how do I tell my e-gf that I feel like I'll die when she ignores me

>>81903120 (OP)
me personally
i never tell anyone what i feel and rot on the floor until they text me, then i talk to them like an overexcited dog seeing it's owner come home from work

>>81903120 (OP)
just tell her but i'm a nice non-creepy way

if my bf told me that i would find it cute

>>81903125
I try to maintain my dignity but I end up double or triple texting her

>>81903133
>if my bf told me that i would find it cute
You can't say that if you haven't been through it. Like the guys claiming they want a clingy obsessive bpd girl

>>81903120 (OP)
Is it something you've told her before? It can be very emotionally manipulative and even abusive towards a person and might need to be addressed through counseling

>>81903120 (OP)
Damn I would love an egf who ignores me constantly. We could interact for a few minutes every week max. That sounds nice.

>>81903178
i mean i've dealt with a bpd guy before and i loved the clinginess so if i had that without the insanity then yes i would love it

>>81903182
I've told her I need her before and I couldn't live without her. The first was in a moment of weakness, the second time she obviously wanted that from me

>>81903192
I don't have BPD, and I'm 90% convinced she does. Not to say I don't have issues, I'm very much the problem here

i told my egf that i missed her and i wanted her to talk to me and she deleted me. i just missed her a lot, i guess im just not meant for irl love or edating or anything

>>81903247
how did you meet? i need a guy like this

>>81903259
I'm sorry, anon. I dread that happening sm

>>81903272
>how did you meet
Here, ofcourse! I'm not an e-dater normally, I got super attached to her after a few replies

I feel like an impossible weirdo because I'm the daddy dom in the relationship but I still demand constant attention like a needy puppy. If you forced me to describe my affection style at gunpoint I'd probably say "papa bear"

also yes I have done the sex and it was very cool but I prefer love to sex if I have to choose and for some reason only very very far away girls ever love me

Yeah, I like to get attention too dude. If she ignores me for a long enough time I start to feel bad

>>81903346
I'm not stoic or super masculine, but it feels weird to be this needy for a girl 3 years younger than me

>>81903392
It's like a high when she's in a good mood and talks to me for hours straight

>>81903247
If you're not threatening to kill yourself there can be something romantic about it. Some people might enjoy that level of power over someone but most don't and it can actually hurt them if they care about you

>>81903120 (OP)
Will you and the hedgehog bitch just die already

>>81903456
as long as you're not toxic about it, harming yourself or threatening harm or whatever, there's nothing really wrong with it

if she's a bitch about it she's probably a narcissist and you should find a girl who appreciates your neediness... if you can

>>81903699
b nice..

>>81903706
she's an angel and she said she appreciates it

>>81903777
then why does she ignore you
nice trips btw

>>81903120 (OP)
Please just be honest with her. I recently lost my fembot friend. It was all due to my thoughts. Enjoy the friend that you have, while you have them.

>>81903807
No details but she's disordered + unmedicated

>>81903839
I've told her I like her many times

>>81903871
>No details but she's disordered + unmedicated
that's not an excuse
stop fooling yourself

OP please have self respect

>>81903941
>>81904529
This thread might be giving off the wrong impression. She's my friend and she's nice 2 me c:

>>81904589
you are complicit in your own abuse

>>81904712
I don't think that's accurate, anon

>>81904759
please be rational

>>81904787
I'm infatuated, but I think I'm pretty honest with myself

>>81903120 (OP)
I want to tickle the anime hedgehog on the stomach

>>81903120 (OP)
Lol. I remember dry humping this girl who had an e bf and she basically flat out told me to fuck her. Stop being a cuck.

>>81905899
ok

>>81905947
irl gf havers never get cucked

>>81903346
we're in the same boat, anon
it's tough

>>81905947
I have heard this anecdote many times on r9k and either it's the same one guy every fucking time or multiple anons have picked up and like to spread it but it's definitely not just an entire army of sex havers on r9k

it was also probably never true to begin with

>>81903120 (OP)
if you tell her that she will just ignore you more to piss you off

>>81906830
if she does that just leave her
or get a second e-gf on the side

>>81903120 (OP)
Hey OP just a heads up
the last time I was like this to a girl, she cheated on me after 3 years
Stop what you're doing. You're going to freak her out if she realizes just how codependent you are.