So I had a first date with a really attractive woman who recently joined Bumble. (What happens is they join bumble and swipe right on me before realising they can be even pickier). Idk how she thinks it went because on one hand she said it was "fine for a first date" but on the other hand she said it was 'sad' that I was going to sleep when I got home and that I didn't have friends and she mentioned how she joined Bumble recently and got loads of likes after asking how it was going for me and telling me to be honest lol. She also even recommended an activity (hiking) for a next date but I know that doesn't mean I'll see her again because I've had a date flake on me before the same way.

Also, we didn't touch or kiss and idk how that will ever happen because to be honest she's so talkative. Idk how I could make a hike romantic either unless I suggested she went back to my place with me after. Tbh I'm planning the next date while she's probably chatting to one of her many matches who's probably better looking than me. Oh well.

>>81865611 (OP)
i wish you best luck king, tell us how it went in a few weeks
please prove us wrong about women

>>81865611 (OP)
crazy how this thread gets fucking ignored

>>81865611 (OP)
It's not it. People know that if you're a regular, it means you are there forever and it is not wise to waste any time on you.

I'll try not to blackpill you, but women on dating apps are talking to 20 guys at once and putting them on a leader board. One mistake and you're 20th again. The most important advice is: you have to act like a bad boy at least from time to time. Don't let her bs you that she needs an emotionally intelligent, calm and patient man. If you plan to talk about calm hobbies like reading, something math/science related, even about animals and your pets, it is ok, but you cannot continue this mood forever, you need to switch things up. Like, you have to bring that time when you broke your bones or was doing something risky. Females are summing up dates in her head. If you see her for x hours and keep and only in calm, mature mood, then other males on her leaderboard are winning.

>>81865611 (OP)
>planning the next date while she's probably chatting to one of her many matches who's probably better looking than me
Absolutely brootal. But I guess that's just the state of things in the modern world. But maybe you're the one she's interested in the most? You never know

>>81865611 (OP)
If she looks like that, she doesn't hike. She meant she wants you to go live in the woods, alone.

>>81865611 (OP)
Hiking dates are pretty easy to make romantic. Make sure to bring a comfy blanket some snacks and a packed lunch that most people enjoy like nuts various sandwiches and fruits. Water and other electrolytes are also important. Wet wipes too because nature can call. Stuff like sunscreen and bug spray also helps. Travel light but not too light. If you have access to a portable speaker they are also handy to play each other's music on. Depending on where you're hiking take proper precautions like a basic survival kit.

>>81867151
You are describing a picnic. Also if you're bringing a portable speaker on a hiking trail then I hope you get mauled by a bear.

>>81867213
A picnic is usually more involved with more prepared foods. You can do both and most people who hike often do. If you want just a quick stroll in the local trails or national park then you can just get away with some trail mix and water bottles. Unless you want to do bird watching music keeps wildlife away

>>81867286
>Unless you want to do bird watching music keeps wildlife away
I am not out in nature to hear your mumble rap. Keep your music to yourself.

>>81867151
Do not play music on a hike, nigger. I hate when people do that. If you're out in nature, listen to the sounds of nature.

>>81867310
ok mr racism is my only personality. unless you're on a crowded trail where you might bother other people there is nothing wrong with listening to it or finding a nice spot to relax with some music of choice

>>81867463
I never called you that anon. But since you're getting offended, you must be one.
May many bears, mountain lions, and serial killers cross your path.

>>81867351
and I dislike when obnoxious hiking purists try to lord over what others should be doing. etiquette is important and that involves leaving other hikers trying to enjoy themselves the fuck alone
>>81867500
fuck off psychopath