Anons here claim that I could easily get a good bf, as could all women.
However... I really do not believe this to be true.
Most men here feel they are "right for me", that they are entitled to have a gf.

In reality, many men are degenerate. Especially 4chan users.

I do not care whether my partner is very attractive, rich, etc. But in order to be compatible with someone, of course they need to meet SOME of my listed criteria:

(I am autistic, so please understand if I struggle to articulate myself well.)

I wish to live a truly traditional lifestyle, one where me and my partner have children very early on, I look after them, he works, etc.
He doesn't need to be rich, but it would be irresponsible to get in to a relationship with a jobless neet.
I'm not gambling my life away by committing to a relationship with someone before seeing whether or not he can hold a stable job, that's foolish.
I think in a traditional relationship dynamic, he needs to prove to me before he asks to be mine that he is a man that can support me.
This completely cuts out needs from my pool of potential partners.
As you can imagine, that means that most people here aren't compatible with me.

Part 2 beneath.

BTW... I'm more than willing to prove to him that I can help support us through taking care off the hoke, raising children, etc.

I'm not particularly religious, but I have a great respect for Christianity and how it built up our white societal culture in to what it is today (or rather, the "good old days", but it was not long ago.)
I am also very family oriented.
Call it judgmental, but I would care about what my potential husbands family would be like very much.
All of this is to say that I would not date a jew, nor a man who's family has Jewish tendencies.
Many men, especially in America, are marked for life as kikes through mutilation of their genitals at birth.
I would not marry a man who's family mutilated him at birth, as that is a great sign of corruption within his family. Very likely going back generations.
As you can imagine, my unwillingness to marry circumcised individuals cuts out yet another huge portion of people from my potential dating pool.

Again, he doesn't need to be super handsome, but I think it is in societies best intrest to marry healthy people.
I would not marry a fat man for this reason.

Part 3 beneath

I would not marry a man with sexual deviances, like autogynephilia (a huge portion of people here)
And I could not marry a man who taints himself with porn.
I think it's disgusting and unhealthy.
I would not marry a foreigner, as I believe race mixing is unhealthy.
I would not marry a vaccinated man, as there is a chance that will somewhat effect our child dependant on what vaccines he's been given.
He would have to lose weight, not be a sexual deviant, not consume porn, etc.
As you can imagine, this cuts out another huge amount of the people here from my potential relationship pool.
I used to look for people with favourable personalities, interesting ones, but recently I've only cared for men that meet my basic criteria. Yet there doesn't seem to be many.
Keep in mind there are many things I still haven't posted.
For instance, I would not like to have casual sex.
Many men are not okay with that.
Obviously I cannot list every aspect of what I want from a traditional relationship, but this should all give you the gist.

>>81928904 (OP)
>>81928920
>>81928926
I fit all of that but can't get a gf. You say it's what you want but actually it's not.

>>81928920
>White
The vast majority of white men are gainfully employeed. I don't know where this meme comes from that white men no longer work. It doesn't show up in any of the data I've seen. It is true that men generally are working less..however, that's because the face of American is increasingly not white, it has nothing to do with white men

>>81928926
Too bad it doesn't matter what you want. The man that you say you want you do not qualify for. Does not matter so have fun and enjoy life. You'll be dying alone like the rest if us.

>>81928926
Why post this stuff here though? Seems a bit silly, no?

>>81928920
The circumscision requirement is unreasonable and nonsensical. Stop the buck with your child. Your father and grandpa are probably circumcised.

>>81928940
A lot of people here think women can get a man easily. It's true, but that's because they settle for less.

I seek a hyper traditional lifestyle, one that many here should find admirable. But I take it to hard and wish to do it to an intense degree... resulting in me ACTUALLY finding it hard to find a partner.
It just makes me sad when people tell me I can't be lonely once they get an inkling of suspicion that I'm a woman.

>>81928934
>I fit all of that but can't get a gf. You say it's what you want but actually it's not.
I truly want what I say I want. A lot of people seem to *think* they fit my criteria, but once I start talking to them, I quickly find out their influenced by the cabal.

