I was talking to a cool guy at a party, and we really hit it off. We decided to hang out again, but on our last meetup, I mentioned my boyfriend. Suddenly, he got weird and said he had to leave.
Why do guys do this? Seriously, men explain yourselves. Do you only see women as potential hookups? I just want friends, but it feels like if l'm not open for something sexual, you lose all interest. Is that really how it works?

They're cutting themselves off from male friendships too, they won't realize how they hurt themselves by putting all relationship values on one sexual female relationship until it breaks down under the strain once they get one.

stop posting this thread... plz

>>81931056 (OP)
yes this is really how it works you dumb whore, he thought he was courting you by taking you out on a date you mention your bf like a clueless whore and he immediately realizes this isnt going anywhere ill be stuck in sex-less friend zone purgatory forever. You're giving sex to a man and if Im not the one youre giving it to why the fuck would i hang out with you its like willingly cuckolding myself. On top of that you mention your bf like youre literally cucking him, did you tell him you got railed like a slut too?

>>81931105
do you spend all of your time in here? get a life

>>81931056 (OP)
Women are TERRIBLE friends, it's physically impossible for you to keep a secret so theres no reason to ever tell you something personal

>>81931056 (OP)
You could have many guys at once.

>>81931129
this is insane, just mentioning your bf to head off people being weirdly pushy is not "literal cuck" do you even know what literally means?? it's not an intensifier

>>81931148
i have a daughter bud. she's my world.

>>81931056 (OP)
There really is no point on being friends with a woman if theres no romantic or sexual interest. Women are fucking dumb and boring, why would we bother with them if its not for that? Why is it so hard for women to understand this?

>>81931208
stop raping her

>>81931056 (OP)
Have you tried having something to offer other than your body?

>>81931196
youre fucking a man
that man is not me
me being your friend and pining for your affection taking you out places and all that shit its cucked if i know at the end of the night im gonna drop you off and another man is going to fuck you, you're gonna give him your pussy and the friend you wont give anything but an awkward side hug to before running in the house to get ready for Chad

>>81931214
as long as she attends her summer classes she can eat as much dairy queen as she wants

He thought he found a girl he could like, but instead he found a roastie that wants guy friends. No self-respecting man willingly joins a single-female polycule

>>81931250
This, he thought he found a potential gf and his thoughts were i'll impress her by taking her on a date and we can get closer but then you tell him ackshually im gonna go get my pussy blown out later tonight by a different man i never bothered to tell you about
in the modern day theres nothing a man can do about that, in the stone age he wouldve just beat you to death you dumb whore

>>81931056 (OP)
I wish men were more open to platonic male/female friendships. I feel like they are so much more intense about their interests than girls can be, there's so much cool stuff to learn about just from talking to them. Not to mention that men can be a lot more direct if they're not trying to kiss your ass. I want to be called out some times not coddled.

all the foids itt need to be friends with a gay top
they're like straight dudes in everything BUT sexual orientation

i'm a gay top and i talk about yaoi with my girl friends haha

>foid repeat spam
No sane man willingly stays in the Friend Zone, cunt. We want to fuck you.
Once a slit makes it clear that that we will never get to fuck it, goodbye.

>>81931391
how do you even go about making that happen

>>81931418
gay tops are an endangered species so you'll have a hard time finding one, sorry :(

>>81931333
I would be open to platonic relationships with women if my basic intimacy needs were met. You know how miserable it feels always being the 7th wheel to 3 couples? I fucking hate going out with female friends who have boyfriends. You have the amazing privilege of seeing them flirt while you ear a mcflurry or whatever. And you get to see them start families and shit while telling you "Anon you should get a girlfriend too" FUCK YOU. And most will just use you as an emotional tampon or someone to help them move. I really do not need any female friends. I need a girlfriend->fiance->wife, i want a family, i'm not in kindergarten nor middle school anymore, i am a lonely adult man with a fucking job and apartment.

