>be me
>neet
>32 years old
>no gf
>every woman online I talk to just wants money

WTF am I supposed to do to "find a gf"??? People always say theres plenty of fish but where the fuck is mine?

I can't create enough clout to have any interest to anyone, I'm just a fucking nothing that nobody cares about.
Will getting some retail job make me that much better that women will suddenly have interest, is the key really to just have money and stability?

I think my biggest downfalls are my looks and my lack of money/independence. trying to meet people through discord or dating apps has not worked out at all.
I'm totally demoralized rn and feel like I'd have to completely change myself to appease a woman.
atp I think being a good person or whatever isn't enough and I will have to take some drastic change physically and mentally to be good enough for any woman to really care about.
I'm not the most attractive guy but I feel that being completely ignored by women as a whole has made me feel somewhat bitter towards them as a group when I just want to be loved.

How can I be valuable to women? I'm sick of being alone.

>>81931869 (OP)
>has nothing to offer
>wants someone to offer themselves fully to him
you know your issues, man
you know how to fix them too

>>81931947
I used to think being nice and chill was enough but I'm extremely antisocial and poor
I do have value but no woman would be able to see it due to my NEET lifestyle. I really don't know what to do besides getting a job or some shit and losing weight

>>81931869 (OP)
>I can't create enough clout to have any interest to anyone, I'm just a fucking nothing that nobody cares about.
This is really it. Why would you expect anyone to be interested in you if you don't give them anything to be interested in? I am an extreme introvert and have chosen my fate.

>>81931967
>I really don't know what to do besides getting a job or some shit and losing weight
like I said, you have the answers already - what's stopping you but yourself, anon?

>>81931967
>I'm extremely antisocial
I'm pretty antisocial too, so why do you even want a gf? Do you have any idea how much women like to talk? You're probably not going to enjoy most of what having a relationship entails. Maybe you just want sex and cuddling just like me but those things aren't worth the hassle and expense, if you ask me.
>neet
I have money but don't live too differently from a NEET outside of work. I just want to build wealth and retire early. I figured out some years ago that relationships are not compatible with my goal, because most women want to milk you dry of money. Marriage, having kids, buying a house and buying a car to attract/impress a woman all cost ridiculous amounts of money when put together. And I have no need for those things and I can live without them just fine. I'm not pissing away ~$300k or more just to be with a woman I'll probably have nothing in common with and I'd end up like the other normies I know. Broke, miserable and not even getting sex.

>>81932008
I'm a 4channer most days I spent gaming and hanging out
I guess I'm just frustrated that I have to work so damn hard and change myself just to find somebody. I don't want a crazy lifestyle I just want a girl to smoke and play games with and fuck on occasion. to them I am a boring loser ig

>>81932075
having a GF seems nice but it does seem like an torturous amount of work if you're not already living a normie lifestyle. It would feel like me essentially forfeiting my free time and personal enjoyment to "be what someone wants" whatever that may be. My question remaining, what do women even want aside from money? I have no idea how to impress them. last time I had a GF was in high school and it's depressing as shit.

my ideas:
- get a job
- lose weight
- go to clubs and stand around hopefully being good looking enough for women to want to fuck
- post thirst traps on instagrams because women actually use social media and care about it
- try to succeed in my dream artistic field and hope I get enough success for anyone to give a shit
- get over my social anxiety so i can feel comfortable talking to strangers
- take a dance class to meet a woman who can dance

ideas that failed:
x - dming women on social media
x - dating apps like Tinder
x - waiting for love to "happen" on it's own
x - finding girls through video games
x - facebook
x - finding gf through discord

>>81932263
>post thirst traps on instagrams
good lord anon, we've crossed the point of no return. this you?
seriously though have you ever had a girlfriend in the past? I think you're trying too hard/are desperate. Sometimes in life we just have to face the facts, and the fact of the matter for you is attracting a girl is a challenge. I think you're putting too much weight into this whole thing; it's truly not that deep. Just chill, do your thing, better yourself, get a job, and who knows? Maybe a girl will come around. Or maybe not. And that's ok. You can't force things in life anon, and as cliche as it sounds, everything happens for a reason. Maybe 4chan has melted your brain too much, but being single is ok, as long as YOU are ok with it. My advice would be to just work on yourself and take life as it comes, not force things.

>>81932263
>I just want a girl to smoke and play games with and fuck on occasion
anon you're 32

>>81931869 (OP)
this >>81931947

>>81931967
>I do have value
no you dont, any value you think you have can be got from anyone else that has a job and their shit together.

