Today at uni, I tried to hug a friend to say hi, the same way I've seen other girls do with their friends.
He literally pushed me away.
But yeah, sure... femcels don't exist.

>>81943727 (OP)
show bobs and vagene madam

>>81943727 (OP)
Because Chad knows he can get better options.

>>81943727 (OP)
>Chad rejected me
>I am le femcel

Bwahahahaha

You probably smell bad

>>81943727 (OP)
I would hug you femanon

>>81943727 (OP)
just smile and giggle if you are socially retarded and do your makeup pretty and dont be fat, works for me femanon

>>81943739
But there was no need for him to push me that hard. He could've just not hugged me back.

>>81943771
Next time approach him from behind, that way he can't escape

>>81943727 (OP)
Lmao. Just cause a guy didnt hug you? makes you a "femcel" you are a reetarded whore, you need to kill youself. Femcels dont exist simple as that you attention seekling slut

>>81943727 (OP)
Sorry that happened but he just might not be a hugger. Have you seen him hug other people? I wish I had friends that I hugged me like that

>>81943771
>push me that hard
Damn, did he like shove you? Are you sure this guy thinks y'all are friends?

>>81943819
I saw him hugging other friends (both male and female) before.
>>81943826
Yeah he shoved me

>>81943876
>Yeah he shoved me
And you're sure this guy is your friend?

>>81943884
Yeah. He came to talk to me before an exam we had together. But maybe I'm just so ugly he didn't want to touch me, just talk.

>>81943908
Was that the only time you two have ever talked?

>>81943963
No. He is actually my friend.

>>81943975
Doesn't seem like it if he just shoved you away like that, unless you haven't taken a shower in a week or something

>>81943908
>maybe I'm just so ugly he didn't want to touch me, just talk.
Nah, I feel like this isn't adding up. Do you really smell or something? When's the last time you showered?

>>81943908
talk at one occasion or another don't mean you are friends

>>81943727 (OP)
it's ok femanon, I welcome all the sad lonely people to this sub

>>81944016
Also, does your mouth smell at all?

>>81944046
We used to talk every week and go to events together with other people.

>>81944016
>>81944053
I stayed up late studying for the exam and didn't have time to shower that night to the next morning. Maybe it was that.

>>81943727 (OP)
If I was your friend would you give me your used panties?

When are women going to learn that they can never be incels?
The only thing guys care about is weight and even then there are plenty of chubby chasers out there so you have that too.
Its all engagement bait anyway. Don't use Tomoko's picture for your thread, you are nothing like her.

If you're having trouble finding a guy it's probably because you're morbidly obese, unkempt, and smell rancid.

>>81944091
>didn't have time to shower that night to the next morning.
Yeah I'm just gonna guess you just kinda smelled.

>>81944091
>didn't have time to shower that night to the next morning
if you smell enough for that then have good and bad news
the good is that it likely that
the bad is that if he shove you for that he at most sees you the same way he sees male friends and a shower won't uncel your fem

>>81944110
>unkempt, and smell rancid
so Tomoko

>>81944091
>didn't have time to shower
knew it

>>81943771
You basically admitted he was a Chad. There's your problem.

>>81944167
Tomoko is underweight. A guy can deal with the second two issues if the girl is skinny. No guy wants a fat smelly bitch hugging them.

>>81944246
But im not fat either. Why are you projecting your insecurities on me? Its just a thread.

>>81944246
being underweight is not the same as being skinny
as a man I say that being underweight and sickly looking can be as unattractive as being fat

>>81944307
because he is desperate and morbid obesity is the last standard he still holds, so he thinks the same apply to all

>one rejection
>I'm a femcel
lol

>>81944336
Project harder. Nobody wants to date a fatty. From Chud to Chad. Its common knowledge kek.

>>81944373
Wasn't even a true rejection, the female brain just wasn't built to handle the male experience

>>81943727 (OP)
a girl hugged my once in class for helping her out and the teacher audibly went "awwww"
i think i heard laughs from the back

>>81943727 (OP)
I dont hug outside of my family or very close friends. It's very annoying.
A handshake or slap on the shoulder will do if you need more than a verbal greeting.

What if the guy has social anxiety. What if someone called him a creep before you met him and now he's afraid of that shit coming back?
There are hundreds of stories about some dude who taught/mentored kids and now his life is ruined because Karen reported him for nothing.

>>81943727 (OP)
Are you fat? If you are, he's in the right, you know?

>>81944388
what did you even understood from >>81944336 ?

>>81943727 (OP)
one guy acting like an asshole to you does not make you a female incel. you could get affection right now within 24 hours by downloading some dating app and finding dozens of +6/10 guys and contrary to what you might think not all of those are assholes. sure, the higher you aim for the more likely the guy is an asshole because he can pump and dump. but most average guys can not.

