my family knew i was a bottom when i came out as gay it was really embarrassing. i showed them a pic of my bf and they were like ok make sure he wears a condom.

>>81868078 (OP)
>make sure he wears a condom
lol, are you like 5'2 or something?

That's what I don't get about queers. You can't switch? You got both packages, why not use em?

>>81868078 (OP)
>ok make sure he wears a condom.

that's the exactly thing my dad said to me when I told him I got a boyfriend too, it's just what they say (I'm not even gay I'm a fucking woman)

>>81868095
You're asking the wrong question.
The real mystery is why do gay male tops exist. Gay male bottoms are easy to explain: hormone screw-up in the womb during that early timeframe where fetuses get permanently established with whatever kinds of behavioral tendencies they'll have for the rest of their lives. Gay male bottoms are basically just male bodies with female behavior.
Gay male tops however make no sense at all. There's an animal model for gay male bottoms you can make in a lab by castrating mice, but no such model exists for creating gay male tops.
So either gay male tops are straight guys who got very desperate, or they're gay male bottoms larping as tops to make it easier to get a bf or something.

>>81868105
He told you that because all women are bottoms.
And OP's dad told him that because he correctly guessed OP is a bottom.
There probably aren't any women who are exclusive tops for their bfs.

>>81868133
Maybe gay tops are just those guys who climb the mountain because it's there.

>>81868285
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qLYAFdddPw&t=175

>>81868133
>they're gay male bottoms larping as tops to make it easier to get a bf or something
Woah woah I'm straight but are you saying it's relatively easy to top dudes? Indeed I'm pretty desperate. All I ask is that they're at least sort of feminine.

>>81868447
It's the easiest thing there is.
You can go on grindr without a pic and get guys offering to suck your dick or get fucked by you.
If you're willing to put your dick in men then it's impossible to be an incel.

>>81868461
My precanned argument was going to be "but there's no way I'm putting my face on there." I'm gonna have to let this sink in. I don't really have any issues posting my body desu, long as no one knows.

>>81868078 (OP)
Go to lgbt then

>>81868133
I can answer this: they're bi guys who are sick of women's shit and prefer the gay lifestyle. also you can just get addicted to gay sex if you're a big dude who likes dominating smaller dudes, human sexuality isn't completely hardwired and you can mix and match different elements and find something that clicks.

>>81868133
>There's an animal model for gay male bottoms you can make in a lab by castrating mice, but no such model exists for creating gay male tops.
wow it's almost as if humans aren't mice. there's no mouse model for human language or tool use either, makes you think.

>>81868461
i do not believe that is the truth

>>81868133
On a full moon I'll fuck anything. I'm straight, only attracted to feminine things, if I fuck you you must be girly.

>>81868133
>why do gay male tops exist
Why do people with no morals exist
Why do nonces run every western government
Why do no women like me? I mean, biologically speaking, women should be attracted to me by virtue of me being a man with male organs
Etc

>>81868078 (OP)
They are calling your bf a whore because why would he need a condom if they didn't think he had STDS.

>>81868133
baffling because i see it the other way. i can fully understand why tops exist but have no clue how a bottom comes to be. im pretty much straight, but ive dabbled with gay shit before. i got a 42 inch slink all the way up my guts just to see what the fuss was about, didnt understand it.

>>81869800
NTA, I have literally done this and got guys asking for dick pics with no face or body pics. There's a whole lot of horny men out there, but I decided against using the app any longer since I don't want my first time to be with a stranger and that is the app's primary use

>>81869257
This is kinda true, ive (e)dated some guys who were all tops and they're almost always bi

They actually like men, like manly masculine men, but they aren't exactly fully gay, they still have some level of masculinity which makes them want to be the one on top

>>81870300
yeah thats just horny no consequence shit, of course its front loaded. update me when you've taken the proverbial plunge.

>>81868078 (OP)
When I first came out to my mom and showed her a pic of my 6'2 norwegian bf, she said the exact same thing
Imagine her surprise when she found out I was the big spoon

>>81868133
>The real mystery is why do gay male tops exist.
high-t
nuff said