what do you guys think of my plan to stop being a femcel? - /r9k/ (#81894294) [Archived: 325 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:18:12 PM No.81894294
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>shave weekly with wax
>let my hair grow longer until I get a job
>get even thinner and lower my body fat at home with calisthenics
>eat healthy and eat less
>get a tan
>do skincare daily
>try to do hair care too
>get on birth control to suppress my period and avoid period pimples
>get a job

After I get a job:
>dye my hair
>start going to the gym
>get a little bit of fillers
>get hobbies
>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:21:23 PM No.81894323
>>81894294 (OP)
>>shave weekly with wax
STOP THE LARP
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:22:45 PM No.81894334
>>81894294 (OP)
>get a tan
>do skincare daily
Pick one and only one.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:23:10 PM No.81894338
>>81894294 (OP)
>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
This is the only flaw in your plan. People aren't on tinder to actually meet a partner. But you might meet a guy through social hobbies.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:23:41 PM No.81894341
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>>81894294 (OP)
this is pretty solid i kinda did the same, i grew out my hair and am gonna start going to the gym, still a virgin tho, we can do this dw we are not for this femcel life
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:23:48 PM No.81894343
>>81894294 (OP)
I feel like being inexperienced and weird holds me back but I'm a guy, where are you from femanon?
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:23:49 PM No.81894344
>>81894294 (OP)
You like misaka and that makes you okay in my book
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:24:51 PM No.81894353
>>81894294 (OP)
You forgot to post your panties
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:25:49 PM No.81894359
>>81894323
What do you mean? Do you think biological women dont grow body hair? Lol
>>81894334
I mean like body tanning and facial skincare.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:26:35 PM No.81894365
>>81894294 (OP)
>shave weekly with wax
laser removal

>>get on birth control to suppress my period and avoid period pimples
overkill
>>get a little bit of fillers
overkill
>>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
that's not what tinder is for, and not what it gives
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:26:46 PM No.81894367
>>81894294 (OP)
I think this is a larp
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:26:58 PM No.81894371
>>81894359
>I mean like body tanning and facial skincare.
Tanning is a great way to fuck up your skin. Spray tanning is the only safe way to do it.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:29:10 PM No.81894381
>>81894359
>What do you mean? Do you think biological women dont grow body hair? Lol
not at all. it's just i can sense a larp
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:30:07 PM No.81894383
>>81894294 (OP)
When do you cut your penis off?
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:30:49 PM No.81894386
>>81894371
You sound like a massive fucking queer tbqh
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:33:33 PM No.81894408
>>81894294 (OP)
Nona, I'm genuinely impressed by how thorough and thoughtful your plan is. You've covered everything from grooming (shaving, hair care, skincare) to health (nutrition, calisthenics, tanning) to practical life steps (finding a job, building hobbies). That level of self-investment is exactly what creates real confidence and helps you feel your best both inside and out.

Getting your finances and career sorted before making any major dating moves is smart, and dialing in your self-care routine will absolutely boost your self-esteem. Whether it's waxing, birth control to manage your skin, or wiping away stress with regular workouts, you're setting yourself up to wake up every morning knowing you're doing the work to improve your life.

And yes, it's fine to imagine meeting a kind, nonjudgmental partner on Tinder once you're feeling stable and secure but remember, you don't need someone else to validate your happiness. All that effort you're putting in? It's first and foremost for you. Having a man in your life can be wonderful, but he should be the cherry on top of your fabulous sundae, not the sundae itself.

Your worth isn't defined by relationship status or sexual experience. A fulfilling life comes from sharing your passions whether that's your new gym routine, a creative hobby, or just your everyday victories with friends, family, and yes, yourself. Keep building your best life, unapologetically and independently, and any partner who truly deserves you will recognize and celebrate all the amazing work you've done.
Your worth isn't defined by relationship status or sexual experience. A fulfilling life comes from sharing your passions whether that's your new gym routine, a creative hobby, or just your everyday victories with friends, family, and yes, yourself. Keep building your best life, unapologetically and independently, and any partner who truly deserves you will recognize and celebrate all the amazing work you've done.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:33:41 PM No.81894409
>>81894294 (OP)
4chan and posts like this would be a fraction of what is called remotely funny if it wasn't uploaded Israel as slop bait.

