>bro I promise you some girl liked you back then you just missed her signs
Is it really that inconceivable for people that some of us just NEVER have gotten attention from a girl in our entire lives? I've seen "signs" and whatnot plenty of times, just not given to me. And every time it was honestly pretty obvious. Even here among outcasts and losers most people seem to at least have had 1 chance that they blew, even here I'm a minority. What a life.
why are you even talking to normies
You almost DEFINITELY had a girl who was interested in you but she was probably really gross or fat and in the "invisible" zone for you. What you perceived (and I did as well) as the "friend zone" is actually the invisible zone. You exist, as a human, but you're an amorphous blob to them. You're a speaking soul without a form. The women interested in you were probably the same think in your own perspective.
It's not your fault, it's evolution. You're hardwired to only seek after people you find attractive. Your confidence and interests are very dynamic, and depending on the options around you and how your environment chops your confidence determines what you find attractive. So a girl was probably very interested in you, and possibly open about it, but she was an amorphous blob to you.
Personally, I've looked back at the way that multiple girls treated me growing up realizing that I was just retarded. I was also heavily shamed and emotionally abused by my toxic mother. Anything romantic was so shameful in my eyes that I was scared to even say that I was interested in someone.
I actually did miss signs and had women tell me about it later on in life.
>>81883290>Anything romantic was so shameful in my eyes that I was scared to even say that I was interested in someone.I know the feel. Like I'll be judged or insulted or made fun of if I imply that I like someone
>>81883260 (OP)As far as I can tell only one girl back in highschool. She definitely didn't show me any signs I can guarantee because we didn't interact at all.
I only know because one day a year after graduating she found me sitting on a bench in the park and told me she used to have a crush on me. Honestly why even let me know at that point. Really weird to bring that up
>>81883318Yup. It was so bad that I wouldn't even let on to my closest friend who my crushes were or who I wanted to get with. It felt like a death sentence.
Yeah, it's fucked.
Sadly, I have gotten some signs, but they are so unactionable or subtle that there was nothing I could do about them.
TFW I'm an unapproachable incel. Seems like every several years I'll get one who just stares at me, and she always has company. One was even very smiley and moved to the table in front of mine, but she had company and I had company. I gave an eyebrow flash. She never spoke to me.
I fucking wish that I got those 'obvious signs' like her actually speaking to me, touching me, and wanting to make plans with me.
It'd be like shooting fish in a barrel to get laid if I got those signs. No, I have to get the ones who are even shyer than my autist ass.
