Should I give up on trying to find a relationship? - /r9k/ (#81884342) [Archived: 296 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:36:07 PM No.81884342
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I come from Romania, the country which supplies more than half of all prostitutes in the european union despite only being 2-3% of it's population.
I am almost 20 and in all my years of education I have had only 5/320ish female classmates.
I do not know why there are so few women going to school, despite this the night clubs are always full of girls even under 13yos who are let in for free while guys aren't let in if they aren't the friend of the club owner. Another interesting thing is that I have had only 2/53 male professors in all these years of education, a math and sports prof. respectively.
Should I just give up on trying to find a relationship in this shithole of a country and remain celibate?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:37:55 PM No.81884362
>>81884342 (OP)
>Should I give up on trying to find a relationship?
yes
>Should I just give up on trying to find a relationship in this shithole of a country and
get a dog
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:38:25 PM No.81884368
>>81884342 (OP)
The real problem is you being 5'4, not romanian. A a femanon id gladly date someone from romania just not someone shorter than me
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:39:00 PM No.81884376
>>81884342 (OP)
Eu am platit la curve. N-ai tupeu stai acasa.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:39:08 PM No.81884377
>>81884362
What is your reason for me to give up on getting a relationship?
Gypsies here steal dogs and torture them just because it's whitey's dog.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:40:15 PM No.81884389
>>81884368
Why do you say I am 5'4?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:40:42 PM No.81884394
>>81884377
>What is your reason for me to give up on getting a relationship?
so that you can focus on your priorities of moving out of your "shithole country" first
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:42:21 PM No.81884408
>>81884376
Prefer sa nu dau bani pe prostituate, mai degraba dau o laba si le las cu foamea-n gat.
Asta daca n-ar fi imbecili ca tine care pupa femeile in cur prin a le plati sa se futa cu el.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:44:05 PM No.81884422
>>81884389
I remember you making that same "be me, romanian" thread a few days ago, and you admitted to being 5'4. I said "Being a 5'4 guy you might as well kill yourself" and you replied "I wish I could, but Im afraid of actually doing it".
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:44:53 PM No.81884429
>>81884394
Thing is, I have eyed up a good career option here which would pay me more than 13k usd a month once I am done with education.
Problem is, this would tie me up with the romanian state as they certify my license and not any other state as I am a romanian citizen, not any other nation's citizen.
The job is being a merchant sailor being hired by foreigners and paid in american dollars.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:45:36 PM No.81884434
>>81884429
>good career
what career, a third of all jobs are going to be automated by 2030 because of "AI" and automation
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:45:54 PM No.81884437
>>81884422
I am not the person you are refering to, thankfully.
I am of a much more decent height of 5'8.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:47:25 PM No.81884447
>>81884429
>The job is being a merchant sailor being hired by foreigners and paid in american dollars.
you're not going to have much time for a relationship if this will be your career
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:47:26 PM No.81884448
>>81884434
>what career
If you would read the post above, it specifies so.
"The job is being a merchant sailor being hired by foreigners and paid in american dollars."
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:48:27 PM No.81884456
>>81884342 (OP)
>>81884342 (OP)
>I do not know why there are so few women going to school.
Not just women. The 2024 presidential election confirmed that many of us are retarded morons being mind-controlled by ChinaTok. We have free higher eduation yet just 17% of us go to university.
Picrel also confirms we're now into amerifat territory. The amount of fat fucks I see outside is disgusting and it's only been like this since around 10yrs ago. Rarely, when I end up going to KFC or McD, it's always full. Glad I'm a lanklet with a fast metabolism, so I can't get fat.
>Should I just give up on trying to find a relationship in this shithole of a country and remain celibate?
Well, I certainly recommend that. No women means I can live a very minimalistic life and I'm quickly becoming rich. I save like 70% of each paycheck and I have investments in "titluri de stat". Also, have you noticed how fucking stupid most women in our country are? All you hear them talk about is astrology, stupid TV shows like Love Island, children and other boring crap. There's seemingly nothing out there for someone with an above 120 IQ like me. I much prefer to masturbate than deal with these "panarame" every day.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:48:49 PM No.81884458
>>81884447
I do not doubt this, especially in the first years of my career when I will be working like a mule until I get the very well compesated position of "Chief engineer"
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:52:41 PM No.81884484
>>81884342 (OP)
>5/320ish female classmates
Wtf?

