can i get a bf despite being an angry bitch? - /r9k/ (#81894788) [Archived: 217 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:22:24 PM No.81894788
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every single dating advice for women coming from men is like
>just be agreeable, submit to his authority, only speak to affirm him, don't nag, don't cause him any stress, even if something he does bothers you, ignore it. modern women are too combative and masculine. don't act like a man.
but i am genuinely an opinionated angry bitch who says mean things and loves to argue. this is just how i've always been. does this mean i could never have a bf? what can i do?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:23:08 PM No.81894790
>>81894788 (OP)
Sorry, angry bitches do not deserve to receive me peener en teh vageener
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:23:48 PM No.81894795
>>81894788 (OP)
I love dealing with irrational angry bitches, so yes.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:24:17 PM No.81894800
>>81894788 (OP)
You could find a relationship with a guy but he's probably not going to be the kind of man you'd like. He'll be really timid and kind of a push over. Anyone else wouldn't want to put up with you.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:24:27 PM No.81894803
>>81894788 (OP)
Hmu. I love to argue
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:25:37 PM No.81894811
>>81894788 (OP)
Sounds like you're genuinely evil. I'm sure you can still find someone spineless though.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:27:18 PM No.81894819
This thread is really triggering the beta males who think that are always right. Lmfao
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:27:29 PM No.81894821
>>81894795
>>81894803
elab. why don't you want an agreeable woman like every moid?
>>81894800
>>81894811
why would he have to be a pushover?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:28:09 PM No.81894825
>>81894788 (OP)
darkies love angry bitches. only they argue with their fists lol you'll love it
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:29:16 PM No.81894835
>>81894821
>why would he have to be a pushover?
Nobody wants to come home after a hard day at work just to fight with someone. Then, what if you keep losing arguments? You'll throw an even bigger tantrum.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:29:34 PM No.81894837
>>81894788 (OP)
I mean, you can be a nice and pleasant girl high on trait agreeableness, while also being assertive. I would love to be able to have civil arguments with my gf. But it would be a problem, if she couldn't keep her emotions out of it.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:29:46 PM No.81894839
>>81894821
>elab. why don't you want an agreeable woman like every moid?
I'm not a narcissist who thinks I have to be right all the time
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:30:50 PM No.81894849
>>81894837
>if she couldn't keep her emotions out of it.
Lmao
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:31:20 PM No.81894853
>>81894788 (OP)
Are you fat? Fat women don't get to also have annoying personalities. You're allowed to either be ugly physically or mentally not both
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:32:17 PM No.81894860
>>81894821
>>>81894795 (You)
>elab. why don't you want an agreeable woman like every moid?