First, I meet all of these requirements except I don't live in the United States. So unless you'd be willing to move to an (actual Christian, not American Christian) Scandinavian country that has been ranked in the top 3 of best places to raise your children by foundations like Unicef, I won't be able to fit your standards as I won't use my high earning job to fund your lifestyle over the internet.
Second, you should add some basic information about yourself as us men have standards too, most importantly, but not only, the hymen status.
Third, these are very based requirements if you're not a fat ugly slob yourself. The circumcision one will be the biggest issue for finding him in your country. High paying jobs are galore and it's mostly the neets that are degenerate filth.

>>81928951
I am from Europe, rarely is anyone circumcised. Especially in my country.

I have problems socialising, so I spend a lot of my time online. Due to this, I often speak to Americans.
I can see myself being with one some day, so that's why I felt the need to bring up the circumsicion thing.
I don't think it's silly... I'm open to debate though.

>>81928980
Are you somewhat attractive and are you and your mother slim or obese?

>>81928958
You can't because at the end of the day you're choosing this. Waaa I'm sooooo lonellyyyy because I think I deserve something based on nothing but my own feelings. Then the world shows you no doesn't matter what you want what you claim you deserve or entitled to the world gives no fucks. Either work to get this guy or die alone. Make a choice then proceed to promptly fuck off.

>>81928951
It's mostly America that still does this as standard practice

>>81928971
>Second, you should add some basic information about yourself as us men have standards too
I understand that, of course. Although this post wasn't me looking for a partner, hence why I did not go in to detail about myself at all.
I just felt the need to vent about my frustrations due to people online acting like I should be easily able to find a partner.
It makes me loneliness feel wrong.
>the hymen status
I'm not an expert, but I believe the hymen can stretch through physical activity. I'm not sure if this is a good indicator as to whether someone is a virgin or not... at least sometimes it's unreliable.

>>81928969
You say that but your actions like those of all women indicate otherwise.

>>81929002
>Either work to get this guy or die alone.
I work to become partner one day.
I am slowly taking on all house-care related responsibilities in my home, learning how to take of the place well, etc.
>are you somewhat attractive
It may sound harsh to say to myself, but no. I believe that after puberty I was not given the opportunity to look nice by God in part due to my sins. I still don't consider myself very religious (in the sense that I do not belong to any religion, go to church, have an extensive set of spiritual beliefs) but I do believe there is most likely a spiritual entity that is similar to what most religions believe is God, and I believe that he punishes those who do bad things (karma)
I'm a better person that I was when I was a tween.

>>81929027
How do I act like them? I genuinely do not mean to act like that.

>>81929010
>this post wasn't me looking for a partner
If you're not looking, your loneliness is in fact justified, but I'm being semantic.
>like I should be easily able to find a partner
Obviously your struggles and frustrations are justified, but they are still limited by your womanhood. If you're looking for such a traditional lifestyle, I assume you're currently living with your parents as a neet while asking for a man who has dedicated his life in preparation to provide for you. Can you see why that would rub some people the wrong way? Your future husband has to set the stage for you two all by himself while you leisure around and try your best not to be a whore. It would be a lot better if you changed your standards to look more for potential than already achieved success. Help your future husband get a high paying job by supporting him on his journey instead of waiting at the finish line to reap all his hard earned benefits.
>I'm not sure if this is a good indicator as to whether someone is a virgin or not
Nice misdirect on the question. Virginity matters less if you're absolutely beautiful, but since you're posting here, I can only assume you're average at best.

>>81929062
Your looks come mostly from your mother and father, it's not Karma or whatever or do you have autistic features like Greta Thunberg? You sound autistic.

>>81928904 (OP)
>I don't care if he is rich but he must be able to support the entire family with his income which is only achievable by being relatively wealthy
>I don't care if he is handsome or not but if he is not that's a sign of bad health so he should die alone
The degeneracy part seems like a projection because most normal guys are not some porn addicted freaks with retarded fetishes that nobody ever heard of. Your only problem is finding a guy who is not circumcised and who would be willing to settle for you who seem to offer nothing while the guy you are describing sounds like he would have a lot better options.

