>>81864538You can be whatever as long as its a fantasy. The main difference between kinks and just being a bad or creepy person is the idea that kinks stay fantasy and aren't translated to real life.
A good example would probably be something like a rape fetish, as long as you aren't actually going out at night and chasing down a victim or purposefully putting yourself in a dangerous situation in the hope you get assaulted, its ok. Like cnc for example is okay, bdsm, whatever.