Thread 81896353 - /r9k/ [Archived: 292 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:05:12 PM No.81896353
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Is having sex with prostitutes until you build up your sexual confidence the only realistic way of escaping inceldom as an older-in-life virgin?
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:10:33 PM No.81896409
Any of you foids that are lurking wanna make this guy the happiest hes felt in years ? Literally all you need to do is just talk and exchange contact and give him an honest shot. I know youre bored scrolling anyway
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:12:12 PM No.81896429
>>81896353 (OP)
How does sexual confidence help you talk to girls? I just don't have much in common with girls.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:12:39 PM No.81896433
>>81896353 (OP)
I got with a girl who I knew for a fact liked me, but couldn't get it up for the longest time. Finally I thumbed in my limp cock and she started to ride me, and I busted almost instantly. This later happed again with two different girls, but all three still wanted to see me after the "incident". Also two of them blamed themselves and got really insecure because they assumed the problem was them - something for you to think about.

To fix it I bought a fleshlight and used it until it cured my death grip and porn induced erectile dysfunction. I noticed that I was squeezing my pelvic floor to keep my boner but doing so is what causes you to bust in the first place. After watching less porn, my boners recovered which meant I didnt squeeze my pelvic floor, which means I dont bust, and actually I can go for quite a long time before I give in and decide to nut. Yesterday I maintained a boner for 40 minutes with a girl, and next weekend I'm meeting up with one of the girls from before, because she was hinting she still thought about me from all those months ago.

Basically it's all in your head. Try getting a little bit drunk, and citrulline for bloodflow.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:13:40 PM No.81896446
>>81896409
You called me a tallfag piece of shit in the other thread you fucking loser. Log off and touch grass.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:23:31 PM No.81896553
>>81896429
There are a lot of things that come with sexual inexperience. Your voice cracking when talking to women. Your hands sweating and shaking. Being reluctant to escalate sexually, when it's something you have to do as the guy. Generally feeling shy and lacking confidence. And all of that will prevent you from ever getting a girl into bed. Once she is in the bed, then there are other problems. Not knowing how to please her. Cumming too quickly. Being too nervous to cum or even get hard. Getting sexual experience can go a long way in remedying all that.
>>81896433
Yes, it's mental, but you can't get rid of those mental blocks without experience.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:29:06 PM No.81896610
>>81896553
I want to wait until marriage though. I'm also not that shy and I just try to be humble.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:37:10 PM No.81896700
>>81896446
This is the first thread i replied to today. I think you have my confused with someone
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:39:35 PM No.81896723
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>>81896353 (OP)
I have fucked double digit numbers of prostitutes and larp as a virgin here. My objective is to find a virgin fembot and tell her I'm a virgin as well and surprise her with my sex skills
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:42:10 PM No.81896747
>>81896723
I don't think you'll be getting any woman by telling her you're a virgin, regardless of whether she's a virgin or not. You may need to adjust your strategy.
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:44:19 PM No.81896770
>>81896747
I'm not getting a woman by telling her I'm a virgin, yes, but I don't think me being a virgin would be that big of a deal for a fembot
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:44:45 PM No.81896776
>>81896353 (OP)
My lack of experience was never my true barrier.

My problem is not that women give me attention and offer me dates, only for me to disappoint them with my low self esteem. My problems is that woman completely avoid me like the plague (aka: Im ugly as hell).
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Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:47:06 PM No.81896803
>>81896770
>I don't think me being a virgin would be that big of a deal for a fembot
It would be. Just don't talk about your previous experience (or lack thereof) at all.
Anonymous
7/20/2025, 8:49:28 PM No.81896822
>>81896776
Okay, but if you find that one in a billion woman who won't be repulsed by the way you look, then you better be in a position to make the best out of that shot, since you may not be getting another one. And that's something that having sexual experience would help you with a lot.