Socializing - /r9k/ (#81880074) [Archived: 239 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:14:21 AM No.81880074
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how do normies do it?
do they just talk about each other, what they do, what they've been doing, their plans for the future? Where does it all lead to?

I wish real life was like VNs where you'd get a gauge next to their names where you can see how much they like you
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:26:24 AM No.81880152
>>81880074 (OP)
A lot of Normies have very exhausting conversations that might as well not be said. There are all these weird parameters and unspoken rules for talking that make everything way more difficult than it needs to be.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:29:28 AM No.81880165
>>81880074 (OP)
I hate normies so fucking much, and their "memes"

Half of their memes just revolve around nigger slang and faggot shit.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:31:33 AM No.81880172
>>81880074 (OP)
>do they just talk about each other, what they do, what they've been doing, their plans for the future?
Yes faggot, not everybody is obsessed with the intricacies of gender dynamics and the unfairness of the dating landscape
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:31:38 AM No.81880173
>>81880152
reminds me of how i "unmasked" and started saying what i considered, to myself, was fairly normal - but they took it at face value and just made fun of me
>friend got cheated on
>i tell him, "show me the guy, i'll settle this for you, i'll rape his ass and make him your bitch"
>he just starts laughing and my other friends call me a fag
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:33:21 AM No.81880182
>>81880074 (OP)
>do they just talk about each other, what they do, what they've been doing, their plans for the future?
Yes
>Where does it all lead to?
Essentially nothing
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:33:26 AM No.81880185
>>81880172
i mean, i *try* to do those things but it just ends up with me asking them about everything
they never ask me about myself...
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:35:36 AM No.81880196
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I recommend asking your doctor about Lexapro, I started it recently and speaking had gotten a little bit easier. You still won't want to talk to anyone but atleast it's easier to produce words.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:40:56 AM No.81880234
>>81880196
>easier to produce words
i can do this just fine
i just... never expected how some words carry greater weight
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:42:27 AM No.81880240
>>81880234
What do you mean? Are you going around saying the N word or something? Just don't be a complete retard and people won't mind you.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:21:51 AM No.81880441
>>81880074 (OP)
wait, what vns are YOU playing???? what vns have that gauge??????
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:30:29 AM No.81880517
Yeah they do. Real life is like VNs, on VNs you also have to talk to the characters to get somewhere
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:03:30 AM No.81880723
>>81880240
no, i just say shit like
>"i care about you"
>"you can do it, man - you've done this shit before"
>"if anything's bothering you, just tell me"
i mean - i'd like to think i'm helping in my own limited capacity but they genuinely think i *mean* all of that

i'd help but then their "problems" are all just money problems or transport problems
one time, this one girl asked me to pick her up and drop her off at her bf's house, fuck that shit man!
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:16:37 AM No.81880790
i just realized something, why do folks assume you're telling the truth all the time?

maybe i'm lying, maybe i speak in metaphor, who knows? not them apparentty