>the night clubs are always full of girls even under 13yos who are let in for free
Again WTF?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:55:03 PM No.81884506
>>81884456
Play hearts of iron 4 as Romania. They are one of the more important nations and you will enjoy it
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 5:57:24 PM No.81884524
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>>81884456
>Not just women. The 2024 presidential election confirmed that many of us are retarded morons being mind-controlled by ChinaTok.
YES! I KNOW! Tell me about it
>We have free higher eduation yet just 17% of us go to university.
I mean when a bunch of them are useless and the culture denotes higher education as useless due to it being incredibly corrupt to the point of being antimeritocratic so as to not threathen your superiors in a hierarchy.
>>81884456
>Picrel also confirms we're now into amerifat territory.
Achktually we're fatter than a couple of US states, check file posted here
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:06:44 PM No.81884594
>>81884456
>The amount of fat fucks I see outside is disgusting and it's only been like this since around 10yrs ago.
Yes, I agree. Much like niggers once they gain some money they spend it on food and alcohol or hennesy in their case.
>Glad I'm a lanklet with a fast metabolism, so I can't get fat.
Personally i eat one meal a day and It keeps me slim, very efficient too much less time spent in the kitchen.
>Well, I certainly recommend that. No women means I can live a very minimalistic life and I'm quickly becoming rich. I save like 70% of each paycheck and I have investments in "titluri de stat".
What is your career?
Might what city you live in?
I have also invested in government bonds! Smart choice, I recommend becoming a blood donor since you get .5% more interest for those bonds.
>Also, have you noticed how fucking stupid most women in our country are?
Tell me about it. They choose very bad options in men which can't even defend themselves then come to you once they are pregnant as if you will do anything than reject them while having an urge to beat the living crap out of them.
A bunch are single moms by age 14! 2/5 of my female classmates have done this and they were WHITE!
Although the average man here is just as much of an imbecile but there are a couple of exceptions so you may have some luck and make a friend or two.
>There's seemingly nothing out there for someone with an above 120 IQ like me.
Yes, this is a difficulty I have also encountered. The worst thing a man could do is have kids with a stupid woman and they turn out to be stupid as well, you basically just ended your bloodline right there.
>I much prefer to masturbate than deal with these "panarame" every day.
Indeed although I would rather have a woman in my life if she lived up to my standards. But if there no such option I rather be alone.
You saw at the beginning of the thread some pathetic dimwit being proud of spending his money on prostitutes no?
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:06:59 PM No.81884596
>>81884524
>YES! I KNOW! Tell me about it
I was fucking scared we'd end up with that insane piece of shit as president. Me and my parents were already considering leaving the country, but fortunately disaster was averted thanks to us young people. But it was incredibly depressing seeing how many idiots ate up the propaganda and insanity. Like I said, it made me realize I live in a bubble and I'm mostly surrounded by idiots.
>I mean when a bunch of them are useless
Same can be said everywhere on the planet but at least here you can get a degree without ending up with years of debt. I have a master's in electrical engineering and work in the field. I'm glad I chose what I did. Of course I'd be working at Kaufland if I went and did some useless sociology or letters degree. STEM are the only things worth going to uni for.
>incredibly corrupt
The whole planet is corrupt. I don't believe Romania is any more corrupt than the US, where legalized corruption, "lobbying" is a thing. Humans by default have this instinct in them and it's very difficult to fight against it.
>Achktually we're fatter than a couple of US states, check file posted here
I don't know how accurate that data is but yea, as I said, I see a too many fat fucks outside every day. I also hear my coworkers talking about food literally every day and it's just so incredibly boring to me. I don't know how they can talk about food so much. I eat when I'm hungry and find eating more of a chore than a pleasure. These fat fucks talk about food like I talk about computer hardware. It's insane.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:07:53 PM No.81884602
>>81884484
Keep in mind I am not lying.
These are two things which I would very much like to be decyphered as this is highly unusual and thus has been bugging me ever since I first noticed this being reality.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:11:51 PM No.81884639
>>81884596
I am also considering getting a bachelors in electrical engineering.
With the caveat of getting a bachelors and masters in mechanical engineering so I can work as an engineering officer on ships, not just the lone electrical officer which is paid rather handsomely but has no room for advancement.
