>>81924013>looksHeh, looks like I have a chance then ;)
>this preference isn't pretty shallow of meI think everyone is going to have some preference over aesthetics, and it's fine as long as you don't prioritise it over other important parts of a relationship.
>men age very poorly in my opinion, especially since the majority of them thinks self-care is faggotry.I don't really get it either. I want to maximise what I can get out of this body (and my life in general), so I treat it well.
How long did you know that young guy before you offered to fly out to him? I would be open to flying out to meet someone I like but I'd need to know I genuinely like her after properly getting to know her, preliminary background/security checks etc.