>I can help support us through taking care off the hoke, raising children, etc.
In other words "I don't want to work and best I can offer is cooking, cleaning and raising my own children as if women are not doing this on top of having jobs

>>81929062
>I work to become partner one day.
Let me guess you're working on your career or whatever other bullshit instead of working on the things that men actually care about? Always when I hear women say thing you ask them what it is they are actually working on its always so vague and often never has anything to do with actually finding the proper guy.

>>81929087
>Nice misdirect on the question
It wasn't meant to be a misdirect, sorry for the confusion.
I just thought it was worth saying...
I only touched myself once as a child and never again after my parents caught me and told me it was wrong.
I did not bleed, I did not feel pain, so I do not think my hymen stretched.

Of course it could've stretched through other means, but nothing sexual.

>Can you see why that would rub some people the wrong way?
Yes, especially today. But I believe it's good... it is how I would raise my daughter to act if I were to have one. I would tell her that she is to work on yourself and her skills, the ones that align with her womanhood. Then one day, hopefully she will find a good man to take care of her who will appreciate her honed skills.
>Your future husband has to set the stage for you two all by himself while you leisure around and try your best not to be a whore.
I wouldn't just expect the husband to be the only one who has to prove himself like that.
A good wife must prove that she isn't a lazy person either, that she can handle the stress of taking care of the home, raising children, keeping the place clean, cooking dinner amoung other things.
If I had a son, I would make sure he knows better than to invite a parasitic individual in to his life. His future wife should be able to prove that she is loyal, hardworking, cleanly, good with children, etc.
>It would be a lot better if you changed your standards to look more for potential than already achieved success.
I feel like that is quite the gamble though.
Even long ago, it was still a gamble... but at least my lifestyle was expected of people.
Nowadays, I would be unsure that my jobless husband would not succumb to the pressure of a working life.
I do not want an angry husband, an unstable one, one who cannot hold a steady job, etc.
I'm willing to be his and listen to him if he can provide. I think it's good.

>>81929087
>Help your future husband get a high paying job by supporting him on his journey instead of waiting at the finish line to reap all his hard earned benefits.
I am not looking for a rich husband or anything. Just someone who has a stable job and has proven he does not become an angry, unstable man under the pressure of working life.
I would of course support him in furthering his career, that's what a good wife does for her good husband.
But in the meantime, I can live very frugally myself until I help him further his career (if he wishes to do so)
>>81929121
>You sound autistic.
I said that I am.
I do not expect men to accept this, so if that is the cause for my loneliness, I'll only blame myself for that.
I believe it may be able to be overlooked by a lot of men though... but I'm not sure, to be fair.
>>81929133
>most normal guys are not some porn addicted freaks
I don't think they're addicted... but most guys look at porn. I don't think that's right.
Even if they're not addicted, they still struggle to stop doing it forever. So it's still a concern.

>>81929133
>In other words "I don't want to work and best I can offer is cooking, cleaning and raising my own children as if women are not doing this on top of having jobs
I don't think it's bad. Maybe it's because I'm autistic, but I really struggled to become a good caretaker.

>>81929133
>In other words "I don't want to work and best I can offer is cooking, cleaning and raising my own children as if women are not doing this on top of having jobs

Thats the definition of tradwife. For me, women like OP sounds too high maintenance and no fun. I hate my job and want to be able to just quit one day, if I finaly snap from waging and rhats easier aline or with nondependent gf. But its a trade you must make if you want trad wife.

>>81929156
>Let me guess you're working on your career or whatever
No, I've never had a job.
Sorry for the confusion, I thought I made it very clear that I would focus on other things.

I said I'm working on becoming a better housewife, so to speak.
I've taken on the house caretaking responsibilities in my home... and while it is not comparable to taking care of a house AND raising children, I believe that becoming very very proficient at home caretaking will show that I am capable.

>>81929164
>I'm willing to be his and listen to him if he can provide. I think it's good.
So basically he gets nothing while he does all the work.

