>>81900471They genuinely do not. They pursue chad for sexual thrills, but in so doing get emotionally hurt from pump and dumps, cheating, insecurity, or whatever else. Then when they are beaten down enough from that and give up on finding a chad they are happy with, they pick someone who makes them feel "safe" as described here. At every step of the way, they think they are being true to themselves and making the best decisions they can.