Is it a good sign if a girl on a dating app instantly writes you back? I can't even respond as fast as she does. A bit weird desu since women usualy write with 20 different guys on there. I mean she is online on there all the time since we have matched so I guess she has just nothing else to do.

most likely a bot or jeet scammer

>>81943059
Na she did send me a 7 min long voice message. She sounds autistic which I like.

>>81943081
Yes it's obviously a good sign. Go wife her up anon

>>81943095
I have just started talking with her today. Also she is way younger than me. Feels too good to be true.

>>81943106
Meet up with her irl as soon as you can lest she finds someone else

>>81943120
I try to but I have never ever been on a date. I know that she is talking with other guys it is always like that.

Wtf she keep writing me and insta replies. Umm idk what she thinks about me. She even wrote me that she is worried that I think she is weird. Wtf she is so cute. No way that a girl like that would want to be with me.

She said we can meet this saturday. Umm I am very much afraid now I never ever had a date.

Help what should I say do you guys think going for a walk is okay for a first date?

>>81945548
its boring
go someplace weird

>>81945572
Where? Help.

vid call before getting your hopes up, still most likely a bot

>>81945634
No bot makes a 7 min voice message like that. I am very scared right now I was never on a date I don't know what to do.

>>81945733
thats what they want you to think, and its not like its hard, suno can generate AI music with text from chatgpt in seconds, be cautious bro, if it seems to good to be true it usually is

>>81945783
Na I know how ai voices sound hers did not sound at all like that. I really need advice here please stop with the bot bs I have never ever been on a date I don't even know what to do.

>>81945802
no you dont, and you dont have a date dumbass
if by some miracle you actually end up going on a date instead of getting mugged by indians, just go for a walk and grab something to eat, if shes autistic she'll probably be stimming and not eat anything anyway

>>81945862
I know because I have made ai voices in the past myself. Okay I thought about that or maybe a museum? I like museum and you could talk about the things you see in there but I guess it is not a good place for a first date since you can' really talk freely there.

>>81945890
ok, im sure AI technology has remained exactly the same as when you did that, no doubt about it, so, a museum would be fine, not like its a library, just dont go to a crowded one, botanical gardens are always nice too, just dont meet up anywhere secluded

>>81945934
Okay the botanical garden could also be good desu or we are going to a museum. I was also thinking about just walking along the river in the city and then sitting on at a cafe.

>>81946038
that would be nice as well, hope it works out

Jealous bro
Last time I connected with someone like that she lived 2000 miles away and it eventually died out because of it, hope it works out

>>81945593
Botanical garden and ice cream
Bitches love botanical garden and ice cream
>>81945634
They're going on a date he's about to find out, that would be a really bad bot scam unless she asks for his account details before the date lmao

>>81946050
Do you think I should just give her multiple options or tell her we are doing x? Again I have never ever done anything like that I am so fucking nervous.

>>81946086
Don't give options women don't want that energy
You have to make the plan and bring it to her

>>81946092
Okay but I am really not sure what do to desu. I want it to be calm so that we can talk in peace and we want to meet up on sunday. Do I have to tell her the time as well or talk with her about it?

>>81946092
This guy fucks, you basically plan it and just let her agree

>>81946160
I really don't know how this should even go like I am a khhv and I have never had anything with women irl. Should I just be myself and what should I do? Wtf this is so surreal to me I don't think this is real.

I really need help here anons pls.

>>81946190
Yeah be yourself, I imagine you already are doing that in messages and voice with her
Right now you probably feel like no woman could ever like you if they knew your insecurities and shortcomings but I promise you that's not true. You just have to allow your good aspects to shine unencumbered and don't heavy-handedly lead with your insecurities or overshare them at the wrong moments. Also if you have material shortcomings like no job / not enough money, just be on the path to always progressing that, you don't necessarily need to be there yet to start trying. I know this sounds like bullshit platitudes but it's actually real. This girl already likes you
>t. 30+ reformed wizard

>>81946274
Idk no man like I have be treated very badly by women all my life. Like I don't have a perfect body or face. I have a job but I am not rich by any means, I don't even have a car, not because of money but because I don't have a license. Also we have only talked a bit today how can she like me when other girls I have talked with for months or weeks did not like me and ghosted me?
Also should I tell her the time or what should I do how should I format it? Should I just tell her we are meeting at the botanical garden at x time?

Wtf she even said until torrmow, I have no idea why she likes me that much that she goes that way. I mean I like but I am honestly nothing special and women have always been very unfriendly to me.

>>81946326
One thing to watch out for with extremely fast connection in women is personality disorders - BPD or a manic bipolar episode, some other things too
Not necessarily the case, but it's a wild fucking ride if that's what's going down. They're looking for a fast return of their energy to validate the intense mood swing at the time and it will turn into something fucking crazy in the coming days/weeks as it changes
Don't get too attached yet, this isn't your one opportunity, you're vibing her out too

Plan the date and pick a time, tell her the plan and ask her if the time works. It doesn't have to be total macho "here's what we're doing you have no say" - just it usually works better if you lead the plan

>>81943053 (OP)
What app did you use to find a girl like this?

>>81946413
I don't think she has BPD but yeah the only girl where I had something this fast -if just online- had bpd as well. Like I realy have no idea at all what she sees in me. Like she is 9 years younger than me and pretty cute, just has problems learning from her owns words and sounds a bit autistic.
I asked her if 11am at the botanical garden is fine for her and after that eating some ice cream.
>>81946444
I used lovely, tried other dating apps but had little to no sucess. I am really not sure what to think about all of that.

Will see if she replies to me tomorrow, this feels a bit like a dream.

>>81943053 (OP)
nice humble brag. please just leave this board.

>>81947815
Nigga's an adult kv, he can leave after he gets a smooch