That's all I'm hearing from you at the end of the day. Look most guys know how to cook clean take care of the house. So what does that leave left. Child rearing yet you don't even have experience there. You probably don't cook for your family. So what anywhere qualifies you for this man? A man who has had to work his ass off to get his shit together and not get beaten down by life just to even meet your qualifications and nothing you've said so far puts you above any woman at all. Most of you women say these exact same things yet fail to realize we live in 2025. Cooking cleaning and being a pretty face is just the basic requirements to having this man and you don't even meet that.

>>81929230
>So basically he gets nothing while he does all the work.
That's what the cabal wants you to think.
For a long, long time, people were very happy with a traditional relationship dynamic. I think there are still people out there that would enjoy it today, like me... they're just seemingly rare.
>Look most guys know how to cook clean take care of the house
That's not for men though. My ideal lifestyle would allow him to work and then not have to worry about housework related things.
I do actually cook for my family btw... I stated earlier that I've taken on those duties in my home.

>>81928904 (OP)
>>81928920
>>81928926
If youre struggling to find a partner, then you are looking in the wrong place. You accuse men of representing themselves falsely to align with your values, and yet you yourself are likely dating on Discord and other online mediums.
The reality is that if you were the person you are claiming to be, you would have a community within which to secure a partner. You're no different from the men you judge.

>>81929255
>you would have a community within which to secure a partner
I don't understand. what kind of community?
>and yet you yourself are likely dating on Discord and other online mediums.
I have discord, but not for dating purposes. I don't really do that kind of thing... so no, you're mistaken.
>You're no different from the men you judge.
How so?

>>81929249
Okay then do you think he will just allow you to take over these responsibilities? Doesn't matter what you think a guy who has his shit together who has been maintaining himself to the point he meets again your requirements isn't just going to defer to you. After all he has had to have himself going long before you even got there. To him it'll be habitual. Why would he want to alter that and change it. Against nothing you've mentioned is any different than what a good portion of whay other women want. Yet at the same time guy is rare in these unstable times. So you still need to answer what is it that is worth getting with you that ilhe won't get easier from some other women who doesn't expect so much from him?

>>81929283
I understand that not all men will be wanting this, but I am looking for a certain kind of man.
A type of man that is looking for a wife to support and to take on these things for him.

>>81929164
>it is how I would raise my daughter to act if I were to have one
That's very admirable. What are your opinions on homeschooling?
>I wouldn't just expect the husband to be the only one who has to prove himself like that.
I suppose you would be able to show off your part by cleaning and cooking skills.
>I would be unsure that my jobless husband would not succumb to the pressure of a working life
That's what schools are for. They prepare you for the 9 to 5. What if your future husband got a degree, worked a 6 figure job for 7 years, but then succumbed to the stress of managing the home and the work life? Would you give a man like that a chance to get back into his career as you help him or do you consider him a jobless, unstable husband too? Succumbed as in a burn-out, not a angry blow-out or anything.
>>81929206
>But in the meantime, I can live very frugally myself
How soon would you see yourself getting married and have children? How many children would you want? What kind of frugal lifestyle do you have? Is it clothing? Are you into anime or videogames? I'm not, but I assume most people here are.

>>81929295
Jesus it's like talking to a brick wall. That doesn't matter. WHAT DO YOU HAVE THAT OTHER WOMEN DO NOT HAVE THAT WILL MAKE THIS RARE MAN WANT TO GET WITH YOU?

Fucking hell I swear women love to be obtuse. For us men we always have to figure out this damn question as women always want us to bring something to the table. But every time I try to ask women what is it that makes them so damn special they think they can go for this man and it's always the same. Nothing.

They will always say sine nonsense about cooking cleaning being their yo listen whatever. Most women say this. Yet none of them can prove this. Again I'll ask... it doesn't matter what man you think is going to have this special MC flag that'll magnetize him to you, What exactly makes you so special that this man who is rare should ignore all other women for you?