>>81931518
>get gf
>gf gets mad at you for having girl friends

>>81931518
I understand where you're coming from anon. I know most men aren't interested in platonic friendships with women, it does make me sad though. Do they often make you tag along while they bring their boyfriends? Can't you just hang out on your own?

>>81931056 (OP)
You lead him on and wasted his time. Yes, you always will be just a hole to fuck you worthless bitch. I can't believe women think they can just waste men's time like that. Kill yourself

>>81931056 (OP)
I already have friends. My friends and I are interested in retard nerd shit that any woman would be turned off by if I even thought about in her presence. My friends were made naturally with no effort of my own purley through our common interests in retard nerd shit. If I am making an active effort to socialize, it is either for MONEY or for SEX.

>>81931696
No, if they go out alone it's "girls nights" and i'm not invited.

>>81931056 (OP)
Parties are for finding people to have sex with. You don't want that, don't go.

>>81931056 (OP)
If a girl who I am interested in tells me she has a boyfriend I take that as a sign to stop talking to her. I could potentially have female friends but assume every man is playing GF QUEST and their mission isn't complete until they find a GF. If you have a boyfriend you should lead with that info to not lead people on.

>>81931882
I'm sorry that sounds terrible. For what it's worth I also don't like when my friends bring their partners because it changes the whole vibe and it's never quite the same. Being the only single guy must be rough. Do they at least try to set you up with someone or do you not want that?

>>81931056 (OP)
He thought you were trying to seduce him. He probably cut out and left due to thinking you were trying to cheat.

>>81931056 (OP)
Are you stupid? Why would anyone in their right mind want to be friends with someone they're sexually attracted to who doesn't find them sexually attractive back? That's awful. Imagine being sexually frustrated every time you're near her, wanting to die each time she goes home with another guy.
Use your brain, OP.

>>81931972
They have never even hinted or alluded to setting me up with someone. It's funny hearing normies advise loner men to befriend women as they will set them up with their single friends. In my experience that's just a movie trope and complete fabrication. Once i jokingly said they should find me a girl from their friend group and they got serious and went "ew no, that's so creepy". I guess 50 000 year old human social dynamics are now creepy to normies.

>newfags redditor tourists fall for a copypasta for the millionth time
Kekaroooooooo

>>81931096
Male friends are for cucks. Someone post that one reddit post by the guy who went on a double date with his male friend, and then he ended up being made to wait outside while the friend had a threesome with both girls. That's what happens when you have male friends.

>>81932132
I recognized the pasta, but the discussion is valid and worth having all the same, especially when most women nowadays believe men whom they reject need to stay as their orbiters and just neutering their own feelings.

>>81932119
That's a mean thing for them to say. How is it creepy if they themselves tell you to get a gf? Are you genuine friends with them? Because that feels really cruel to me, it's almost like they're disgusted by the idea of you dating someone they know
How did you become friends with them in the first place? Sorry if I'm asking too many questions

>>81931056 (OP)
It's not that u did anything wrong but ppl u meet at parties most times they wanna hook up that's why 90% of ppl go to these and also if u don't mention u have a bf and that u are looking for a friend u don't know what his mind is up to so yeah u better mention it earlier and also u should be careful cause as a male I know guys that are desperately waiting for u to break up in order to try get a hold of u,not that they aren't having other stuff going on parallel to u but they have u too onboard. if u think I am too technical I am not I just never got a gf and all my friends considered me too masculine to never have one so they all felt the need to over analyse their techniques (it was worst than watching disaster movie)and believe me 70% of men want something sexual (some of them are extreme creeps so u better think twice sometimes)

