is e-dating impossible if you don't put out

i hope you get raped and beaten it'll feel good

>>81932515 (OP)
What do you even put out in an e-relationship? How is it even a relationship if you don't at least do voice sex after some months?

>>81932521
stop being mean
>>81932528
nudes and all that

>>81932546
>nudes and all that
Any normal man will want that after some time. If he isn't getting it from you, he will get it from someone else. If you're a dude, stop being so shy over your small cock.

>>81932515 (OP)

e-sex? freaking e-sex

If you arent fucking her in-person, someone else is.

>>81932563
so am i just completely doomed?
>>81932570
i said nudes

>>81932515 (OP)
e-dating is so retarded. I'm sure you can't fuck it up

>>81932605
too late, i already have

>>81932515 (OP)
Yes, the woman will ghost you if you don't help her goon and sometimes she'll even ghost you afterwards if you're not good enough. I've had women even long con me into believing they wanted love, only to reveal their porn addiction to me a few months into dating. Out of the hundreds of women I've e-dated, I have only found one so far that was actually looking for love. Just keep trying as annoying it is having to filter all these gooner girls.
>>81932563
Not him, but it's not about being shy, it's about not wanting to only be a woman's bootycall or fwb, and plenty of men don't want that. Every time I tell a fembot I'd like to get her know her first before e-sex, I get unfriended.

>>81932704
so where do i find guys like this? they all just want to get sexual

>>81932838
I'm straight so I can't really give advice on gays, and from what I've heard they are even more degenerate than the women who browse here, so good luck.

>>81932854
i'm a straight woman, not gay

>>81932934
Then just tell them you don't want to do anything sexual? Or specify it in your post on soc or wherever you post. I see men like myself constantly vent here about women only using us to get off, so it shouldn't be that hard to find someone who wants more than that.

>>81932838
>so where do i find guys like this? they all just want to get sexual
Hi, where are you from?

>>81932976
i already do, they tell me it doesn't bother them but they just end up finding someone else

>>81932546
>nudes and all that
Are you still willing to have sex irl?

>>81932990
europe, but i'm not ready for anything new just yet
>>81932999
i'm waiting for marriage

>>81933028
>europe, but i'm not ready for anything new just yet
That's a shame, I'm in Europe too.
>i'm waiting for marriage
Are you religious? I'm waiting as well but I'm not religious, which people find weird.

>>81932995
Maybe you should wait until you turn 18 first and get help for your BPD.

>>81933028
>i'm waiting for marriage
Gonna be hard but if that's your reason I'm sure you could find a guy that's similar

>>81932515 (OP)
I think so yes. I tried edating once. One night I didn't want to esex, the next morning she calls me in tears and confesses to sexting someone else.
I didn't feel completely comfortable sending pics or sexting but she liked it a lot so I tried.

>>81933082
i'm well over 18, maybe you're confusing me with somebody else
>>81933063
i'm not religious either, i just think intimacy is something special

>>81933130
>i'm not religious either
Ah that's cool, people like us are rare. I've heard enough about religious people putting out because they kept getting dumped for not putting out.
>i just think intimacy is something special
I agree, and I also feel intimacy at first is distracting.