>>81929278
>I don't understand. what kind of community?
Church, local organisations, extended family - through them friends and potential partners.
>I have discord, but not for dating purposes
Doubtful. Where do you meet men?
>How so?
Most "trad" larpers online are just social rejects that have been forced to adopt a system of values that gives them the self esteem needed to endure that rejection. Are you a single mother by any chance?

>>81929301
>What are your opinions on homeschooling?
I was homeschooled actually.
Maybe it's unbelievably stupid of me, but I haven't made a final decision on how I'd educate my kids. Idk if I want them to go to school, I don't like schools and what they teach. Would I be capable of teaching them? I don't know, maybe.

Sorry that I haven't thought about this specific aspect of raising a child much, I feel dumb now.

>That's what schools are for. They prepare you for the 9 to 5.
It's not an automatic disqualification like the other things I mentioned... but I would be very wary of a man who went to college at first. I understand many children are forced to go to school and get taught by the cabal, but college is a plunge even deeper.
Still, not everyone who goes to college succumbs to the cabal, but I would be wary.
I would need to get to know him well before I dropped my guard.
>Would you give a man like that a chance to get back into his career as you help him or do you consider him a jobless, unstable husband too?
This is an interesting idea.
He's jobless, but is uniquely primed and prepared for a job far more than most, even some working men... I would have to get to know him personally before I decided.
I am hesitant about committing to a man with an uncertain future in terms of stability, but I suppose there could be an exception if I was absolutely sure he'd be able to support me... again, I do not know.
I'd have to get to know his situation well before I make a decision.
>How soon would you see yourself getting married and have children?
I'm not sure exactly how long, but assuming me and my potential partner got along well, preferably we'd get married very soon.

I haven't thought of an exact number of children that I'd like to have... naturally.
But I'd like more than most.
Maybe 2 or 3 in the first few years.
Then more when they are older.

>>81928904 (OP)
>I am autistic
Translation: I have stupid demands and am inflexible and will not care about you

>>81929335
>WHAT DO YOU HAVE THAT OTHER WOMEN DO NOT HAVE THAT WILL MAKE THIS RARE MAN WANT TO GET WITH YOU?
Oh, well I don't think many women nowadays are pursuing the kind of relationship I am.
So I offer a traditional wife experience in return for a traditional husband experience.
I kinda described what that entails in my other posts, but I can go in to detail if you'd like?
It's mostly stuff liking taking care of the home, cleaning up, cooking dinner, doing clothes, etc.
My husband wouldn't have to do any of this.
I'd also take care of the kids most of the time since he'd be at work.
>What exactly makes you so special that this man who is rare should ignore all other women for you?
If all women in the world became trad, I wouldn't be special. I'm autistic and struggled to even get good at housework.
So I'd probably just kill my ugly self.

>>81929301
>What kind of frugal lifestyle do you have? Is it clothing? Are you into anime or videogames? I'm not, but I assume most people here are.
Frugal means living cheap.
By this, I mean to say that I'm not a super materialistic person.
It's not like I want a rich man to buy me gifts lol
I think I'd be rather cheap all in all.

I am in to games, SOME anime, yeah.
Some anime isn't good for people in my opinion.

>>81929363
>Church, local organisations, extended family - through them friends and potential partners.
I am not very religious, at least in the conventional sense. So I don't go to church... I also don't really go outside, so I'm out of luck there.
I look for men online, sometimes even here, but shortly in to our conversation they usually tell me something about themselves that I mentioned is a no-go in my post.
Like, I've talked to people on discord too, not really dating... but that's partly because I wouldn't want to "date" any of them after finding out stuff about them.

I put date in quotes because I don't like that word.

>Are you a single mother by any chance?
No, I've never had sex. I'm not a larper, I was brought up very unorthodox, but I'm grateful for it. This is just who I am.

>>81929399
No, I'm literally autistic. I have certain issues, but I mostly overcome them... so aside from maybe talking weird and acting weird, there shouldn't be too many issues.

