For the first time in my life I want a husband. The problem is Im 30 and have never dated before. Does the age factor mean I have no chance because of the wall shit? I still look young for my age and am a virgin and skinny but this board tells me most men wont consider post 30 women as wife material.

>>81858290 (OP)
if you want to make good life choices, don't take this board seriously (ironic, isn't it)

>>81858301
this is essentially a koan if you're non white

>>81858309
i'm non white

>>81858290 (OP)
You're asking teenagers and early 20s what they think of 30 year old women of course they're going to insult you

What are you doing posting on r9k if you actually want a husband. What could you possibly get from here

>>81858315
koan lite

>>81858290 (OP)
Same here, twin

>>81858290 (OP)
If you're cute and virgin you are sperg wife material. Could be a lot worse, your social skills might still be your downfall though

I'm a 31-year-old white moid and I make 100k+ a year marry me

>>81858290 (OP)
the wall is just coping bullshit, ive seen pretty 35 year olds and fat ugly 20 year olds. A lot of guys just dont care, but I'm biased here as an above 30 year old

>>81858290 (OP)
desu if you told me you were a virgin I just wouldnt believe you

the wall has nothing to do with it, you're very likely just not compatible with men, it's a waste of everyone's time. Not dating women above a certain age has very little to do with looks.

> i want a husband
Yeah, why wouldn't you want?

>>81858939
OPs comment

>>81858290 (OP)
>For the first time in my life I want a husband
You lose your job or something? Or want to buy a switch 2?

>>81858939
>husband is the victim for marrying a dumb cunt that blew all their money trying to fuck another man
>husband is somehow to blame
holy shit.

>>81858907
oh shut up dont be so rude to op, some people are just sheltered and dont meet others.

>>81859039
>oh shut up dont be so rude to op, some people are just sheltered and dont meet others.

No. A 30 year old female virgin is very likely to just simply not like men or even feel repulsed by them.
This is most likely just a FOMO phase which would result in a relationship lasting less than a few months. As soon as she started dating a man, she would feel the
>am I stuck with him forever
panic hit like a truck and then grow very resentful, start the devaluation process and then terminate the relationship or force the man to do that.

It's a waste of time. She's a misandrist spinster.

>>81858290 (OP)
>but this board tells me most men wont consider post 30 women as wife material.
That's a lie, there's no shortage of simps desperate for female contact assuming you look even remotely decent

>>81859190
It has nothing to do with looks, if it was about looks then men would gladly date 30+ women, it's their psyche that truly hits the wall.

>>81859206
I just said her looks don't matter much

>>81859219
but her personality does, hence the
>men wont consider post 30 women as wife material.
remark, which is true.

You're right in the sense that there's no shortage of simps who swipe right, but it never goes anywhere and they all learn eventually. She can look good, have good genes, but it doesn't matter because she will terminate the relationship herself because she won't be able to bear the burden of having to share space with a man. It's not happening.

>>81858290 (OP)
>30, virgin, skinny
You're an unicorn, and as long as you're objectively a 6/10 or higher you'd be in insane demand for marriage. The issue is whether or not you're marriage material beyond what you've already described (no mental illness, no personality disorders, not in need or history of therapy, never having used the pill even as prophylactic) and whether you have the skills or are willing to learn to be a good wife, with the bare minimum being knowing how to cook.

Yeah sure but you need to hurry as most men will want to have kids 'some day' and you'r at the end of your fertility.