what do you guys think of my routine to stop being a femcel? - /r9k/ (#81944358) [Archived: 28 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:37:39 PM No.81944358
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I'm also gonna ask chatgpt for workouts to get more curvy but still stay skinny
not femcel arc loading...
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:40:53 PM No.81944383
>>81944358 (OP)
How do you put so much time into a Google sheets day planner and then spam keys on your keyboard when you named the screenshot?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:43:57 PM No.81944410
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>>81944358 (OP)
Working on your body is good but that's not the root cause of your femceldom. If ur a girl and not good looking that sucks since male attraction is highly visual but you need to work your social stat/CHARM. Go to clubs, social. Also read books raise ur int but going to uni so already doing that.

Body is important too. It's a strong foundation. Body (gym workout), mind (read books learn study), SOUL (this is more complicated but start by just getting friends)
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:44:16 PM No.81944418
>>81944358 (OP)
I don't care, you won't post your tits, I'm hiding this thread before it gets to 100+ replies.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:45:25 PM No.81944431
>>81944383
lololol i didnt think anons actually looked at that. im gonna start naming my files properly now
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:46:19 PM No.81944438
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>>81944358 (OP)
You can stop being a femcel by going on tinder and asking for casual sex
Just say you want to be skinny and pretty like a normal person
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:47:32 PM No.81944452
there are very few possible reasons for being a femcel and those things would fix none of them
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:48:18 PM No.81944458
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>>81944410
not OP but i realized this a couple years back and now my personality and the fact i suck at being social is my biggest insecurity, the fact is very true as a woman and guys will always go for the less boring woman even if she is less attractive that the one with no charm or charisma
>>81944358 (OP)
work on being more likeable in terms of personality, like anon said, of course work on your body too to build confidence to be able to build those skills, but dont solely focus on getting more attractive physically because you will still have an ugly girl mindset and personality, goodluck femanon
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:48:36 PM No.81944460
>stop chasing chad&tyrone.
>get with guy who is decent.
>have secks.
done.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:49:41 PM No.81944467
>>81944410
Thank you so much for your tips. I'm afraid to go to clubs or be social at uni because I feel really unattractive.
But I'm going to start dancing too, maybe it ll help me feel less awkward and boost my charm a bit.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:52:41 PM No.81944489
>>81944458
>not OP but i realized this a couple years back and now my personality and the fact i suck at being social is my biggest insecurity, the fact is very true as a woman and guys will always go for the less boring woman even if she is less attractive that the one with no charm or charisma
Well yeah no shit people want some who can converse back they don't wanna talk to anyone with a personality of a fish male or female keep in mind because of incelism poisoning the minds of young men if you aren't good at conversation as a female they will just assume you aren't interested and move onto another more receptive girl.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:54:27 PM No.81944505
>>81944467
clubs? only trash are available there, it's like how picking up people at a bar is going to give you alcoholics, if you can't think just ask chatgpt to dictate your entire life honestly, if you want to stop being a femcel then go on tinder for five minutes. not being desired by gigachad ceos doesn't mean you're a femcel
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:56:31 PM No.81944519
>>81944358 (OP)
Your autism will probably be your biggest hurdle but you need to make sure you use your free time doing something where you'll meet people.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 6:59:50 PM No.81944549
>>81944489
yea this actually hurts because what if im actually too retarded to develop a personality, might just be boring right now because im insecure and i HOPE thats what it is, if not i am cooked forever
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:00:38 PM No.81944555
>>81944519
I'm not autistic. It's just hard to meet and talk to people when you feel unattractive.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:01:13 PM No.81944559
>>81944549
Social skills take practice and degenerate rapidly in isolation but like riding a bike you can get it back fast...you need to practice 100 hours no other way!
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:01:40 PM No.81944564
>>81944431
You won't, just like you won't start working out because this is just a thinly veiled attentionwhoring thread.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:04:43 PM No.81944591
>>81944564
Thanks for the motivation
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:09:09 PM No.81944646
>>81944555
>I'm not autistic
You made a routine to help you be a normal person. That's not something people usually have to do. Even ugly ones.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:12:55 PM No.81944679
>>81944358 (OP)
You didn't leave any space for sex, when will you coom?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:15:45 PM No.81944711
>>81944358 (OP)
This is a good all around schedule for being healthy.
But I don't think that's what's gonna change your "femcel" status.
Your problem is your personality.
You can go ask out a decent guy, not 9/10 6'3 chad but still a decent guy and the highest chance is that he will say yes if you are more than a 3/10 and an actual girl.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:19:56 PM No.81944756
>>81944711
The reality of being a femcel here >>81943727
He is not even a Chad, and its not like I asked him out or anything. I just tried to hug him. But I guess I'm too disgusting to even have average guys as friends.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:22:53 PM No.81944797
>>81944756
You were stinky, sweety. You just need to shower and people will let you hug them.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:23:12 PM No.81944801
Make sure you train your butt and core femanon. That's probably the most important areas.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:23:40 PM No.81944806
>>81944358 (OP)
What time will you be posting your panties? Didn't see it on the list anywhere
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:26:39 PM No.81944827
>>81944756
>>81944797
>mfw this stinky girl is complaining about not getting a hug
I shower every day and haven't had a hug in over 15 years.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:30:26 PM No.81944880
>>81944358 (OP)
are you the italian femanon?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:33:18 PM No.81944913
>>81944797
That's why I'm going to start doing proper daily showers now, shampoo, moisturizer, oils, the whole thing.