>>81929417
>If all women in the world became trad, I wouldn't be special. I'm autistic and struggled to even get good at housework.
So I'd probably just kill my ugly self.
More than enough trad women put there they aren't a rarity. Even more so if he's willing to travel countries. He'll as a brokie I still managed to travel to China for some programs I was in. A man who is worth his salt can do this with zero issue.

You really got to the crux of the issue. You ask to much yet you offer to little. I suggest you start learning what men actually want. Learn how to actually make a man's life easier. Men don't have that many demands but for some god awful reason you women love to ignore them and act like they are on insane difficulty yet we look at what you want and what you provide and it's like the fuck you on about cus.

It is really not hard to set yourself apart from other women but this trad shit isn't it it's the base line. And if you can't even beat the base line you should leave these men alone for women who are actually deserving of this type of man.

>>81929222
Tradwife should also offer sex but OP gives the vibes of only wanting sex for procreation.

>>81929490
I get the feeling it'll be a dead bedroom for any man who enters that transaction.

>>81929485
What I ask for is just a well moraled trad husband with a decent family imo....
Like I said in my post, I'm not even super picky about personality. Although of course I'd like to enjoy his presence haha.
I want to love him.
>And if you can't even beat the base line you should leave these men alone for women who are actually deserving of this type of man.
I really try my hardest to be the best I can. I offer what I can.
What do you think i should try to offer to be a better person?

>>81929490
>>81929521
I'm not interested in casual sex, yes.
I think that sex is made to encourage procreation and only that.
Of course, he can do as he pleases on the nights we try for a baby, he doesn't just have to thrust without enjoyment.
But outside of those nights, I think it's wrong to have sex just for enjoyment.

>>81929543
And that's where you'll lose pretty much anyone. Sex is good. It's healthy for your mind, for your relationship and for your stability. Casual sex implies having sex with people you don't care about.
What you're describing is a non-intimate relationship, which goes against how we are wired.

>>81929565
I don't think it's a bad thing.
I'm okay with masturbation, as long as it's not anywhere close to when we're trying for a baby, so it's not like he'll be pent up all the time.
Porn, casual sex, all these things... I disagree with.

>>81929523
I think you should learn what men want and cater to it instead of what you think men want like your response to this post of a good example of this.

>>81929543
You think a man worth his salt should get with you and then not have sex at all unless tononly have kids.
But wait there is more not only that he has to remain faithfully to you and he can't watch porn either because your requirements.

Im sorry but men love sex man get stress relief from it. No one is saying casual sex but if you aren't even going to fuck your husband when he's in the mood despite all the work he has to do for you???

Already right off the bat if any man knew that fate would have dropped your ass in a heart beat. This is what I mean you know nothing of what men want need or thrive on yet you expect a man to show up to cater to all of yours and he's just supposed to except that.

It's why no one trusts tradwifes these days. it's why guys meme them because you don't even understand how the trad lifestyle even works. You just twist whatever you believe it is from whatever romcoms you've seen. Actually read soke diaries from people who we used to consider traditional. See what they actually did. You would defer to him and his authority. You wouldn't gdt to have a say in how the house was ran only the raising of kids. If he stepped out and cheated you would have to sit there and fucking accept it.

Yet I highly doubt you would. I highly doubt you would actually tolerate a real olden days traditional marriage. Which is why you add all this extra nonsense to make it more appealing. But when you boil it down reduce it to its base components you aren't willing nor ready for a real traditional relation. Until you are I suggest you stay in your lane and let the women who actually understand this get their chance for a traditional man. We already have dating mismatch like crazy this era. We already keep incels from reproducing so step aside for the people who are actually trying.

>>81929582
I don't mean to get so caught up in word usage but what you're describing isn't casual sex. It's a form of love, which is a key part in a marriage.

>I would not marry a foreigner, as I believe race mixing is unhealthy
Why are you racist? I understand having a preference, but did you really need to say that?

>>81929677
The dumbest part about that is that a lot of foreigners are probably the same race as her, but less mixed.

