>have had short hair for my entire life
>suddenly decide I'm going to grow it out for no particular reason
>keep at it for a couple of years, turns out I have curly hair when it grows, I didn't even know
>got complimented by a woman over it, probably the first time I've had anyone compliment me ever
>but every single male I know, particularly those above 25, is CONSTANTLY trying to pressure me into getting a haircut
what's their fuckin problem?