I like feeling like I have to be the rational one to calm them down/make them see sense
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:32:46 PM No.81894864
>>81894853
i am not fat but i am not particularly hot either kiss my ass faggot
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:34:08 PM No.81894879
>>81894849
If you can't have discussions without turning into a screaming illogical mess, then yes, that's a problem.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:38:34 PM No.81894917
>>81894864
Well there's your problem. You either be not hot or annoying. People will put up with the negatives if they see a positive. If both aspects of you are negative, expect to stay single or only date ugly and mentally irritating men
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:38:47 PM No.81894918
>>81894879
>If you can't have discussions without turning into a screaming illogical mess
Lmao
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:38:56 PM No.81894922
>>81894879
i might be angry and bitchy but not bpd okay
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:39:00 PM No.81894923
>>81894788 (OP)
I'm a man & I have a similar personality. I get into drama constantly even with people close to me, it's literally an addiction.
You should keep looking, I'm sure you'll find a man to love that's like us.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:39:30 PM No.81894926
>>81894788 (OP)
Yes you can but he'll most likely be Indian
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:39:57 PM No.81894929
>>81894922
>but not bpd okay
Is this what your therapist said when you went in to work on your anger issues?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:40:49 PM No.81894935
>>81894788 (OP)
Yeah I like angry bitches. Especially if they are fat. You need to find the right type of guy.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:41:42 PM No.81894941
Sea monkey can't date anyone
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:42:14 PM No.81894943
>>81894923
you get it
>>81894926
i don't know why you are bringing this up like that other anon >>81894825, neither pajeets or niggers are known for not expecting women to be passive
>>81894929
i don't have any issues to work on this is just who i am
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:42:54 PM No.81894950
>>81894788 (OP)
if this bitchiness leads to passionate rough sex then probably
if just mean with no benefits then hell no
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:44:40 PM No.81894962
>>81894943
It's bait you faggot. I wouldn't date a girl that's constantly angry anyway, I don't think anyone that didn't hate themselves would. Why would you be angry at someone you liked regardless? Makes zero sense to me
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:45:40 PM No.81894968
>>81894821
>why would he have to be a pushover?
That's the only kind of guy that'll be willing to put up with you long term.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:45:47 PM No.81894973
>>81894962
I wouldn't think ppl that like themselves would be posting on 4chan so....
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:47:13 PM No.81894985
>>81894788 (OP)
I'm sure there are guys who are into that. I think there are much less stringent rules regarding what women's personalities men find acceptable than vice versa. Me personally, I would like a kind and empathetic girl, but one who's also assertive. But I could work with her on helping her improve on the assertiveness part, as long as she satisfies the former criteria.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:48:03 PM No.81894994
>>81894943
>don't have any issues to work on
Anger is one of the top symptoms of csa so who was it?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:48:28 PM No.81894998
>>81894973
People that you like? Well either way what the other guy said, he'd likely have to be a pushover to deal with the kind of bullshit you're describing
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:49:11 PM No.81895003
>>81894985
>But I could work with her on helping her improve on
You dumbfucks can't even fix your own problems. Lmfao
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:50:13 PM No.81895009
>>81894998
I'm just gonna assume you responded to the wrong post
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:52:14 PM No.81895025
>>81894943
Being angry all the time is not normal and is an issue
>This is just who I am
How many friends do you have? Real friends not Internet people. When was the last time you spoke with them? How often do people stop hanging out with you or end friendships? What is the length of your longest friendship? Are these friends also angry all the time?
If you can't maintain normal friendships, forget about relationships and first fix your anger issues
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:52:40 PM No.81895028
>>81894788 (OP)
you could find a bf like that within 24 hours. but you want a chad like that.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:53:02 PM No.81895032
>>81895003
Everybody has issues. If you're waiting until you're perfect before you start dating and supporting your partners, then you won't ever date anyone. Or in guys' case, you'll be too inexperienced for your age to ever date a woman.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:53:03 PM No.81895034
>>81894950
i do like the concept of hate sex
>>81894994
no. what is this assumption? everyone who's angry must have been raped?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:55:09 PM No.81895054
>>81895025
>How many friends do you have? Real friends not Internet people.
6
>When was the last time you spoke with them?
we message every day
>How often do people stop hanging out with you or end friendships?
i have had the same friends for years
>What is the length of your longest friendship?
19 years
>Are these friends also angry all the time?
no i am the most aggressive one
>If you can't maintain normal friendships, forget about relationships and first fix your anger issues
not the case
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 5:56:07 PM No.81895064
>>81895034
>assumption
Not an assumption
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:00:56 PM No.81895102
>>81895034
thats fine then just have find a guy who had an angry mother and learned to deal with it
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:02:33 PM No.81895115
>>81894788 (OP)
You could probably have a bf, but you need to be 2 standard deviations above average in either looks or intelligence.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:06:06 PM No.81895145
>>81894788 (OP)
I hate trannies, would you angrily defend them in a debate against me??
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:07:40 PM No.81895168
>>81894943
>tfw no angry racist chubby gf to go around getting into fights with niggers with
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:11:40 PM No.81895211
>>81895034
You're too caught up in your own head and are looking for people to tell you that you're right. You aren't looking for actual solutions or advice. Men's preferences for women are as follows
>Hot and nice
>Hot and irritating
>Mid and nice
>Mid and irritating
>Ugly and nice
>Ugly and irritating
The percentage of men interested in you drops exponentially as you go down the list. Find where you are in here and deal with it accordingly

Incidentally for women the tier list is as follows
>rich and hot
>rich and mid
>rich and ugly
>upper middle class (same 3 hotness levels)
>middle class (same levels)
>poor
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:12:16 PM No.81895215
>>81895145
ewww why the fuck would i defend trannies? i hope they all die
>>81895168
this is more like it
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:12:55 PM No.81895224
>>81895215
I also hope they all die, but I was fantasizing that you would be so angry inside you'd argue against me about anything!
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:15:22 PM No.81895256
>>81894788 (OP)
Arguing for fun?
Sure, totally acceptable.

Arguing because you have repressed anger, and are angry with yourself and the world, and have not resolved your repression?
Not acceptable.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:19:52 PM No.81895296
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>>81894788 (OP)
Shut the fuck up you stupid bitch
>I have been muted
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:21:48 PM No.81895321
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>>81894788 (OP)
I have dated women like this, just realize you are a pain in the ass and have some humility and understand that being aggressive and in your face isn't always the best way to get what you want.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:28:29 PM No.81895398
>>81894788 (OP)
If you argue with me for long enough you're getting fucked. If I'm not actually angry in an argument I get irrationally horny after a while.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:35:28 PM No.81895466
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>>81894788 (OP)
A woman who only speaks to agree with me is likely the kind of onahole who has no hobbies or interests [goy]. A chick who can argue is teh jackpot (assuming they have actual intrest in shit and argue because they want to and not because there psyko)
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:48:53 PM No.81895581
>>81895215
>ewww why the fuck would i defend trannies? i hope they all die
>>>81895168 (You)
>this is more like it
hates trannies too? you're a keeper op.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 6:52:40 PM No.81895610
>>81894788 (OP)
Maybe be a little more empathetic, sweety?