>almost 20 khhv
>overly paranoid of relationships and intimacy, scared of sex
>dont want to be used
>want partners to wait 1-2 years before having any intense intimacy or sex

ive never even tried to date (except online) or anything so idk if this is a ridiculous standard

>>81925619 (OP)
its a pretty high bar for sure

but I am sure you can find someone

XD

>>81925619 (OP)
Yeah, that probably won't happen
I'm loyal, but if a girl didn't want sex with me I'd assume she hates me

>>81925619 (OP)
i'm like this too but waiting for marriage instead of a set amount of time, i'd honestly rather die a virgin than put out before that just because someone wants me to. don't change your boundaries for anyone if you don't feel comfortable with it

>>81925670
itd be something i mention to a partner before going into the relationship, so theyd understand i dont hate them, i hope

>>81925684
this is how i feel too. id rather die a virgin than put out early on. id also wait until marriage too like you, but if i and the partner both hate the sex then we'd be trapped together and itd be really annoying

>>81925716
>so theyd understand i dont hate them, i hope
Most people break their all rules for those they like.
And I'm 21 khhv. I want to have sex! While I'm still sort of young

>>81925670
my assumption is that she's going to cuck me

>>81925619 (OP)
1 year isn't ridiculous, but would filter every ADHD.

>>81926522
i dont really think id want an adhd partner anyways, so that doesnt matter

>>81926540
im crying kms