Also the chief engineer gets paid more than double what an electrical officer makes and thus I very much want that position, rationally with my added electrical experience I should be a hot commodity in the maritime labor market as normally they only know about mechanical stuff despite being responsible for EVERYTHING technical on the ship.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:13:34 PM No.81884653
Move out you fucking fag, if you have an EU passport you literally have no excuse.

>t. slav who moved west, who probably would have otherwise kms by now
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:14:30 PM No.81884658
>>81884594
>Personally i eat one meal a day and It keeps me slim, very efficient too much less time spent in the kitchen.
I eat 4 meals a day but I walk a fair amount as I refuse to drive. I also eat kinda healthy as my mom cooks every day.
>Might what city you live in?
I'm in a county capital from Transsylvania. Not going to say which for privacy reasons.
>I recommend becoming a blood donor since you get .5% more interest for those bonds.
I might just do that since I think I also get a day off work if I donate blood.
>Although the average man here is just as much of an imbecile but there are a couple of exceptions so you may have some luck and make a friend or two.
Yea, I have two friends. Mainly because I'm introverted and don't want more but also because there aren't that many dudes I can connect with.
>The worst thing a man could do is have kids with a stupid woman and they turn out to be stupid as well, you basically just ended your bloodline right there.
I actually never want kids. Not just because I don't like them but it would plunge me right back into the poverty I came from. I can finally afford to invest and buy cool shit and live comfortably, but my coworkers who make the same as me are struggling with their wives, kids and mortgages. This is another reason I gave up on ever dating, since most women want to marry and have kids in this stupid country. I never want to do any of those things. I value my freedom and financial situation way too much.
>Indeed although I would rather have a woman in my life if she lived up to my standards. But if there no such option I rather be alone.
Same. I wish more men thought like this.
>You saw at the beginning of the thread some pathetic dimwit being proud of spending his money on prostitutes no?
I would actually go to prostitutes too, but the risks are too high. Why spend money and risk getting an STD when I can just masturbate? Sex without an emotional connection doesn't make much sense to me.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:15:04 PM No.81884666
>>81884596
>Like I said, it made me realize I live in a bubble and I'm mostly surrounded by idiots.
Where are you living to be so lucky to have some illusion of a bubble?
To me it's blatant the moment you walk outside.
Still, if you say you are high iq why do you think your father could find a high iq gal in the past? What is your theory on this? When did the "decline" start?
I am eager for your answer.
Also, where did you go to school for that bachelors and masters in EE?
As previously stated I intend to also go to school for a bachelors in EE, so hearing some experiences from another fellow stem student would be welcome.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 6:24:56 PM No.81884737
>>81884666
>Still, if you say you are high iq why do you think your father could find a high iq gal in the past?
My parents aren't that smart. They're fairly average but both educated.
>When did the "decline" start?
Probably in the 1990s when not much of the former communist leadership was changed. But the decline is global and mostly driven by social media. Social networks have given voice to the masses of dumb people everywhere, allowing echo-chambers to exist. At the factory I work as an engineer at, there's a retarded warehouse operator with like 4k followers on FB and she posts CG memes...
>Also, where did you go to school for that bachelors and masters in EE?
I think you can find such degrees at most universities in our country. Some will have different names depending on the university but you can look up study plans to see exactly what subjects are being taught and what are the qualifications you will have when you graduate.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:53:42 PM No.81885428
>>81884653
Nta but its impossible to move as a western yuropoor because every single country require you to speak the language fluently
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 7:54:43 PM No.81885442
>>81884653
Also move where, the EU is a shithole especially western europe
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:45:48 PM No.81885949
>>81884658
>I eat 4 meals a day but I walk a fair amount as I refuse to drive.
I also walk everywhere, I intend to get a bike to be able to go further without any exhaustion. The bike is a very great invention.
>I'm in a county capital from Transsylvania. Not going to say which for privacy reasons.
Ok
>I might just do that since I think I also get a day off work if I donate blood.
Won't you get kicked out of work for doing this? I know a couple of guys who did this and got kicked out.
>Yea, I have two friends. Mainly because I'm introverted and don't want more but also because there aren't that many dudes I can connect with.