>>81944801
Yeah, I'm planning on that. I don't want to work too much on my arms or anything like that. Do you have any tips for building muscle at home?
>>81944880
No
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:40:28 PM No.81944987
>>81944913
You're not planning on waxxing every weekend, are you? I feel like if you do it properly every 3 weeks should be enough. Remember you need the hair to grow out a bit so it can get gripped by the wax properly. Do you have some disposable income?
Also don't listen to their bullshit about needing to improve you personality first, you can work on both. You should really try to include something vaguely social somewhat semi regularly though
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:43:10 PM No.81945014
>>81944913
>Do you have any tips for building muscle at home?
If you can, buy a dumbell set
Do sit ups, planks, dips (by using chairs), you can pretty much do this anywhere not only at home but at a park is what I prefer, especially the ones with the calisthenics area.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:45:08 PM No.81945031
i used to be obsessed with making these schedules and they never worked for me. it's so boring living that way
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:52:40 PM No.81945093
>>81944987
> waxing every week
I used to shave with a razor weekly and it ended up pretty bad. I think waxing will work better since it doesn't damage the skin as much.

> some disposable income
Not a lot. I mostly want to focus on things I can do at home before I get a job.

>Also don't listen to their bullshit about needing to improve your personality first, you can work on both.
Thank you for understanding my point. It's hard to "just" work on your personality when your appearance matters too.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:00:20 PM No.81945172
>>81945093
I had the same problem. Tons of ingrowns, strawberry legs,...
The only thing that's really helped it were those at home laser device kits (ofc that depends on skin and hair color too) but they're expensive.
Men don't really understand what it's like to socialize if you're not conventionally attractive as a woman. Getting prettier helps so much, not just with finding a man but interactions in general.
When I was trying to become less of a femcel I started by joining a local club that was basically just old ladies knitting and painting, maybe you could find something similar to help you get used to socializing again? Ofc it depends on how bad your social skills are, mine were so bad I had panic attacks just going to the gorcery store
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:02:19 PM No.81945191
>>81944358 (OP)
what exactly are you looking for in uni? to become more social or to get a boyfriend? if you want a boyfriend just frequent male circles
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:04:09 PM No.81945221
>>81945172
I'm in a discord server just with people from my city. A landwhale hangs out and takes pictures with other people from the server all the time.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:08:08 PM No.81945254
>>81945221
Can you meet up with them too?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:11:07 PM No.81945292
>>81945172
That actually gives me hope... seeing someone who managed to glow up makes it feel more possible. Laser is super expensive where i live too, i'll have to wait until i get a job. And your knitting/painting group sounds really cute, i wish i had something like that. my uni doesn't really have girly activities, but i'd love to join a sport with other girls to be more social.

