Are you having kids? Whats your reasons for having or not having kids?

>>81879210 (OP)
I've already had 3 kids, my husband and I always planned on it, so we fucked (at least 3 times, do the math) and had 3 kids

>>81879210 (OP)
Already got tricked into having one. He probably post's here

>>81879218
>>81879222
I dont really want kids. I want my life to already end.

Probably not. I'm an immensely asocial schizoid. I don't think I'd make for a particularly good dad. And I'm really not particularly good with kids.

nobody to make a kid with.

>>81879210 (OP)
I'm a wizard with bad genetics so probably not.

>>81879210 (OP)
I am brown autistic recessed balding its never going to happen

>>81879210 (OP)
i wanted to have kids but i have awful genetics and i feel like itd be unfair and selfish to have them

>>81879210 (OP)
I don't think I'm ever having kids. The last time I considered it was so my mom could enjoy time with some grandchildren but it just wouldn't work. I can't trust the women and I'm not that kind of person.

>>81879210 (OP)
Having kids because I am unvaxxed and have no problem finding unvaxxed fertile pussy

>>81879210 (OP)
I don't want to bring even more bastards into this world but women aren't worth marrying where I live (America)

>>81879210 (OP)
You need sex and a girlfriend to have babies. So it's over for a lot of guys here. Stacies and Beckies can always get pregnant by the same Chad and have fatherless babies.

>>81879708
I could have sex and impregnate some woman but she'd probably be a ran through chad widow or wish she was. She'd also probably be fat or get fat later. It's just nothing to look forward to dealing with in any relationship much less where we're having kids. When your wife or baby momma can't be exclusive or just for you there's no reason to have one.

I have one kid. It's wonderful. Not sure if my wife and I are going to have another yet but I'm glad we at least have the one now.

>>81879210 (OP)
Ideally yes, but I need a man to marry me first. If that happens though, then 100% yes, without a doubt. Kids are my biggest goal in life. I want someone to raise with love and patience and to teach them all sorts of things and to give them the kind of childhood and family I wish I had.
Also this probably sounds immature but I wanna play with them. I have childish interests but once you're an adult, no one will entertain that, especially not if you're a woman. So having my own little playmates sounds like fun. I know it's usually the dad who's the "fun parent" but man, I really just wanna be able to do all sorts of fun and silly things with my kids. I wanna play pretend with them, or play video games together, or build stuff, or go exploring in the neighbourhood, or have impromptu movie nights and stay up late, break some harmless rules and tell them "don't tell dad" as we sneak a late night snack or something. I wanna have all sorts of fun like that.
I'm also just curious what kind of people my kids would turn out to be. I can teach them things and share my interests with them, but they'll still be their own people, and that's so exciting! I wanna have (civil) arguments with them because we disagree on something, and watch them learn how to formulate their own thoughts and express their own opinions. I wanna hear them ramble about their current obsession that I don't understand at all, sign them up for extracurriculars or buy the stuff needed to pursure their hobbies, learn what their strong and weak points are in school, help them accordingly, learn what they want to do when they grow up, and support their dreams as best I can. I just think it's cool that your little child gets to grow up into their own, unique person.
Ideally I'd have two kids, one boy and one girl, so neither of them is neglected nor parentified, but if my partner wanted more, we could afford it, and pregnancy wasn't too hard on me, I wouldn't mind having as many as he wants.

>>81879923
Wife material, very unfortunate that you're chad only.

>>81880011
>chad out of nowhere

>>81880029
Well, if you weren't chad only it'd be easy for you to have a husband already.

>>81880035
Unfortunately I'm not attractive and don't really know where/how to meet people, and it's not like men just ask out every woman they cross paths with in public.

>>81879210 (OP)
Sometimes I think it'd be nice to have a son and pass down knowledge, be supportive in his pursuits, teach him discipline and all that. to be everything my father wasn't. Then I come back to reality in the judeo matriarchal hellscape.

>>81880102
>Unfortunately I'm not attractive
That's not an obstacle unless you're morbidly obese in which case just lose weight.
>don't really know where/how to meet people, and it's not like men just ask out every woman they cross paths with in public.
You could just use online dating. You can easily get a man there.

>>81879210 (OP)
No. I simply don't want to. I don't want the stress in my life.

>>81879210 (OP)
Everything is too expensive and women have brutally and ruthlessly betrayed me twice so that is a hard no for me chief

>>81880168
>just lose weight.
That doesn't happen overnight, unfortunately. And no one is gonna be into a girl with loose skin, see picrel. But regardless, that means it's men who aren't interested in me, not me turning men down.
>You could just use online dating. You can easily get a man there.
I don't have any pictures of myself to use for a profile, and I live with family who would throw a fit if I started going on dates with strangers.

>>81879923
>I wanna play with them
I know a girl like this... she's developmentally delayed and her own family told her to stop acting like a pedo for wanting to play with neighbor's kids. She's lonely and told me she wants her own kids to play with.

>>81880212
Oh, so you are morbidly obese? Why did you decide to do that?