>>81929677
I'll never understand this mindset either.
>my own race despises me.
>my own race won't have sex with me.
>bunch of women else where literally thowing themselves at me.
>nooo I don't want them because race mixing


Pffttt so be it then. The rush and how good I feel when I get messaged by a woman who wants to talk to me. Yeah can you believe that messaged by someone that wants to talk to you. I know fucking insane.

>>81929603
>Im sorry but men love sex man get stress relief from it
I'm okay with masturbation amoung males. I think it's natural for them and can help men feel less pent up.
The fact that some men struggle to do it without porn shows that they've done something to their mind.

>No one is saying casual sex but if you aren't even going to fuck your husband when he's in the mood despite all the work he has to do for you???
If he's pent up, he can masturbate... no? Then the urge for sex should be gone, if I'm not mistaken.
So long as he doesn't do it anywhere near nights when we're trying for a baby, I don't see any negative things that could happen.
He is on his own taking care of himself as many animals have been observed to do.
The way I see God, I think he wants things to be natural. So I think this is okay.

It sounds horrible to you, but if your mind isn't reliant on porn and you don't masturbate constantly, it should actually feel really relieving.
>you don't even understand how the trad lifestyle even works.
My parents thought me that casual sex is bad, I respect that. I carry on the moral traditions of the generations that came before me. I think that's admirable...
>I highly doubt you would actually tolerate a real olden days traditional marriage
Everyone in immediate family thinks this is right, so I would say I understand tradition well.

To be honest, you seem like you're lying to me. You really think casual sex is "trad"? That sounds like manipulation... like, you want me to follow the cabal under the assumption it's "trad".
I genuinely believe in God's karma, so I think you should stop.
Practically every religion fears him, I think that's for good reason.
If you keep trying to drag people like me in to the will of the cabal, he will do something.

It happened to me before.

>>81929603
>You would defer to him and his authority
I would defer to his authority. I'm just saying that I'd avoid marrying a poor moraled man in the first place.

>>81929751
>If he's pent up, he can masturbate.. no? Then the urge for sex should be gone, if I'm not mistaken.
You are mistaken. I have a gf, we have sex semi regularly and I masturbate inbetween but that only increases my lust for the actual thing.

>>81928920
You say you are not looking for someone rich, but in this economy only a wealthy man can support a wife & family on one wage. The majority of couples are dual income. I speak from experience & knowing a lot of guys with families. the wife always contributes financially. How else are you going to pay for mortgage/rent, car registrations, various insurance, schooling costs for growing kids & them left over money for luxury items.

>>81929390
>I feel dumb now.
Don't be, but it's something you should think about as it's going to be your responsibility. He could work from home some days or do a 4-day workweek (slowly becoming the standard here), to also teach. I'm friends with a few Christian families who do and it's not that big of an undertaking as one might assume, although I'm sure you're aware as you were homeschooled. I'm not a fan of the current school system for the same reasons you aren't.
>many children are forced to go to school and get taught by the cabal
You are absolutely amazing.
>I'd have to get to know his situation well before I make a decision.
Could I give you a contact to explain it more?
>preferably we'd get married very soon
I'd like to be married at most after a year of dating. I see no reason to wait any longer if we're already sharing our lives.
>Frugal means living cheap.
My mistake, I thought it meant spending freely. I come from wealth so I like to buy more expensive things when they are important to me as an investment. Car, household appliances, bed, sheets, toiletpaper (that one is just me being spoiled) etc.
>I am in to games, SOME anime, yeah.
So you'd be playing videogames at home while your husband would be working? Yikes. Unless you meant board games with the family?
>Some anime isn't good for people in my opinion.
There are a lot of cartoons that are a gateway to degeneracy too, not just tranime. I've seen a few romance anime I enjoyed, so I cannot hate.

>>81929677
>I understand having a preference, but did you really need to say that?
I just think it's healthier to not attempt to procreate with foreigners.
I'm not super religious... in the sense that I don't go to church, have an elaborate set of beliefs, etc. But I do live a spiritually simple life. I believe that there is something akin to a God and that he does punish people who break the rules of morality. He punishes them with karma.
Like, I did bad things when I was a kid, that played a part in the situation I find myself in today. White people as a whole sinned less than blacks and often followed Christianity (a well moraled religion in the eyes of what I believe to be God) and that played a part in why white people became the dominant culture in much of the world.

