Thread 81905454 - /r9k/ [Archived: 208 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/21/2025, 2:54:06 PM No.81905454
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Be honest with me. Is it selfish for me to have a baby? I want kids and a family but all I can think of is my son growing up in a horrible world being miserable and depressed. I would do everything I could for him but I cannot guarantee the world he lives in will be good.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:05:37 PM No.81905515
>>81905454 (OP)
Honestly, having loving parents is one of the absolute key factors in being emotionally balanced. Almost all of the put together people I know have good relationships with their folks and the depressed ones have bad or non existent relationships with their parents

So if you have a child and love that kid, and truly do your best, chances are that kid will be just fine.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:08:25 PM No.81905533
>>81905454 (OP)
learn a good job and go to a country that is not a shithole like finland or sweden thats what im gonna do in a few years
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:08:40 PM No.81905535
>>81905454 (OP)
You can just ivf daughters
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:10:33 PM No.81905544
>>81905454 (OP)
>Is it selfish for me to have a baby
Yeah but that goes for anyone that wants to have children. I think odds are that if you're here then you'll probably end up passing your autism genes onto your son and he'll end up living a miserable life. That's what happened to me. But you also might end up having a daughter instead which would probably go okay baring any kind of traumatic experiences. Maybe just abort if it's a boy?
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:12:05 PM No.81905555
>>81905454 (OP)
no, we born to make life and so on, its your job to give kids to a woman as a guy retard
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:12:05 PM No.81905556
>>81905533
Both those countries have higher unemployment than the us during peak 08 recession.
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:13:28 PM No.81905571
>>81905556
And they still have a way better quality of life than we do
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:16:23 PM No.81905593
>>81905571
How?, if you take the bus you will still be surounded by various browns, the salaries are a lot lower?
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:19:13 PM No.81905614
>>81905555
I think OP is a chick
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:20:23 PM No.81905627
>>81905556
cope.
>>81905571
this, the best countries to go are nothern countries
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:23:18 PM No.81905652
>>81905627
How do you expect your life to change if you moved to a northern country, you wouldn't know the language so you would be stuck hanging around rootless immigrants
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Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:24:18 PM No.81905658
>>81905533
>>81905556
>>81905652
>moving to any country with a Muslim population

No thanks
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:53:22 PM No.81905891
>>81905454 (OP)
If you don't have plan, fuck no. Don't bring a life to this shitheap.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:56:45 PM No.81905916
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>>81905652
thats why you learn the language years before moving retard cant you think things through for your own
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:57:16 PM No.81905921
>>81905652
I'm pretty sure that foreign experts are welcomed here. They have better employment opportunities than the locals here at global corporations.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 3:58:18 PM No.81905925
>>81905454 (OP)
If you post here do not have a kid. Like what the hell kind of a premise is this. Clearly you failed at life so why would you doom someone else! Crazy
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 4:00:31 PM No.81905944
I want a family business and like 200 acres. That way I can have lots of kids and ensure they are taken care of. If they want to farm, timber, breed, whatever they can. If they want to unicuck, sure, bad idea but I'll let them make it.
As long as you are willing to homeschool them and put them in a tight knit community like church, 4h,or similar its alright. If you live in a city/suburb it's probably immoral to have kids unless you can afford two country clubs and a marina fee + prep school.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 4:07:39 PM No.81905996
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>>81905454 (OP)
Yes it is selfish. You already know your situation is fucked for the kid to have a good life.
Anonymous
7/21/2025, 5:26:34 PM No.81906589
>>81905454 (OP)
>Be honest with me. Is it selfish for me to have a baby?
Absolutely.
>I want kids and a family but all I can think of is my son growing up in a horrible world being miserable and depressed. I would do everything I could for him but I cannot guarantee the world he lives in will be good.
You are thoughtful and sad correct.
This world is fucked, and it's only getting worse, if the boom in inceldom and wage-slavery is anything to go by.
If we actually had a post-work utopia, in the style of Star Trek, then having kids would be wonderful again.