I finally matched with a girl on Facebook dating but when I opened the chat I suddenly felt very nervous like I never expected to get that far so I never thought about what to say. I'm imagining meeting in person and how awkward it would be. I've never met someone with express intention of getting to know them romantically, it feels like it would be weird as hell and it makes me uncomfortable.

>>81926969 (OP)
Just go with the flow and do it. You'll get better at it. DO NOT retreat to your comfort zone.

>>81927020
The zone looking comfy as hell ngl also I'm surprised to see you saved the second image to mine lol

>>81927032
The internet is a small place, anon. I'm watching you. If you chicken out of asking this girl out on a date I'm gonna beat the shit out of you.

>>81927071
Idk man. She lives kinda far too. It's like an hour drive from my town to hers. That's a lot of effort for something that very likely won't work out anyway

>>81927134
Quit it with the lame excuses, either get laid or get rejected, if you back away you will regret it. Good things are always hidden behind discomfort, fear, effort. Learn now or you will pay the price.

>>81927161
Mhm and how many dates have you been on?

>>81927169
Technically one, which turned into a 5 year relationship (we immediately moved in together). Why'd you ask? This is about you, not me.

>>81927180
Well I just figured I wanna know how much experience you have before I take your advice because your advice might be bad and you don't know what you're talking about

>>81927134
>She lives kinda far too. It's like an hour drive from my town to hers.
>That's a lot of effort for something that very likely won't work out anyway
That's my morning and afternoon commute. Like the other anon(>>81927161) said: quit excusing. You are already setting yourself up for failure by doing this.

>>81927212
Ok well I mean not an excuse but I also don't think we have a lot in common based on her profile. She seems kinda normie

>>81926969 (OP)
Listen OP, its better to throw yourself in the deep end and totally fuck it up; rather than not doing anything at all. The 'right timing' doesnt exist, you're gaslighting yourself. Every reply here is 100% the truth. Go meet her and have fun with it.

>>81927193
I see, but I think that is also a cope, looking for excuses to justify not trying. Point is, in order to get that date and that relationship, experience intimacy, I had to power through discomfort, fear, I had to silence my self hatred, and so on. I had to silence the inner voice that kept screaming there was no way a cute girl like that would like a guy like me. If I hadn't done that I would be a suicidal khhv. The comfort zone has a price. I urge you to realize that asap. Time fucking flies, anon. You don't have time.

>>81927237
>also don't think we have a lot in common
So do a lot of relationships.

Ok well what do you guys think I should say in my first message?

>>81927317
Do you also want us to guide your cock into her vagina, mate

>>81927349
Why would I say that?