here's the funny thing, anons
no one's going to save you
no matter how many self-help books you read or dating gurus you watch, no one can actually tell you what to do with your life or how to "fix" it

your life is your life - no one knows it better than you
you have the questions and you too, have the answers

you know what to do, you've always known - you're afraid is all

>>81862332 (OP)
>you know what to do, you've always known - you're afraid is all
what? to kms?

>>81862332 (OP)
My life is pretty okay though.

>>81862332 (OP)
Wow these useless platitudes changed my entire outlook on life

>>81862364
i didnt say anything
you came up with that thought all on your own

do you think that's the best choice of action?

>>81862376
all smiles :)

>>81862378
you read and read and read again but you guys never seem to understand

>>81862332 (OP)
Nope have issues caused by others whatever. I'll deal. Have issue caused by mind, I neeed help. No one helps. Finally someone listens and on the right meds and not that antidepressant crap and finally I feel like a human being. You people with this mindset is why I had so many years of my life wasted.

>>81862332 (OP)
>no one's going to save you
true
>you know what to do, you've always known - you're afraid is all
wrong

>>81862395
>you read and read and read again but you guys never seem to understand
nta but please enlighten us using small words so we understand

>>81862332 (OP)
I like it bad
I hope it gets worse in a way

i met a girl here that is as mentally ill as me, and she is the sweetest person ever.
i will get better for her. she wants me to do good and i dont want to disappoint her

I KNOW IM SO BEHIND I WISH I COULD BE BETTER BUT I CANT BREAK OUT OF THESE FUCKING CHAINS GOD HELP ME

>>81862477
>your life is your life - no one knows it better than you
you guys are in control
you're the driver, you're the pilot, you're the one behind the wheel - there is literally no one else steering the wheel

i can't guide you, no one can - because you are your own guide, you are your own navigator

i don't claim to have all the answers to everything and even if i do, they'll only work for me because of my specific situation and my own life which is *way* different than all of you - realize it or not, our lives here are all truly different

>>81862488
>fell for it again award
make a thread when she inevitably ghosts you

>>81862538
to expand, i'll give a few examples
>neet
some of yous are comfy being neets, some of yous hate it because deep down you know you're "better" than this
>no gf
some of you can't get one because you're ugly, some of you can't get one because your standards are too high, some of you don't even want a gf

we can look for similarities sure, but the details makes all the difference no matter how minute

>>81862538
i'm pretty sure many robros come here after trying to pilot their own lives and then realizing how fucked they are. we vent here and understand we are doing ourselves no favours but nobody would deny that our lives would be improved by being more proactive, the question is would it be worth it.
e.g working for min wage instead of getting gibs. the RoI simply isn't there.

>>81862592
>worth it
no one else is determining your self-worth but yourself
you want a job, a car, a house, a wife? work for it
you want to neet it out, rot in bed all day, jerk off when you're alone? go for it
ultimately, once this thread dies we're strangers again and what you guys do with your lives has no bearing on me whatsoever

your life is literally your life
you dont have to listen to me nor anyone else, you only have to listen to yourself
BUT, big-ass but here - recognize the choices you make and what they imply

>>81862429
>You people with this mindset is why I had so many years of my life wasted.
you missed the point but you've got a few screws loose so i'll let it slide - i didn't say *don't* ask for help, i said *ask*

i'm proud of you, anon, truly for getting the help you needed
and that happened all because you actively decided to seek help, you *asked*

>>81862480
>>81862522
and this is what i'm talking about
one anon is comfy, thats okay, and the other anon recognizes he's "behind", and thats also okay - because ultimately it's their lives and they know best on how to live it

>>81862649
>you want a job, a car, a house, a wife? work for it
that's what i'm saying. to reach what you're proposing is not a realistic goal for robots which explains our behaviour
it's not that robots don't want to work, it's just that most of us have horrendous starts in life, recognize how much work we need to put in to get what MAY fulfill us, and then gamble that instead of doing that work to potentially end up fulfilled in 15 years we can neet and at least be happyish in hte moment
all of the above is even assuming what is being offered WILL fulfill us

