Boyfriend - /r9k/ (#81941442) [Archived: 158 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:33:27 PM No.81941442
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My search for bf is not successful yet. Inb4 you call me ugly, I like my face(even though I look weird)but it is mainly me being picky about stuff I like

>He has to have specific facial features I find qt
>He has to be from a country within my continent and that I find cool to learn the language of(don't want to learn lame languages)
>He has to have stuff common with me so we can discuss (I don't want to dox my interests but also being non normie can suffice)
>Has to be close to my age
>Has to love me since I guess this needs to be said with how some men act

Inb4 you copy paste the low iq lower le standards meme, there is no such thing as lowering your standards it is just a meme it is impossible to bully yourself or get bullied into being attracted to someone you aren't. So like the amount of men who fit those criteria is small so I understand that I have to be patient. Just don't know how else to signal to men online that I am looking?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:35:39 PM No.81941454
>>81941442 (OP)
I saw the previous thread but I'm not sure what you changed
>but it is mainly me being picky about stuff I like
You don't say. Anyways we'll clamor over you if you provide the details about yourself necessary to know if we fit the criteria.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:36:39 PM No.81941456
>>81941454
ooooor.. OP isn't a female...
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:36:41 PM No.81941457
>>81941442 (OP)
So what's the point of your post?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:38:14 PM No.81941464
>>81941457
Just to talk about it also how to I signal that I am looking for an ebf again?
>>81941454
I mean what is your age and continent
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:39:30 PM No.81941469
>>81941464
The same way you did the first time. Next thread.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:40:28 PM No.81941475
>>81941469
Bro if I just post on twitter/other socialsthat I am looking will people even believe it or think I am trolling
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:41:59 PM No.81941484
>>81941464
23, Europe. You wouldn't like me though.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:42:13 PM No.81941486
>>81941475
I shan't humor you anymore.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:44:00 PM No.81941496
>>81941486
Why?
>>81941484
Sry bruv
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:45:05 PM No.81941506
>>81941496
I've solved your problem, take it or leave it.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:45:44 PM No.81941510
>>81941506
Answer my questionin
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:48:05 PM No.81941521
>>81941442 (OP)
>He has to be from a country within my continent and that I find cool to learn the language of(don't want to learn lame languages)
>Has to be close to my age
Maybe you could specify your age and continent.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:48:32 PM No.81941527
>>81941442 (OP)
Why do you want a bf? You list your requirements and just assume that everyone is interested.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:48:35 PM No.81941528
>>81941510
I cannot help those that don't help themselves
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:49:33 PM No.81941533
>>81941521
Eu (don't like doxing rest)
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:52:01 PM No.81941551
>>81941533
Do you mean Eu as in European Union or eu as in Europe?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:52:01 PM No.81941552
>>81941527
I don't assume it is just that I can't do much else so since I already dress weird including eyebrows and have a weird face I don't really think I want to risk surgery for and I am already not fat therefore I can't do much to change myself

>>81941528
Answer about the specific tistic thing
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:53:38 PM No.81941560
>>81941552
There would be no point to that, you've already rejected my message of salvation.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:53:46 PM No.81941563
>>81941442 (OP)
Out of curiosity do you happen to be ghosting anybody rn?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:54:55 PM No.81941570
>>81941563
Ofc she is lmao. She already wrote she ONLY wants chad and there are no chads here so she keeps leading men on like all women do and then cry that they are lonley.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:55:59 PM No.81941574
>>81941560
Bruv throw me a bone
>>81941563
I don't ghost I instantly block to not waste your time
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:57:44 PM No.81941594
>>81941442 (OP)
You're a women so you're likely retarded. If a guy you found attractive just outright asked you out you'd probably get the ick
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:57:50 PM No.81941596
>>81941533
Great, sign my petition!
https://eci.ec.europa.eu/045/public/#/screen/home
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 12:59:11 PM No.81941603
>>81941551
Why do you ask
>>81941594
Not really
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:01:16 PM No.81941615
>>81941442 (OP)
Can you share what age range you're looking for. Idk why you'd mention that you're looking for a bf with a specific age from the same continent as you with either mentioning your age and continent or what age range and continent you're looking for
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:02:17 PM No.81941623
>>81941442 (OP)
How submissive are you? What role do you want to play in a relationship?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:05:36 PM No.81941642
>>81941615
I mean you say first but I am in my twenties
>>81941623
I mean idk
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:06:54 PM No.81941649
>>81941642
>I mean idk
Could you guess?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:07:46 PM No.81941650
>>81941574
I'll give you a bone, *wink*, *wink*.