>>81932184
Well i've never really had friends my entire life, was always a bullied loner. Met the girls in uni when i was working on opening myself up, maybe meeting a girl. But was unlicky and basically all the girls i befriended already had boyfriends (the 2 that didn't were lesbians, or so they told me). But i thought "okay, i'll just be friends with them, more friends is good, and maybe they'll introduce me to some single girl" but now as the years pass i'm getting more and more jaded and am realising they've probably been keeping me around because i'm useful to them, was top of the class in uni and carried all the group projects, helped them study, etc. And i was just happy i had someone to talk to and go to the movies with once in a while. Lately i'm beginning to think the juice isn't worth the squeeze, but if i let them go i'll go back to being a friendless loser, apart from another friend group i made in uni made up of 100% guys that are all vrigins and whom play tabletop and board games with me. But those guys are social equivalents of dead-end streets.

>>81932315
Have you ever talked to them about how important it is for you to find someone, aside from that joke you made? Because being a friend means caring for your wellbeing too and from an outsider perspective it seems like they treat you like a pet that they can drag along to their meetings.
I'm still hungup on the creepy comment. Do they not see you as a man? How can they say that to your face?
I wish I had friends like your board games group though, none of my friends share any of my interests

>>81932136
>male friends are for cucks
>platonic female friends dont exist
do you just not want to have any friends?

>>81931056 (OP)
>I just want friends
You're as picky as any one else then

>>81931056 (OP)
You know how I know you're a piece of shit? You didn't bring up the boyfriend the first time you hung out. You had to wait and see if the dude could replace the current guy, huh? Do you just do this shit behind your BFs back? Is he some kind of cuck who knows and puts up with it?
You're garbage. Kill yourself.

>>81931056 (OP)
>Do you only see women as potential hookups?
Yes, no straight man is looking foreward to meeting up a woman friend.

>>81933212
Female friends don't work unless:
1, you already have a girlfriend / FWBs who prevent you from getting sexually frustrated, or
2, you have casual sex together.
Male friends are possible only if you're extremely selective to filter out all the guys who will just try to one-up you and emasculate you. Male normies are obsessed with competition and being the AMOG, and they probably don't even know they're doing it since they're basically just wild animals. Real friendship is basically as rare as real love, most men never actually experience it.

>>81931056 (OP)
No, just the males that want to hang out with you.
Hint: You either have nothing to offer but sex appeal, or you just like hanging out with people who want to have sex with you and nothing more for whatever reason.

Not a remotely common experience, but apparently it is for you. I've known so many foids in relationships who have male friends including mi bloody mum of course.

>>81931056 (OP)
Yes, because as soon as they do get a relationship, you will become an instant threat to it.

>>81931056 (OP)
>Her: "Guys are disgusting pigs, they only want me for my body!!"
>What she has to offer (complete list): Her body

>>81931056 (OP)
if talking to women wasnt a fucking pain in the ass, we wouldn't do it only to get gf

>>81931056 (OP)
yes. men will almost never choose to have female friends unless said woman is a potential booty call or because a third party binds the group together. men bond differently, and most men learn that maintaining friendships between men and women are complicated and are ultimately not worth the effort.

>>81931056 (OP)
so uh lemme be weird
mr cool chad thought you brought up your boyfriend to signal that you're taken. So he thinks you see him as nothing but a fuckboy

>>81931696
>I know most men aren't interested in platonic friendships with women
Because most men are single. Once a man has a gf he's ok with platonic friendships with women - if they're interesting enough people.

>>81931056 (OP)
He is being gentlemanly by not loudly calling you a whore. You shouldn't be arranging to hang out with other men.

>>81931056 (OP)
Yeah sorry everything you wrote will be mentally discarded you sound like a paranoid insecure cunt who probably sees her childhood rapist in the walls I'm jacking off to this though thx for the image okay good yes

>>81931056 (OP)
There's no use in having female friends, they don't contribute anything, they want a servant.

>>81931056 (OP)
>do you only see women as potential hookups?

yes

hread

>>81931261
not really, stone age societies were very community oriented. The first indications we have of civilization is attempts to heal those that were otherwise not socially beneficial.