what causes guys to act like pic related? do they think they really want? also interested how femanons will defend this behavior.

Ideally you also have a past so you don't feel cucked
My body count is literally 9x my bf's and I still feel insanely jealous if he brings up an ex in any capacity though. I just love him so fucking much

>>81940435
I see your point, ill make sure to cheat behind any girl ill be with a relationship with so i can get on her level.

>>81940448
Preferably you would get that shit out of your system before marrying.

>>81940424 (OP)
>Has sex with three other guys before opening her legs to someone she's dating
This is actually unusual. I've met precisely two women who did anything remotely close to this.
My first girlfriend was raped by one of her teachers 3 years before I met her and her school covered it up. She had such a low opinion of herself that she let a couple of her guy "friends" do whatever with her while she was single. It was kind of odd that she was the one with the sexual experience, but didn't know that sex could feel good for girls too. Left me for her "gay" best friend.
The second woman was an unironic nympho and didn't do relationships. Never once having a boyfriend was a point of pride for her. She thought she was a sex guru and gave horrible dating advice. She gave all that up when she had to deal with one of her boy toys dropping her for a real relationship with someone else. No, I didn't fuck her. She had a type and I certainly wasn't it.
>what causes guys to act like pic related?
Marriage is seen as locking a woman down. Guys like that think this means that they won her forever.

>>81940424 (OP)
there are guys out there that generally dont care how many guys their wife has fucked before meeting them

i dont understand this mind set, its not even love, its a sickness, a fetish of some kind

>>81940424 (OP)
The sad truth is that the vast majority of men are so love-starved and deprived of female attention their entire lives that they will happily gobble up any scraps that they can get. Like simps dropping their entire paycheck for a quick mention from a pretty girl online.
I also think that it's nearly impossible for any guy (even "Chad") to match the dating/sexual experience level of the average woman. You are almost guaranteed to have less experience than any woman you will meet past your teen years when you might still find a virgin or sexually naive girl here or there.
Particularly if you are a KHHV, or have limited dating experience, you will be reinvigorated/excited to finally try all these new things with the opposite sex and cross all these "firsts" off your bucket list.
But then you quickly learn that she compares you (unfavorably) to most, if not ALL the guys from her past. This noticeably weakens whatever feelings and respect she might have had for you, and drastically alters the way that she treats you/what she might be willing to do to please you/win you over. Hence all these dead bedroom marriages, countless "she did this with her ex or even with strangers but won't let me try" complaints that men have, etc.
If you didn't fuck around a lot when you were young and get it all out of your system or you're not a girl's first/high-school sweetheart or whatever, it's far less painful to just not bother and continue on the path of self-improvement/hobby enjoyment and just relieve your urges manually. Your hand isn't going to complain that your dick is too small or that you don't fuck like a jackhammer for two hours straight or that you're not exciting or adventurous enough, not ambitious enough, whatever. Whatever love or fun you might think you could have with a girl, it's really not possible because you will never match her or her expectations for you (put there by other men).

>>81940424 (OP)
Yes, out of all these guys she decided he's the most worthy and so decided to keep him.

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>>81940913
I see thanks for all the replies on this subject, i have a more caveman mentality and ill never be able to see a woman as my own if she has such a past, thus ill quickly switch them out due to that lack of personal attachment, aint that weird how it works. However i defend my own property to the death so it can be seen as a positive.

Guy in OP's pic still gets laid while OP cries about being a virgin.

>>81941392
If that's all you're after you could just pay a prostitute

>>81941399
Meanwhile, that's what robots are after yet will not hire a hooker since they only want a Stacy who will never go for them.

>>81941461
Nah, I'm looking for meaningful companionship

>>81941392
>Guy in OP's pic still gets laid
Not necessarily. Beta buxxers often find themselves stuck in sexless marriages where they get maybe a blowjob on their birthday.

>>81941477
Also im OP, and wanted to add its like paying full price for a used car while others got to use it for free/cheaper, you are getting the worst deal. Its not just about getting laid but investment compared to others for the asset.