find and maintain a relationship

>>81857564
meanwhile there are tons of posts across the internet about girls who can't find a faithful stay at home boy wife

>>81857528 (OP)

job, women are expensive and don't like unemployed guys

>>81857528 (OP)
They both hard without the other. But getting a job is probably easier.

>>81857528 (OP)
Getting a job is piss easy, getting a gf is impossible no matter what. Hell becoming a millionaire is easier than finding a gf.

>>81857528 (OP)
I can't believe you're asking this. Obviously, you should date someone first, and then find a job

>>81857528 (OP)
If you're straight then you have no value as a human being unless you provide something, so get a job
if you're gay then you can NEET and get a bf, won't be easy but it's possible

Getting a job opens up more avenues to finding a partner.

If you have a job, you can pay women to have sex with you. You can't buy love though, that's reserved for guys who [insert trait or possession I lack here].

>>81859053
I believe in this. It's all rng and what matters more than just a job or a gf is finding a purpose and someone who's willing to support it.