Why do you need to flirt? - /r9k/ (#81860682) [Archived: 335 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:41:00 PM No.81860682
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I don't need a girl to flirt with me in order for me to develop feelings for her. So why is everyone telling me I have to make sure she knows I like her? Like why? If she knows me, she either has developed feelings for me and I would pick up on it. Or she is just not interested in me.

So how would making her know I like her change her mind?

That. Does. Not. Make. Sense.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:43:05 PM No.81860702
tsukasa and kagami are the same cute anyway
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:44:20 PM No.81860707
>>81860702
Duly noted. Now get the fuck off my thread.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:44:40 PM No.81860709
because women are retarded and they want to feel like the guy they are talking to is desires them deeply and exclusively. even if they like you if you dont give her that some other guy will come along who will and she will leave.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:44:51 PM No.81860711
>>81860707
are you european AND can have a bad start to your day?
An0nymous
7/17/2025, 1:55:58 PM No.81860770
>>81860682 (OP)
I mean, you're good-looking. You don't need to flirt
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 3:30:32 PM No.81861338
>>81860682 (OP)
you've got the right idea, anon
don't chase, attract
one problem with that is that you gotta be attractive in the first place
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:22:26 PM No.81861680
>>81860682 (OP)
I don't know. I have no idea how to flirt never have. Yet girls who spend enough time with me find me a cute dork or something and things just progress naturally on their own. Often the dynamic leads to them wanting to tease me to get reactions and what not. I don't know but never had to flirt. Hell now talking to this girl in the Philippines. She gets turned on just listening to me go on about some section of code being a pain in the ass. Why even flirt when just having fun with the things you love is more than enough.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:40:05 PM No.81861837
>>81860682 (OP)
Because they hav a low bar and assume shes gonna find someone else to fuck in a week? Everyone is telling you that so you maybe get married to someone they thought was gonna go have sex within the week.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 4:59:41 PM No.81862056
>>81860682 (OP)
Yeah, I don't get it either. As an incel of more than two decades, I don't even know how to flirt.
Other than this attempt >>81803888
Though at least I can check out a woman without being desperate to NOT been seen doing it. I never look back if I pass someone though.
Sometimes them noticing you noticing them is enough to get the ball rolling. Sadly, foids never speak to me in the wild. Just small talk in businesses.
The few who made eyes at me, always had company and never spoke to me. FML.