>>81880224
Idk if morbidly, but idk, ask my family. I've been fat since childhood. This thread is about having children, quit derailing it with your hatred of women.

>>81879210 (OP)
Kids are very annoying, so no

>>81880217
Damn I feel for her. I don't think I'm that bad, as I tend to socialize with people my own age (albeit, it's all online and with fellow autists) but I can understand how she must feel. Hope she gets her family one day, and has a partner who lets her be the fun parent.

>>81880254
Most women don't choose to become fat, nona.

>>81879210 (OP)
Nope. Terrifying. Although I admit it would difficult to ignore a girl asking for one if she's cute.

>>81879210 (OP)
After my parents die I will die of starvation and homelessness. Be real for a second. And even if this wasnt the case, I aint bringing more losers in this world that will be bullied and incels.
>dad i got beat up and I can't get laid what do???
No fucking clue you're asking a loser incel this question might be your dad but still no clue son sorry

>>81879210 (OP)
>Are you having kids?
NOPE
>Whats your reasons for having or not having kids?
Too incel
Too NEET
I just want to creampie a post-fertile woman.
No baby-trappings for me.

>>81879210 (OP)
i was trying to find some hot babes on the catalog and you spoiled my entire sesh you son of a bastard bitch

kids are annoying, loud, gross, ugly and they smell bad. their hands are sticky and they always want to touch you with them

>>81879218
you could have fucked just once and had triplets you know

>>81879210 (OP)
no, because a woman won't let me stick my peepee in her hoohah and since I'm nearly 50 already it's a good bet that will never happen

>>81879210 (OP)
Mental blocks I put in place to prevent suicide now preventing me from being attracted to anyone.

I have to wonder just how many single fathers would appear if given the chance.

>>81880217
>her own family told her to stop acting like a pedo for wanting to play with neighbor's kids
This is why I almost never play with kids as a man unless I have 100% confirmed permission from the parents. I'm too afraid of looking like a pedo.

>>81879210 (OP)
I decided not to have any when I was really young, like pretty much as soon as I became aware that there was the possibility I could reproduce. I want to end the cycle of poverty that has been in my family for generations.

>>81879282
Are you me?
>>81879210 (OP)
I'm not a good person. I shouldn't be producing anyone else like me.

i would of been a dead beat dad, for sure. i dont have kids or a gf or wife and can barely take care of myself. cant imagine how fucking fast shit would of gone sideways if some girl showed me a pregnancy test. holy shit im so glad i failed miserably at getting laid during highschool. being a loser who hates myself is one thing, having a child at the same fucking time? holy fuck

>>81879210 (OP)
I want kids. I'm good with them and have the means to support them. It's the finding a wife part I struggle with.

I'm not a KV, I've had a few serious relationships but they always flame out over the most retarded reasons. Most recently my ex who was serious enough to live with me left me to marry her friend, the one who is "like a brother" and "stop being so insecure you don't have to worry about him." I'm 35 and if I don't meet anyone who seems like a suitable wife/mother in the next couple years I'll probably just add fatherhood to my pile of dead dreams.

>>81879210 (OP)
I wanna have kids so bad but I'm already a hag, someone needs to impregnate me immediately or it's over

>>81879222
trips of hilarity

>>81879210 (OP)
I managed to do online dating, marriage (foreign girl from an abusive background who wanted out), etc. I got to the age when a lot of people in my life were dying, and I wanted to counteract that.
Divorced now (I was no longer required), and the fact that I have a daughter complicates things, although she's a decent enough kid.

>>81879210 (OP)
Nope. Don't like them. Don't want them. Simple as.

>>81879210 (OP)
>No
>Lack of viable options, lack of parenting skills, no desire to have children, children are optional, am an anti-natalist, a history of mental illness

>>81881966
its kinda funny how it comes down to "people are now finally for the first time aware how insane children are to add to the equation of "just making it", and somehow we are just suddenly "noticing" it lel

>>81879210 (OP)
My reason for not having kids is the same reason for not becoming a trillionaire or gaining super powers. Its impossible.

>>81880537
And most men don't choose to become insufferable incels yet here you are.

>>81882088
Survival mode doesn't give you room to think about having kids, you just do it because you're in a coom brain like wave length. Having kids? What for? Honestly. A world population of 8 fucking billion and growing. Do you think all of them mfs are living in luxury? Are all of them mfs living good? Absolutely fucking not.

>If I have kids, my existence in this world will be indefinitely prolonged because if they have kids, my bloodline continues. If they have kids for eternity I will exist through them for eternity and I don't want that.
>Don't want to pay alimony / child support
>Don't want to pay spousal support
>Don't want to pass my bad genes onto an innocent child
>Don't want to bring an innocent child into this world
>Don't want to lose my freedom
>Don't want to lose my health from the stress that comes with having children.
>I want my wealth to be mine
>I want my time to be mine
>I'm poor and would not be able to offer them a good life
>Considering the way things are nowadays, my child would either grow up to download porn or upload it

>>81879923
Passionate hands wrote this

>>81879210 (OP)
You need a woman to have kids. I hate women. Next question.

I've only had one girlfriend and she never made me cum