Invited to normie party; what should I expect? - /r9k/ (#81902111) [Archived: 290 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:28:20 AM No.81902111
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My normie friend invited me to a party, a lot of people gunna be there but I think this is my first party I am going to. Theres a couple of cute girls that I have talked to before. I know theres gunna be a lot of beer. Anything I should prepare for? Should I even try hitting on any girls?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:31:25 AM No.81902126
>>81902111 (OP)
If you're going to a normie party and browse /r9k/ Im afraid you're ngmi
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:33:11 AM No.81902139
>>81902111 (OP)
south park says you should bring ginger ale and marshmallows
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:33:50 AM No.81902142
>>81902139
Can't that make Napalm?
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:34:28 AM No.81902150
Just get your own drinks
People who didnt get their own drinks will approach you and try to talk to you to get drinks from you
If youre lucky one of them will be an attractive foid
otherwise dont worry about it
just stick with your normie friends you know
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:36:24 AM No.81902157
>>81902150
What kind of drinks should I get? I was just gunna bring redbull cuz I heard no one else was bring it.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:36:44 AM No.81902159
>>81902142
No. The story was that two actually retarded kids end up in a gang war, and after accidentally massacring the other side, they topped off their newfound popularity by buying everyone ginger ale and marshmallows.

Oh I forgot. Bring a pocket lighter too for the smokers.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:36:48 AM No.81902161
make sure you eat before you start drinking
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:37:20 AM No.81902167
>>81902157
Vodka and juice
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:38:13 AM No.81902175
>>81902157
oh yeah red bull sounds good
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:39:44 AM No.81902184
>>81902111 (OP)
There was this girl who blew me a kiss that will be there (last time I went to a club with that same normie friend). Any idea how to approach her? Idk how to bring up that I like that she blew me a kiss.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:43:08 AM No.81902213
bring dice, everyone loves dice
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:44:30 AM No.81902224
>>81902111 (OP)
Is there going to be drinking or other drugs and do you partake? If so bring your own and don't rely on others to float your high. There is no obligation but if that's the environment have a drink and know your limits. The best thing you can do is just be yourself without being the loudest in the room or center of attention. The more you can treat random strangers like you've always known them and you're just there to party to have a good time the better. Try your best to pick up on social cues and don't be afraid to move on from people you're not clicking with. Dancing and card or videogames are a good way to socialize but there will often be little areas where people naturally gather to talk like the kitchen or other side rooms. If you feel overwhelmed step outside for a breather. Also be the party buddy. If you see someone not having a good time try to interact with them if they don't just want to be miserable attention whores. Even the hottest people will find others avoiding them if they bring those vibes to what is suppose to be a party. Loosen up and try to keep the good energy flowing
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:47:12 AM No.81902246
>>81902224
>Is there going to be drinking or other drugs and do you partake?
Drinking but I have never actually ever gotten drunk in my life. Drugs besides weed no- but idk if I would turn any down.
But that makes sense, I'll try to keep my good energy up.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:53:25 AM No.81902292
>>81902246
Most people tend to not get absolutely drunk at a party and it's usually the fastest way to not be invited back or worse like sexual assaults or being robbed. It's best treated like social lubricant that some people are very experienced at even after a dozen drinks. Handle your high and know your limits. For most a beer or two is often enough when they aren't regular drinkers
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 6:57:18 AM No.81902333
>>81902292
Sounds good. One last thing that I want to ask cuz I dont know what to do about it.
My wardrobe. I pretty much either have suits (for my job) or black baggy pants, trench coats, shirts, and boots. I kind of started to dress like Paul Atreides after watching Dune because I am a Retard. Any suggestions on what I should maybe wear, or would that be fine? I have some time to get some better clothes.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 7:09:46 AM No.81902466
>>81902333
Wear what you want thats comfortable for the season and you're not worried to get damaged but it's also a good plan to get a feel of the crowd you'll be interacting with. However most house parties tend to be very casual and diverse with many different walks of people so don't expect to impress everyone regardless of what you wear. Clothes don't exactly make the person. Be unique or blend in. The choice is yours.
For example. If it's a punk party it's not the best idea to dress fully prep but I've seen people pull it off.