>>81944716
just like any man can get sex and affection by just showing some money to the right women

>>81944736
Or seducing a slut.

>>81944736
going to a prostitute is just a transaction. I can jerk off at home to achieve the same without wasting money.
now you will say that all men only pump and dump and that their affection does not count. but as I said, most men are not able to pump and dump and would cling to whatever crumb of pussy they can get.

>>81944683
He's acting like not wanting to date fats isn't an extremely common standard that everyone has.
His claim is that my standards are so low that being skinny is my only standard and I assume everyone else is the same.
My response was that 99% of people have "be skinny" as a standard. Its foolish to act like im some outlier

>>81944821
most man in apps only want sex and will only give as much affection and attention as they need to get sex
the same way a escort can give affection for the right amount of money
at this point you problem isn't that you cant get any, but the way you have of paying for it isn't the one you like

>>81943727 (OP)
that's still better than getting a sexual harassment charge.

>>81944867
That post said that it is the last standard you still holds, meaning that other people might
ask for more than just not being fat and, by the context of the reply chain, that being to skinny/underweight might be as much of a turn off as being overweight
Serious, you might be illiterate

>>81944882
>most man in apps only want sex and will only give as much affection and attention as they need to get sex
only the top 5% men that you find attractive can afford to act this way. average guys with no game would gladly start a relationship with someone they match.

>>81944947
Nta, but im the op and my friend is not a chad or 5% of men.

>>81944947
don't matter, the average guy can just pay a escort
you are mad not because you can't get, but because you gent get for free from the people you want

>>81944962
Your friend already has a gf

>>81944968
I want meaningful companionship, can't pay for that.

>>81943727 (OP)
Date within your league
Femcels don't exist

>>81944940
>that being to skinny/underweight might be as much of a turn off as being overweight
Literally not a single soul that isn't a chubby chaser (outlier btw) thinks this. The average person does not think that being underweight is just as much of a turn off as being overweight. That's absurd.
Also if he wants to assume what my standards are that is his business, I dont control the weather.

>>81944968
I know you're delirious with bitterness but he said relationship not sex

>>81943771
messed up if true

>>81943727 (OP)
All I can say is this: be happy that you're a girl. If you were a guy trying to hug a girl who really didn't want it, there would be a good chance you'd be getting expelled.

>>81945047
>That's absurd
begin too underweight to the point of looking sickly is as much of a turn off as obesity for most people
you are just desperate

>>81944990
>and now the goal post moved from getting sex and some affection to getting a meaningful relationship

>>81943727 (OP)
>He literally pushed me away.
what a based king i bet he looked like this

>>81945497
>noooo she's too healthy waaaah

>>81943727 (OP)
>gets rejectef by one guy
>ignores or rejects all the other guys that has shown interest
>wahhh I'm such an incel.
Also you didn't make it clear if it was romantic/sexual advance rather than friend stuff.

>>81945604
being underweight is also not healthy

>>81945946
>sexual advance
Its a HUG. wtf. And he is my friend

>>81943727 (OP)
>hug a "friend"
>femcel
The "friends" you see them hugging that are male are orbiters, thats the fleeting but still present physical affection just on the line enough to make them think they have a chance without being any sort of real hint of desire in order to keep them roped in

>>81944962
how do you measure this objectively? you may as well say he is average or whatever. the same way male incels say "chubby" when they mean bubble butt, big tits and the tiniest amount of belly.

>>81946751
Do you want to see a photo of him?

>>81944968
I can not find a relationship at all. you however can, download some app, meet an average guy in public and see how things turn out.
if you assume that all guys only want sex, then no woman is able to find affection, and therefore all women would be incels making the entire concept of a female incel trivial. words have no meaning if you can apply them to anything.

>>81943727 (OP)
Don't smell like shit maybe?

>>81946799
sure, but my judgement would not be objective either. I would obviously rate him too hoghly to accuse you of being a chad chaser. I have self-awareness for that.
dating app stats are the most objective measure.

>>81946854
This is a picture of him

>girl A hugs guy A
>thinks this allows girl B to hug guy B
I would accept your disappointment if you attempted to hug the same guy A. But you have no idea what's going on in guy B's head. Maybe he was abused as a kid and doesn't like physical contact. Maybe he has a jealous ex and doesn't want to give any wrong ideas. Who knows.

>>81943908
Guys shove guys, and guys almost always only have physical contact with guys. I haven't touched a woman in years, even non-romantically. I shove my brother all the time (6ft, 200lbs). My "push" response isn't calibrated for you.
>>81943771
If he didn't shove you you would have hugged him. It was probably just a response. Some avoid, some prevent. You're overthinking it (women are prone to neurosis).
>>81944091
It wasn't that. A guy who wanted to hug a girl would overlook the smell unless you were putrid, and one day wouldn't do that.
>>81944326
>as a man I say that being underweight and sickly looking can be as unattractive as being fat
As a man I disagree, fat is always worse.

