I'm terrified of rejection, but not of asking girls out. My fear is that we do end up going out, and after like two months she says "now that I know you a little more deeply, I don't want to keep dating you"

Anyone else know this feel?

>>81892246 (OP)
this is why foreign men do better with women, it is impossible to know well a man that has nobody who knows him where he lives

>>81892246 (OP)
Kek that weebcel marvelcuck sperg got owned

No, I already know that I am not interesting enough to keep around.
I just want to fuck a lot until she gets bored and leaves.

Knowing there is a 99% chance of being rejected and getting nothing out of it is what deters me. I'd ask out any girl if I got paid enough to do it.

My general belief is that approach anxiety is greatly exaggerated. Men aren't afraid as much as they know there is no reward. Pay men 50$ an approach and you would see be uptick and nerds approaching and catching cases.

>>81892246 (OP)
Been there many, many times, OP. Girls get the "ick" so easily these days and ghost you for the most minor infraction, which you're often not even aware of. It makes you not even want to bother trying anymore.

This is why I will never let another person know my true interests. I'll tell them that I'm into normie slop games like Madden 15 or some shit.

>>81892246 (OP)
I'm actually going through this exact thing right now. There's a girl who works at a coffee shop I regularly frequent that's always quite flirty with me when I come in (beyond just normal friendly customer service). I have little doubt that if I asked her out she'd say yes, but I'm terrified of what you describe: that we'd go out on a date or two and I'd get the dreaded text from her telling me, "You're a great guy but I'm just not ready for a serious relationship." It's like I'd rather just maintain the positive, surface-level vibe we currently have than risk having her hurt me.

I know in life you've sometimes got to get over your fears and take chances, but I've been burned so many times like this and I'm tired.