I have none. I have a few acquaintances who usually try to fuck me over, fail then fuck off frustrated once it's over. Even then I don't engage with just everyone, so they already were the "cream of the crop".
>I actually never want kids. Not just because I don't like them but it would plunge me right back into the poverty I came from.
I think it is a duty for every intelligent romanian to have kids, otherwise dysgenics happen and none of us want that. It is our duty to the ancestors so that quality blood still exists here.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:52:04 PM No.81885999
>>81884737
>My parents aren't that smart. They're fairly average but both educated.
Weirdly similar circumstances.
Parents are dumb compared to me but hella smart compared to the ordinary imbecile in romania.
>Probably in the 1990s when not much of the former communist leadership was changed. But the decline is global and mostly driven by social media. Social networks have given voice to the masses of dumb people everywhere, allowing echo-chambers to exist. At the factory I work as an engineer at, there's a retarded warehouse operator with like 4k followers on FB and she posts CG memes
I meant decline as in terms of quality genes being discriminated against.
>I think you can find such degrees at most universities in our country.
Oh no, it was just a personal question I already know what my path will be in the future.
>Some will have different names depending on the university
Oh yea there is even a ministry of education document which specifically lists them all.
A bunch have different names but are part of the same "category" of degrees like electrotechnical engineering being a specialty of electrical engineering.
What is a bit iffy is transport engineering which the mechanical engineering course I intend to study coresponds under which is not great.
>but you can look up study plans to see exactly what subjects are being taught and what are the qualifications you will have when you graduate.
Oh really? A bunch of unis don't have this. The uni I go to does but I'm gonna go there no matter what as this is what my career path requires.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:53:12 PM No.81886006
>>81884653
I move out, but are my prospects better in western europe?
Are the native white women there better than in my country which is the source for most prostitutes in the EU?
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 8:55:18 PM No.81886025
>>81885442
>>81885428
Good points albeit
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:18:31 PM No.81886231
>>81885949
>I intend to get a bike to be able to go further without any exhaustion. The bike is a very great invention.
Riding a lot can result in erectile dysfunction apparently, so I kinda prefer walking or using taxis if the weather's bad or I'm in a hurry.
>Won't you get kicked out of work for doing this?
No. The whole thing is company policy. Donating blood is encouraged, especially if a coworker needs blood.
>I think it is a duty for every intelligent romanian to have kids, otherwise dysgenics happen and none of us want that. It is our duty to the ancestors so that quality blood still exists here.
I'm going to be dead in like 40-50 years so it doesn't matter to me. The whole planet is going to shit anyway. There's simply too many of us and we're rapidly destroying the environment to support our rampant consumption. An intelligent person doesn't want to add more to this mess. But yea, main reason is I just don't like them at all. I like freedom, money and getting 8h of sleep. None of these things are compatible with children. And every parent I know in real life is miserable and living paycheck-to-paycheck.
>>81885999
>I meant decline as in terms of quality genes being discriminated against.
If you have quality genes and a high level of intelligence, you're most likely not going to want children or marriage. Stupid people marry and have kids to fit in society, wether they want/like kids or not. Smart people only have kids if they genuinely like kids and enjoy their company. I mean, I don't like kids, see marriage as a huge risk and I don't give a shit about what my coworkers or strangers think of me. I don't even have social media. This obviously results in stupid people having more kids and society declining in time.
>Oh no, it was just a personal question I already know what my path will be in the future.
Not gonna say for privacy reasons. There's a chance people who know me read 4chan, lol.
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Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:25:49 PM No.81886297
>>81886231
>I like freedom, money and getting 8h of sleep. None of these things are compatible with children.
Also it's funny to me to be talking about this while being nearly 30 and a virgin. I just don't know how to talk to women in a non-professional setting and I've never had a female friend. I'm not even ugly since I'm slim and 189cm tall, but my face is average, I'm not muscly and I don't want to go to the gym as there's nothing wrong with my health.
But also since none of the women who've tried to flirt with me have been completely up to my standards, I don't regret anything. Not wanting to marry or have kids obviously removes even more motivation. I'm just happy enough with masturbation.
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 9:27:08 PM No.81886310
epstein night club..?
Anonymous
7/19/2025, 11:35:34 PM No.81887513
>>81886025
>mostly
I live in france and our dalaries are worse than poland and women wont even look at men.
So no its not better