>>81946814
>I can not find a relationship at all.
because you are just chasing out stacies and because you barely have any attractive quality, and even then you could get something by paying or by accepting some obese blob
just lower your standards

>>81944990
I would agree with you (and want that too).
However, "companionship" != sex.
Incel is short for "involuntarily celibate", not "involuntarily lacking companionship".
Thus you're not an incel or a femcel, just a standard lonely girl. Stop attempting to twist words into whatever meaning you want.
You're no different than the people using incel to mean "someone who hates women". No fuck off we already have a word for that it's misogynist reeeeee

>>81947218
Can't get it up to fat women

>>81943727 (OP)
Femcels exist because I exist

>>81946414
>Its a HUG. wtf.
NTA, but again I haven't been hugged in -years- by any woman. If you discount family then it's even longer, like, 10+ years.
You have to remember men and women operate in vastly different worlds.

>>81947242
What words did I twist? What are you talking about?

>>81943727 (OP)
I'd do this if a "hot" girl tried it too. Unprompted physical contact freaks me out, prompted physical contact only a little less so. Only from my gf and family do I not mind it so much.

>>81947218
I set up a dating app and have not received a single like lol. not even from any obese woman. meanwhile you would receive 100 likes within a day if you set one up now and could chose from those the best ones you like.

>>81943727 (OP)
Men usually don't hug other men.
Not sure what that has to do with femcels.

>>81943727 (OP)
race and bmi

>>81943727 (OP)
is he autistic? I am and I hate being touched most of the time.

>>81947379
dude I'm an autistic man and I get better
the only conclusion I can have is a mix of mental illness and incompetence

>>81948088
"statwise" I think I would be somewhat decent. I'm well educated, have a well paying job, am 6ft tall, do sports. however, I do have a bit crooked teeth (getting them fixed atm, retarded parents neglected it when I was a child) and am a bit skinny.
my conclusion is that any woman can find better than me and prefers to get pumped and dumped by chad.

>>81948213
I bet you also have a lot more to fix or has a severe skill issue if you manage to be doing worse than me

>>81948284
I don't know what I can physically fix besides having to gain muscles and fixing my teeth. maybe I should just get plastic surgery to gain all those necessary millimeters to have a chadlike face, but I assume you meant fixing without plastic surgery?
perhaps my "game" could be better, but I just tried to be honest about mostly being a homebody besides sports and that I'm looking for something serious. but the importance of those profiles is fastly exaggerated by women defenders anyways, to make women seem less superficial. people (both men and women) only read profiles if they are physically attracted to the person.

>>81948359
I could guess part of the problem might be the way you present yourself, this includes the way you dress yourself and the way you stand as those are part of non-verbal communication
But sincerely if you want something serious apps would do, you will need network through your social circle and maximize the number of interactions you have and that might be predisposed to like you (half of a women liking you is exposure and share experiences)

>>81948468
I think the clothes in my pics are fairly normal. one is in a basic t-shirt, one is in sports gear, one in a suit, and one in outdoorsy clothes when I hiking.
>if you want something serious apps would do
is this a typo? did you meant "won't do"?
I'm just saying that apps are a good and (due to their online nature) honest indicator. no woman finds me attractive. so instead of what a previous post said, I'm not just chasing stacies.

>>81948601
>is this a typo? did you meant "won't do"?
yeah, was a typo

>I'm just saying that apps are a good and (due to their online nature) honest indicator
not really because apps limit you presentation to a few photos forcing to rely only superficial attraction, party of female psychology relies on experience and familiarity if you don't have good enough appearance your shot is to rely on that part of their psychology you need they be familiar with you and at the same time you need to present yourself as masculine, risky nowadays? yes, but that's why you use a social circle to pre-vet them and to get a sketch of their character sheet
and give that you are 6ft, just getting some muscle would put you the range for superficial attraction
personally I got most luck by connecting to girl-failures at college and treating them as retarded friends with some lines of VNs and fanfics throwing in the mix

>>81947296
Nice bait thread retard.
Hope you will be alone for the rest of your life (you won't tho)

>>81948082
Giving a lonely person a fleeting taste of intimacy can be very cruel. People develop contact aversion because they don't want to go through the rollercoaster of feelings again that results when someone touches you and then walks away without a care, leaving you alone once again.

>>81943727 (OP)
Yeah you tried to hug the same kind of men that others choose

>>81949028
Not the case for me. I practically never been touched, and I've disliked it for as long as I can remember. It feels over stimulating, like when you hit your elbow. My family even makes jokes about me not liking hugs.