I wish I had a foid of my own to take care of and cuddle together with. I think having a foid to love would fix my sleep issues.

>>81915362 (OP)
And you believe one would love you? I've given up, but good luck

Do fembots want to be taken care of instead of being strong independent women?

>>81915595
Yes, but they would never admit it

>>81915595
I enjoy a bit of both desu. That's kinda how all loving relationships should be

>>81915620
Does it mean your bf can be vulnerable with you and lie on your lap and be taken care of too?

>>81915743
Absolutely it does. That's one of my favorites

>>81915789
I hope you get your switch bf!

>>81915854
why do they just have to be a guy

>>81915911
...or switch gf...

>>81915925
why do they just have to be a girl

>>81915362 (OP)
i wanted this to but slowly learned girls who want this are awful people.

They only want you to take care of them cuz they're either really retarded or really lazy. They will act cute and autistic to lure you in but once you live with one, you'll see why they're homeless.

avoid at all cost. You will just be a cuck

>>81915960
inbetween doesn't exist, pick your poison and stop baiting

>>81915595
>>81915620
I'm not sure I even COULD be assertive or leading with a girlfriend. It's like a parent asking their kid to drive the car. I don't mean I want to be helpless, dependent, needy, babied, and stuff like that all the time, but to actively pursue and lead sounds foreign. I wouldn't know what I or she would want. I'd constantly look to her for approval for how I'm "leading", and that feels like a convoluted and dishonest way about it.

>>81916029
fuck you it doesn't. don't be so binary normie

>>81916084
That's mentally ill, please get better. I'm not saying you have to be dominant, but at least be able to sometimes take the reins. Otherwise you're just selfish, as always being in control and being confident and strong and making decisions is very difficult. Sometimes a girl just wants to lie on your lap like a little girl and get spoiled

>>81916093
>aaaahhhhh nnnnooooo someone is challenging my shallow pseudoscience beliefs or something
lol lmao

>>81916084
That's common for most couples when they start dating and more so when living together. It shows you value their opinion and comfort. Eventually you'll find your stride because you know each other to the point where approval won't be needed

>>81915595
sure but that's not really sustainable so no

>>81916100
>as always being in control and being confident and strong and making decisions is very difficult
Don't a lot of normal men do just that? "The ick" is just men dropping the ball for a second or making some other infraction in front of the wrong woman. Men will even say not to open up too much or cry before girlfriends or wives because there's no telling if she will take it well or not. I don't think the sex-flipped version of this is acceptable, but you lecture me for something small in comparison.
>Sometimes a girl just wants to lie on your lap like a little girl and get spoiled
I could oblige that, but it falls back into clumsily doing what I think she wants, instead of us both wanting things that just happen to align.
>>81916121
That makes sense, but I don't know where that stride starts and what asserting myself in a relationship would look like.