I'm the anon that posted yesterday about going on a first date with an attractive woman who just joined Bumble. Welp, she just messaged me "The last thing I want is to be rude. But I don't think we match.". This was after she suggested a 2nd date idea btw but wouldn't put a date in stone so I was sort of prepared for this. I've had a couple of very similar first dates so it doesn't hurt so much when they don't want a 2nd date now. This one said "You'll find someone nice on here or maybe another app. Just remember to be confident. Good luck" then half an hour later "Are u ok" and I just replied "Yes" because i'd rather not say everything I was thinking and become a reddit screenshot. Then she replied "Alright just checking because you seem soft and I don't want your feelings hurt." Imo she was just trying to bait a reaction with this message because her ego was hurt that I didn't beg and plead her for a 2nd date.

I think what might have contributed is I didn't message her today (the day after our date) because she didn't want to have a date today I just assumed she was busy and she told me she had lots of friends so I didn't want her to think I was too clingy. But probably the main reason this happened was she got a hotter match because she recently joined and on our date she told me how she got loads of matches. She also said she was going to dinner with a 'friend' after our date which I bet was another date and if I was going to message her today it'd be about that and I thought it was best not to.

Anyway I just thought to post this because last time I posted about how I had a date an anon wanted me to keep everyone updated.

I wonder what she meant by "remember to be confident". Maybe I wasn't flirty enough but we were mostly bowling in a lane right next to a family so I felt a bit awkward about that.

>>81885281 (OP)
Go for fat girls. Skinny girls will do this to you over and over again. It is called hypergamy

>>81885281 (OP)
>But probably the main reason this happened was she got a hotter match
You mean "definitely"
>I wonder what she meant by "remember to be confident"
It's one of the surpluss non-compliments to save face. She can't just go and tell you you're ugly and she found someone hotter.

>>81885281 (OP)
>robably the main reason this happened was she got a hotter match because she recently joined and on our date she told me how she got loads of matches. She also said she was going to dinner with a 'friend' after our date which I bet was another date and if I was going to message her today it'd be about that and I thought it was best not to.

yeah it was this, youre not well versed in online dating but you need to harden up, I was like this, mulling over dates I had, why did x girl not want another date, why did y girl ghost me? why did z girl blah blah blah. The answer is either you give them the ick or they find someone hotter they want to fuck. Thats it, thats all it boils down to, they have infinity options to chose from. I once had 3 dates with a girl, 30 minutes before the 4th she just ghosted me, never heard anything back. One of many examples. I have had a fair amount of success though so its just a grind really but dont get into your head about it, try to not give them the ick, if a girl wants to fuck you she will make it SO incredibly easy trust me, women arent hard for the most part its just that most of them dont want to fuck you, the ones that do it will be ez.

>>81885295
I know you're right, I should go for my less attractive matches if I want a relationship but I cba to even message them and desu I tried that already and I couldn't get hard for her because I wasn't attracted enough. Idk how other guys get hard for women they ugly women unless they use viagra.

Honestly, atp I'm starting to accept i'll live the rest of my life alone

>>81885400
The answer to that is Clomid. I used to have that problem too. Take a third of a Clomid every three days and it will improve your testosterone to estrogen ratio. After a week or so you will wake up with raging morning wood and will get hard for literally any girl. After fixing my hormones with Clomid I would literally fuck anything and can see the sex appeal of any woman. Just take it for a month or two then stop. Clomid is what people use as PCT after they come off of steroids or test to make their balls work again. It allowed me to enjoy dating fat women and I could finally have a real dating life. Viagra is fine too but Clomid makes it irrelevant

>>81885281 (OP)
>you seem soft
Holy shit what an absolute cunt

>>81885295
>It is called hypergamy
Wish you retards would stop throwing random words around.
Words have meanings, you, know?
Going on one date means absolutely nothing.