>>81932263
its not changing yourself its removing all the toxic shit you think is real from the internet. no one irl cares about black crime stats / instathots ect


real talk are you a virgin? your obsession with getting a gf screams it and its not a bad thing but you need to get over yourself first. do no fap for 9 days then get with an escort that does girlfriend experience for atleast 2-3 hours, cost around 250+ an hour. tell her in the first 5 min you're a virgin and want help to relax.

once you get over this "missing out on sex" felling you will be able to work on yourself.

you really need to become independent, no girl wants to fuck with anyones parents around. get a full time job any job doesnt matter. the faster you get out you will see how dumb you've been by staying for so long. after that work on getting into somewhat in shape while having any kind of weekly hobby. till these things are done women shouldnt be a thought.

like really why the fuck would i want to hang out with someone that has no goals in life, no plans on moving away from mom and dad, cant go out since they have no money and only regurgitating internet memes?

im going to call you out again on "changing yourself". you are full of toxic shit from the internet that normal people dont care about. do the scary thing and put in some effort into bettering your life and amazing shit can happen. ive helped several online friends break free from this mindset but a lot refused to put in effort.

>I just want a girl to smoke and play games with and fuck on occasion
this can be a real thing once independent

or the real r9k advice is find a job then find new chaturbate streamers and mass donate and try to move in become their cam partner.

>>81932484
Yes, and? am I supposed to be a "serious person" because I'm in my 30s?

>>81932403
I look like that

>>81932510
I'm not a virgin but I've been GFless since HS. I don't lead a crazy life just want a girl to love me

>>81931869 (OP)
>>every woman online I talk to just wants money
where are you even meeting online women? seems like a fiction

>>81932547
you dont love yourself so till that changes no one will love you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioa6BjuSOt4

>>81931869 (OP)
do you even have money?

>>81932584
nah i'm broke and unemployed

>>81932554
on twitter, nobody is just wanting to date and get to know eachother anymore

>>81932678
> broke and unemployed
why would anyone want to date or be friends with someone like that?

every issue you have can be fixed if you put in some effort. but this is why you posted on r9k not adv, you want a woe me thread lol.

>>81932711
i just want love, man
do i have to sacrifice so much to get it?

>>81932711
>why would anyone want to date or be friends with someone like that?
Man, I can't believe the amount of hylics on this site.

OP, you now realize the asymmetrical exchange between men and women. Women are considered valuable for just existing, men are not, hence all the materialist posts here about how you have "nothing" to provide. As if you weren't human and complete as you are.

It's time to look inward and find fulfillment without women, who invariably, at the end of the day, just ruin your life anyway

>>81932738
Women don't love men as men love women.

>>81932678
>nah i'm broke and unemployed
dawg you'd have to be one cool interesting endearing motherfucker for a straight male such as myself to even be friends with you. i'd have to drive your ass anywhere we'd go, pay for your shit. you'd have to be the coolest motherfucker alive. maybe you are! but c'mon man

>>81932711
>adv
kek
Unironically he would be better off posting on reddit than thst boomer board

>>81932738
dude cmon now, all good things take work. you've gotta get out of this doomer mindset to even think of getting a girl. having basic respect for yourself isn't a "sacrifice".

>>81932761
point is the post here was for others to circlejerk and make him feel better by affirming his internet ideas of "women evil"

think hes upset about getting real advice

>>81932738
>do i have to sacrifice so much to get it?
i mean what would you be sacrificing, your time getting stoned as fuck playing vidja games? yeah, you might have to cut back on that. sorry buddy. take it up with God

the kind of woman you want is just rare
i assure you layabouts who don't want to do anything exisgt though

>>81932744
facts. I just don't know how to get someones interest

>>81932751
I'm pretty chill

>>81932777
checked.
>>81932794
I am just extremely used to my neet lifestyle at this point and it will take a lot of work and dedication for me to become appealing to women in any real way it seems.

I'm just fucking lonely and I know there's single women out there. I want someone cool to care about me. Thanks for the advice. I hope we all make it

>>81932786
>"women evil"
They are evil.
The mistake robots make is claiming men arent.

you don't have to prove jack shit to anybody.
women don't prove anything to you, do they?
they never pay for shit, they never cary shit, they never try to impress you. it's rigged. completely rigged from the start.
the earlier you come up with the conclusion "it is what it is" and accept that nothing will ever be fair or good. the earlier you will achieve happiness.
find hobbies, exercize and eat healthy, you will feel better. fuck them