>>81945191
My uni has more guys than girls. And it's mostly a place for studying, not real life Tinder.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:15:54 PM No.81945336
>>81945292
If you look on tumblr or reddit there's usually tons of girls (and some men) trying to glow up too and reading their stories can be very motivating (and sometimes a bit depressing)
A sport sounds really fun too. I hope you join :)
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:16:47 PM No.81945341
>>81944358 (OP)
what's waxing time
Turbie Enjoyer
7/24/2025, 8:18:00 PM No.81945353
>>81944358 (OP)
When you prioritize Yoga you're allowing in Demons and it shows where your head is overall, Replace that with something that isn't pagan. Also you wax every other day? How can you be that hairy?
You make no time for the Father in Heaven, and are focused entirely on self care. The whole day is organized for self you care only for yourself
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:18:06 PM No.81945355
>>81945254
>Can you meet up with them too?
Yeah I can, I just haven't had time. Been busy looking for a better paying job and catching up on sleep. There are meet ups at pubs but also some at parks and other events.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:18:18 PM No.81945359
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I need to get a gf and convince her into stop shaving her body hair
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:18:34 PM No.81945362
>>81944987
>Also don't listen to their bullshit about needing to improve you personality first
Maybe she's just a bitch. You don't know what she's like in real life
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:21:31 PM No.81945389
>>81945362
my point was that there's no need for her to prioritize it. you can do both
also it's much easier to be nice if people don't treat you differently because of your appearance. That goes for both genders
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:03:35 PM No.81946484
>>81944358 (OP)
Where are the two hours dedicated to having esex with me?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:07:34 PM No.81946546
>>81944358 (OP)
The biggest blackpill that I encountered with women is the concept of the everything shower. You guys are so gross for that.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:12:13 PM No.81946610
>>81946546
what do you hate about that? do you exfoliate and do hair treatments every day?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:13:56 PM No.81946630
>>81946610
Yeah I clean myself and take an everything shower every day because I am not a foid. I guarantee I use better hair products than you and have cleaner skin.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:14:59 PM No.81946640
>>81946610
Yeah, I didn't get that either. For me, everything shower is exfoliating, moisturizing, oiling up, and deep cleaning my hair. That's just self care, not gross.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:15:32 PM No.81946650
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>>81944358 (OP)
>uni
>femcel
>routine
Get a load of this retard
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:17:08 PM No.81946668
>>81946640
>oiling up
Why are you black
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:17:50 PM No.81946674
>>81946630
tell us your routine. i think you just have a weird understanding of what we mean with everything shower
also maybe we'll learn smth if you're that knowledgable
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:20:01 PM No.81946706
>>81946668
Oiling the skin. Not the hair. Im white.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:35:30 PM No.81946915
if you're ugly you either settle for a 6/10 guy (which you won't) or you get pumped and dumped by uni chads until you end up becoming a wine aunt. Just rope, roastie
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:37:29 PM No.81946946
>>81944358 (OP)
>chatgpt
NGMI
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:41:01 PM No.81947003
>>81946915
It's not about finding a Chad. I just want to feel good about myself and be treated like a normal girl for once.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 10:54:04 PM No.81947188
>>81944358 (OP)
im so genuinely tired of living as an ugly girl. i feel like part of my parents resent me for not being attractive, who wants an ugly lazy kid with no social skills or no redeeming qualities? my the back of my heads flat, i mouth breathed as a kid so i basically have no chin, luckily i bought that as a teenager and no i kinda have one but still is noticeable my chin isnt normal and is still recessed, my skin all over my body is horrible because i grow hair everywhere for no reason and it causes ugly bumps and scars, i have ugly downturned beady eyes so i constantly wear contacts that makes my eyes look bigger, and my body shape is weird because i have fat distribution above my hips and lower/upper back, and small titties with werid looking nipples so i dont even have tits to make me more desirable, and my arms are unessecarily fat, i hardly look decent with makeup on and im always so concious and aware of how ugly i am to people that see me in public and it honestly breaks my heart because none of it was my fault except for maybe my body because i could lose weight. its so dehumanizing living like this and i honestly wish i could kill myself but i know it would be really hard on my family, i really just want to dissapear from everyones memory like i never existed, this shit is not cool at all and wouldnt wish this on anyone, but OP im sure u got this and i hope u find happiness in yourself
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:09:14 PM No.81947411
>>81947188
i'm sorry anon. have you had a lot of bad experiences due to your appearance?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:11:45 PM No.81947437
>>81947411
not really no i grew up pretty sheltered and only bad experience has been trying to fit in
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:14:27 PM No.81947471
>>81944358 (OP)
You are going to burn out in 2 weeks.
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:15:50 PM No.81947483
>>81947437
then how are you so sure it's due to your appearance and not just your mental state?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:17:49 PM No.81947511
>>81947483
because i dont look normal and ill always carry that fact around me inside my head which makes me sound insecure all the time and unlikable
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:19:07 PM No.81947528
>>81947511
that's more of a mental thing anon, for real. there's no way you are as disgusting as you think
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sage
7/24/2025, 11:20:39 PM No.81947543
>>81944438
No fucktard, the pathology of the femcel is not "can't get sex", that's trivial for a woman, it's "can't get commitment". She could get run through no problem, everyone knows that, but she doesn't want to get run through, she wants a boyfriend to pay for her shit and carry heavy things and chauffeur her to the restaurant and so on. Tinder offers none of this, only dick. You learned everything you know about women from Bonnie Blue pornos or something?
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:22:50 PM No.81947571
>>81947528
okay that still doesnt make up for the fact that this image is already so engraved in my brain that ill never be apple to fix it, most of my physical appearance flaws are stuff i cant change without 1000s of dollars
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sage
7/24/2025, 11:23:01 PM No.81947573
>>81947188
I am an internet know-it-all and I am hereby diagnosing you with Cushing's syndrome. Get yourself checked, and get yourself treated, and your life will improve a bit. You're welcome.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:25:01 PM No.81947599
>>81947543
>wahhhh, look at my non-issues
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:26:13 PM No.81947619
>>81947543
it's "can't get commitment from chad"
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:27:03 PM No.81947644
>>81947571
the hair thing can easily be fixed it just needs time and some money, the rest are probably not as much of a failo you think. Try to work on your mental state, that should help more
sage
7/24/2025, 11:28:14 PM No.81947656
>>81947619
That's understood, because non-chads are literally invisible to women.

