>>81919453 (OP)It is the opposite. If you have a great life, if you are attractive, mentally healthy, had a normal upbringing and crossed all the developmental milestones at the right age, then you will have a young hot girlfriend. People already thought you were cool and popular and wanted to impress you and be part of your exclusive social circle, having a young hot girlfriend doesn't change this much, it might boost it a little, but you had already made it.