>>81862716
you hit the nail right on its head, anon
>gamble
and that's the keyword - gambling our lives away, taking that risk, that leap of faith

who's to say we'll be fulfilled once we have those things? who's to say we won't?
back to square 1, anons *are* afraid

your life is your making and your suffering are just karmic dues from this life or from past spiritual realms
you have seeds of light and darkness inside and if you and negative actions will feed the latter and guarantee an equal eye for an eye energy return sometime later
whether you do positive or negative things, you will get the return due but until you suffer all the negative karma you're not free
and only the light of the light aspect of god can purge the darkness from within but you have to endure any suffering without retaliation otherwise you will take in more negative energy
the vibrational frequency of your soul energy is what decides your fate in this life and the next, for an eternity

>>81862761
>back to square 1, anons *are* afraid
strong word. i'd argue it's more calculated but since you're pretty adamant to reduce it to fear, you can reduce it to
>anons are afraid they'll waste 10 years of their lives and end up marginally improving their situation
which i can confidently say, yes i certainly am

>>81862859
>which i can confidently say, yes i certainly am
whats there to be afraid of?
you're afraid to live, and i'm assuming you're also afraid to die

the world keeps on turning, and folks like you keep on the sidelines, ever observing
observing... what are you looking for really? what are you waiting for?

This thread is shit, captain obvious

>>81862880
>whats there to be afraid of?
>>81862859
>anons are afraid they'll waste 10 years of their lives and end up marginally improving their situation
the situation will marginally improve after 10 years of suffering
>the world keeps on turning, and folks like you keep on the sidelines, ever observing
observing... what are you looking for really? what are you waiting for?
a bunch of money, ofc. or until something catches my interest and i look into it. it's not about grinding through my best years in the hopes that i can start living when i'm 50

>>81862916
life is shit, boy wonder
thread's not meant to be a "cure-all"
thread's not meant to save everyone, some folks just can't be saved

>>81862332 (OP)
>you know what to do, you've always known - you're afraid is all
that gut feeling is usually right. it's going to suck and you might not recover and end up killing yourself
i went to college as poor ugly neet. blackpilled and cynical,into a woman dominated STEM field. i flunked the semester but gathered so much data on foids and oversocialized normalfaggs in general. i havent felt the drive to improve in years because i never knew what to do with my life but after facing the scorn of foids and enduring all forms of social suicide i can confidently say im the underdog
if your life goes off the rails insane and you become a loser because of it just remember that you have more potential than the average normalFAGGOT because you had the grit to stay alive in spite of the bs cards youve been dealt and you can see the problems society has.
ITS NOT OVER UNTIL YOURE OLD,CRIPLPED,GAY AND FACING A SEXUAL ASSUALT CHARGE OR FORCED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT
GET GOOD AND LERN2COPE,EVERY CHUD CAN GO ANTI-HERO

>>81862951
>a bunch of money, ofc
inheritance?
>it's not about grinding through my best years in the hopes that i can start living when i'm 50
hey man, it's your life

>>81862332 (OP)
Nigga shut yo bitch ass UP!

>>81862332 (OP)
Nah I'm from tranes Aires and I say hug em all.

The entire us government wants me dead.
It doesn't effect me.
You can do this.
Believe in yourself.
Be kind to yourself and love yourself.
Accept your failures and let them go.
Decide to move forward.
Push to be a good person for yourself and others and love yourself.
As you can offer that and look for it in others.
Accept only a reflection of yourself and the good person you've become.
Build yourself and your partner and if they too are good, they'll do the same.
Partner or not, do your best to spread this goodwill towards others and fill the world with love.

>>81862970
wise words, ,wwre nice to read anonie

>>81862332 (OP)
come back to me after you have confirmed this by interviewing a large sample size of people struggling in life instead of ego farming by projecting a unfounded belief onto r9k

I want my life to be just like Persona but it's just not possible

>>81862583
>being bitter award
ill still be a better person thanks to her

No, you're full of shit.

Here's the reality of the situation, you have a bunch of awkward sperg retards who don't know shit and aren't being helped at all by the world because we live in 2025 hellscape demon world (those of us who are lucky live in comfortable demon 1st world)
They have two choices
1 - Do something, ANYTHING and get BTFO but also gain experience along the way and develop character (there is no guaranty of success however, option 1 MAY result in terrible failure or death)
2 - Stay in their room all day, distract self and wait to die or be forced out into the world all alone and almost definitely perma-fucked (safer for the moment, and therefore where most people end up going)

Choose option 2, you are choosing death in return for comfort. Choose option 1, you are choosing life in return for effort and less comfort and some risk. Highly recommend choosing option 1.

Nobody knows what to do but they have to do something or else things will get much worse. if you do something, success is not guaranteed however it is the only way out of this horrible mess.