(I'm eluding to the common usage of bone as meaning penis.)
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:07:52 PM No.81941652
>>81941649
Well I suppose it depends what you Invision
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:08:54 PM No.81941657
>>81941650
Lmao, but seriously doe
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:11:29 PM No.81941672
>>81941603
>Not really
Maybe it's just the women I attract then because whenever I have a women interested in me (obvious flirting, her friends/coworkers tell me she really likes me), I ask her out and she give me some bullshit excuse. Happened to me multiple times and my bro tells me it's the same for him. So now I just assume all women are like that.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:12:48 PM No.81941686
>>81941652
Something along the lines of a serious, committed relationship in which the man takes care of his partner and in return his partner supports him emotionally mixed with bdsm elements like an owner/pet dynamic and gentle master/slave dynamic
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:18:37 PM No.81941736
What's the point of this thread if you can't provide specific information? It's not doxxing yourself. Look: I live in Poland, im 25 and i like gardening. Am I now doxxed? It doesn't fucking matter as long as you haven't shared your image on the net wildly. I don't even have social media accounts, my face is nowhere so I can say whatever I want.
I'd like to see a map where you colour countries by which has a cool language and which doesn't, it sounds like a particularily silly reason to deny someone. Every language is beautiful and you're rejecting millions of people.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:19:45 PM No.81941744
>>81941442 (OP)
Most important question. Do you do anal? If not, would you?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:23:04 PM No.81941761
>>81941736
I found you mr stanislaw nowak.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:24:20 PM No.81941772
>>81941672
I don't get that, I mean are you sure
>>81941686
You need to expand more on that
>>81941736
As a woman I have to say some men can be this psycho about it so you know. I hear you about the language argument but I guess my random bias mixed with wanting a lang that has some cool media attached does persuade me. Would love to make that map and sperg since again tismo but don't want to dox. How do you look like btw
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:24:51 PM No.81941776
>>81941603
Post the list of countries you find attractive then
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:26:11 PM No.81941785
>>81941776
No you say yousrs
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:26:36 PM No.81941788
>>81941772
You're so insufferable that the woman act is actually believable.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:27:12 PM No.81941795
>>81941744
Yes if your pp small
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:28:13 PM No.81941803
>>81941788
Daim what I do know
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:28:39 PM No.81941806
>>81941772
>You need to expand more on that
What do you need me to expand on?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:30:01 PM No.81941821
>>81941806
I feel you know which part
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:33:51 PM No.81941848
>>81941821
Do you mean the bdsm stuff? Imagine a gentle master/pet dynamic. Wearing a collar, being spoiled, being dominated in a gentle and affectionate way, etc. Make sense?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:34:52 PM No.81941860
>>81941795
What if Im 6 inches
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:36:18 PM No.81941875
>>81941785
france, work in luxembourg
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:41:38 PM No.81941911
>>81941552
Don't do surgery. There are plenty of beautiful women around, but ones that a man can stand to be around are very rare. You sound insufferable, so your best pet is slutmaxxing to find a coomer guy, love will be hard, but finding a guy that lusts over you is easy.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:45:38 PM No.81941939
>>81941848
I mean idk,.thoughbeit how old are you
>>81941860
I mean like pen long, I guess
>>81941875
Sorry
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:46:42 PM No.81941954
>>81941911
You sound more insufferable doe
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:47:25 PM No.81941959
>>81941939
Bu curiosity which countries are you interested in
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:47:47 PM No.81941962
>>81941442 (OP)
>Has to love me
Do you think you're going to find that by putting up a checklist online?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:48:20 PM No.81941972
>>81941939
>I mean like pen long, I guess
What would be too long?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:52:22 PM No.81942003
>>81941772
I am thin, 185cm tall, I have green eyes and brown hair. What about you?
>don't want to dox
Unless you live someplace like Luxembourg, telling us your country will not dox you.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:53:07 PM No.81942008
>>81941939
>I mean idk,.thoughbeit how old are you
I'm 23
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 1:57:35 PM No.81942050
>>81941939
>I mean like pen long, I guess
You consider 6 inches as long?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:01:41 PM No.81942089
>>81941954
I'm not the one who's asking for dating advice lmao.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:24:24 PM No.81942333
>>81942003
Nta but i do live in luxembourg and i dont think saying it will doxx me, theres like 700k people living here
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:26:57 PM No.81942362
What the fuck has become of this board?
I understand wanting to add a femanon, I do it too. But look at you damn simps clamoring for this bitchs attention
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:31:05 PM No.81942409
>>81941442 (OP)
You sound like a fucking cunt tbqh
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 2:35:09 PM No.81942441
>>81942409
Thank you. Finally someone said it
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 3:26:27 PM No.81942765
>>81941442 (OP)
>He has to have specific facial features I find qt
Like what?
>He has to be from a country within my continent and that I find cool to learn the language of(don't want to learn lame languages)
What continent?
>He has to have stuff common with me so we can discuss (I don't want to dox my interests but also being non normie can suffice)
Are you into typical woman's meme interests like travelling, photography, tattoos and truecrime or you actually have some real interests that involve doing something that isn't just passive consumption?
>Has to be close to my age
Provide age bracket.
>Has to love me since I guess this needs to be said with how some men act
That depends on your definition of love. If you think this initial feeling at the start is love then you're in for a big surprise as it's proven that it's just brain chemistry that fades away after like 2-3 years. Instead of some mythical idea of love you are supposed to want stability and reliability. You're supposed steer your relationship in a way that within those 2-3 years would build up enough sentimental and comfy feeling to replace initial infatuation and lust when it disappears so you'd have stability. Reliability is simply to minimize trouble that might damage relationship in the future, shit like people changing or running away when problems appear. Life isn't some stupid fairy tale.