>>81947172Have you ever heard of the psychological phenomenon called "learned helplessness?"
>never give actual useful adviceOkay Anon, what do you want to know?
>OP just got luckyWell he's not out of the woods just yet, but If that's what you really believe your problem is then you can maximize your chances by actually putting yourself out there and rolling the dice as much as you can. If you've got some other factors holding you back then say that. One of the biggest barriers I've experienced in giving constructive advice is that anons are very reluctant to actually get specific with their issues, often compounded by a lack of self awareness and/or refusal to introspect. So what do you think your issue is?
>>81947281>Lovebomb this bitch, fuck her, then leaveOh cool dude. Suuuper cool. That's such a chill and likable defense mechanism you got there. Have fun dying bitter and alone because you chose to remain so insecure you could never truly be vulnerable, Coward. No wonder you're posting here.