>>81929815
Don't bring religion into that discussion please. What makes someone from a different place so bad? If you were to move outside your country wouldn't you try to integrate into society somehow? I and most others would, despite what others say.

>>81929958
Certain foreigners are okay. Mainly ones from predominantly Christian countries that have historically carried good karma (like the US)

I have to bring religion in to this because spirituality is a big part of my life. Even if I'm not conventionally religious by most people's standards...

Foreigners that have historically negative karma associated with their populace can definitely redeem themselves though. I'm not even fully white myself.

>>81929815
Considering you don't know the abhorrent history of the church for the last 600 years must mean your home school failed you. There's nothing morally just about Christianity. Christianity's history is paved with blood and corruption.
White people became dominant in the world through imperialism. They were the most technologically advanced, and they conquered.

>>81930001
Pretty ironic to talk about foreign karma when the US is probably the most evil country in the world right now.

>>81930049
I mean historically... they got to a good point due to their good actions.
>>81930020
I never said that I thought Christianity as a religion is good, just that it's followers have historically been favoured by God.
You don't get modern white society without Christians... well, it was better in "the good old days", but they weren't that long ago.

>>81928904 (OP)
>I wish to live a truly traditional lifestyle, one where me and my partner have children very early on, I look after them, he works, etc.
This is really difficult to accomplish well in the year 2008+17. Unfortunately living expenses (rent, food, etc) have made this unobtainable for most men. I think a lot of men want this, but the reality is it's just not possible.
To expend your options, you should be willing to work a few years so that you and your partner can save up to buy a house. Then you can transition to stay at home mother.

>>81928904 (OP)
>I wish to live a truly traditional lifestyle
Leave this tranime imageboard then.
Dont worry, you wont be missed

>>81928904 (OP)
>stay at home mom while he works with children

Yes your standards are insanely high

>>81930178
No, I said that I'd take care of the kids *and* the home related duties.
>>81930159
This is honestly one of the only places I feel right in, strangely enough

>>81930001
So you're not conventionally religious and not fully white either, now we're on the same page. Isn't that just grand?

>>81930194
I don't really want to get in to my personal racial stuff, but yes. I'm not conventionally religious.

I do have an idea of god that I believe in though.

>>81930205
It's sounds like you a have a solid foundation so that's good. For what it's worth I would enjoy someone I can debate with, both petty and important things. Is that you?

>>81930188
>This is honestly one of the only places I feel right in, strangely enough
Nothing strange about a troon feeling right in 4trans

>>81930188
This is 2025 the fact you can't see this is extremely telling. Your peers if they get married are going to be a two person income. Period end of story. Please gain some understanding of the world. Shouldn't even be considering homeschooling if you can't even grasp the world as it is now.

>>81930291
I don't really enjoying crazy deep debates... I don't mind explaining myself, but I'd never willingly put myself in a position to just keep debating things one after the other lol

Well I'll just gaslight you into something lol. What I was getting at is to say is I value smart women who will call me out on my bullshit that inevitably will come to light.

>>81930398
Oh no, I messed up again meant for >>81930338

While I'm at it, do you read anything?

>>81930188
Doesnt work like that anymore and you have your gender to thank for that. You foids wanted to work so now, you have to.
You have no one to blame but yourselves

Wow you're almost perfect. But not being Christian kills it desu. Gl on your search.

I meet 100% of your criteria and I would rather cut my uncircumcized cock off than be with some ugly antisemite cow.
inb4
>not ugly
you wouldn't be here if you weren't, you would be out there living your life

>>81928904 (OP)
Im not reading all that shit, congratulations or condolences fr

>>81928904 (OP)
The social contract got torn up and set on fire so you will just have to gamble hoping someone takes you seriously when society has stacked the deck to make doing so a perilous risk nobody wants to deal with
Good Luck! This is the feminist future you asked for!