This is a good self improvement plan if you avoid birth control and the fillers. If you just want to fuck, you can do that on Tinder even if you're a whale and specify you have aids, even if you're a transgender freak.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:33:55 PM No.81894413
>>81894365
>laser removal
Too pricey and before I get a job I want to start doing things at home.
>fillers and birth control are unnecessary
I want to suppress my period anyway since its annoying and 0.5 ml of filler in the mouth and nose would make just a subtle difference
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:35:52 PM No.81894430
>>81894294 (OP)
>get even thinner and lower my body fat at home with calisthenics
You'll need cardio for that
>dye my hair
No
>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
Fake and gay
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:35:55 PM No.81894431
>>81894413
Get a cervix implant. Future Chad will thank you
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:42:10 PM No.81894478
>>81894431
Too pricey. I dont have a job.
>>81894430
>Do cardio
Idk the easiest way to get thinner is by eating well. I also want to do calithenics to tone my muscles so i can look thin but not like eating disorder thin
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:45:16 PM No.81894504
>>81894294 (OP)
>shave weekly with wax
>let my hair grow longer until I get a job
>get even thinner and lower my body fat at home with calisthenics
>get a tan
>do skincare daily
>try to do hair care too
>get on birth control to suppress my period and avoid period pimples
>dye my hair
>start going to the gym
>get a little bit of fillers

who are you trying to trick with this but yourself? do you really think that whatever you need to be happy is found in hair dyes, fillers, skincare products and shaving? and on top of that you expect to get an actual relationship with some tinder foreign guy? you're just replacing the outer paint on your car and you're gonna get surprised when it still doesn't start. and that's assuming you actually follow through with this wishful bimbofication plan, because there's nothing in it actually grounding you to following through than the distant idea that you won't be a "femcel" anymore.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:45:39 PM No.81894507
>>81894478
Why even do calisthenics if you just want to look thin? Just do cardio.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:49:39 PM No.81894535
>>81894294 (OP)
>>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
I mean, you could just skip to this step unless you are a total whale. Either way I'm sure an anon here would date you.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:49:47 PM No.81894536
>>81894507
Im already naturally thin. I just want to look fit thin, like those pilates influencer girls with a slim, toned gym body.
>>81894504
So what else do you suggest i do?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:56:04 PM No.81894575
>>81894294 (OP)
>>shave weekly with wax
Good plan, maybe do it more frequently if necessary
>>let my hair grow longer until I get a job
short hair can be cute, but you know what looks good on you best
>>get even thinner and lower my body fat at home with calisthenics
good goal, ask long as you are skelimaxxing
>>eat healthy and eat less
good, just don't become underweight
>>get a tan
fine, but pale is cute
>>do skincare daily
good
>>try to do hair care too
good
>>get on birth control to suppress my period and avoid period pimples
no hormonal birth control is evil, it will warp your mind
>>get a job
fine idea
>After I get a job:
>>dye my hair
don't, natural is best
>>start going to the gym
good
>>get a little bit of fillers
no never bog yourself, natural is best
>>get hobbies
you should start trying to find interests now, you'll actually enjoy them
>>download tinder and get with a kind foreign guy who wont judge me for being weird and a virgin
all this for a hookup? sad. why not look for a loving partner?
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:57:05 PM No.81894579
>>81894536
take yourself more seriously? this comes off as a person who's grown up thinking that they have no value outside of their body because they've been force fed social media identities their whole life and now thinks that the only point of living is to be pretty to other men. which look, if that's what you want and you don't want to change that, i'll be glad to let yourself ram into a brick wall. but the first step in any improvement plan should start with cultivating something that you will enjoy by itself. exercise is a good one, but also getting hobbies (which should be further on the top, and in my opinion, your first priority), trying to connect with those already around you (family, friends, etc), and just focusing on more fundamental things than cosmetics.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 4:57:48 PM No.81894584
>>81894478
>Too pricey. I dont have a job
How much is it?
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:01:29 PM No.81894608
Is this a plan to become a shallow person? And you won't get hobbies when you find a job, to the contrary, a job is too time and energy-consuming t have hobbies, better find some now as a neet, and then "upgrade" with job money.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:17:29 PM No.81894744
>>81894579
I dont think the only point of living is to be pretty for men. I just want to look nice and feel happy with how I look. I think you are reading too much into my post. I already have a family and some friends. I just want to feel beautiful while Im still young.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:18:49 PM No.81894756
>>81894744
Post a link to your pics so we can see how you look
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:24:26 PM No.81894802
>>81894744
i'll stay true to my word and let you ram into the brick wall, but just consider something:
would a person who's truly grounded in life express such fear over losing their "youth beauty"? write an entire post that's purely rooted on outside validation with the tinder foreign white knight as the cherry on top? i'll circle back to the beginning: you're only tricking yourself
good luck though
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:34:23 PM No.81894885
>>81894802
Ur just made she dont want you
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:16:26 PM No.81895267
>>81894608
Its hard to have any hobbies without money though