>>81947599
I understand your position, but then what the fuck are you even doing in this thread?
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:28:38 PM No.81947660
>>81947573
looked that up my stomach is not huge im just a little chubby i dont have that
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sage
7/24/2025, 11:31:11 PM No.81947693
>>81947660
Look bitch as your doctor I'm going to have to insist that you put up or shut up. Start fasting or something, drop the weight. You're probably american so that's gonna be difficult and expensive, because your goyslop is par excellence, but if you think you know your own health better than a stranger on the internet who's never even met you, then why are you fat? Put the cookie DOWN. America is the only country on this good Earth where doughnuts are a legitimate breakfast food.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:43:28 PM No.81947864
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>>81947693
fasting just gonna make me have uglier loose skin on my stomach and i dont need somthing else to cry over at night
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sage
7/24/2025, 11:48:21 PM No.81947938
>>81947864
Alright you don't have Cushing's. If you don't believe in skinny then start believing in hench and join the gym. Other than that, cry about it for long enough and old age will fix all your problems.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 11:52:40 PM No.81947989
>>81947938
yea gym might be good just not fasting by itself i wanna be lean and skinny and not have loose skin
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 12:37:23 AM No.81948502
>>81947864
I'm OP. You are already confident enough to post yourself here, that's more than most (or me). Just hit the gym and keep going.
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 1:12:32 AM No.81948878
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>>81944358 (OP)
FAGGOT

I'M A GRADE-A BADASS AND A TRUECEL BLESSED WITH BEING A SAIYAN BORN ON EARTH AND HERE'S MY DAILY ROUTINE:

4:45 AM, WAKE UP
6:00 AM, LIFT HEAVY ASS WEIGHTS
8:00 AM, PEEP THE HORROR
6:00 PM, PLAY QUAKE, MY GUITAR, WITH MY PENIS WENIS, AND PLAY WITH MY SHOTGUN'S ACTION EROTICALLY
7:00 PM, COOK DINNER AND TOMORROW'S LUNCH (SPAGHETTI AND GROUND BEEF RESPECTIVELY)
8:00 PM, SHOWER AND DO MY 5-STEP SKINCARE ROUTINE
9:00 PM, ???
9:30 PM, SLEEP

ON THE WEEKENDS THIS CHANGES BECAUSE I HAVE TO ACTUALLY MANAGE MY RAPIDLY FALLING APART LIFE, BUT IF YOU FOLLOW THESE STEPS YOU TOO CAN LIVE IN AGONY EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE AND GET FILLED WITH HATRED.

ALSO YOU CAN LISTEN TO BOOKS WHILE YOU WORK RETARD