me and him met through omegle on a music tag then took it to discord we both didnt know what eachother looked like and formed a faceless bond he told me about how he used to get bullied and how people saw him as weird growing up he didnt have much friends which i related to. we would call for 8 hours everyday forming a connection and this went on for a couple of weeks before he confessed to me. i felt the same with him then we decided to cam up. hes really attractive he wears glasses hazel eyes sharp jaw and glasses i was shocked how someone as good looking as him could be so lonely. he flew over to meet and stay with me for a week . he looked even better in person and is very tall we have a 60cm height difference. everything was good for the first few hours of our date until he started getting approached by girls and kept getting stared at. i started to feet self concious and i was a bit saddened how people were ignoring the fact me and him are together like they couldnt believe he was with such an ugly girl like me. we've been together for 5 months long distance he still talks to me but theres been some times where we fall off and i get angry by the fact he believes hes undesireable and how no one would want him apart from me . the times in confronted him about almost being kissed and hugged by girls and how hes above average looking he brushed it off and claimed it was because he was with his friends. this is both our first relationships and i dont think its going to last very long knowing hes leagues above me ive already started thinking about breaking things off but he tells me he doesnt want that . i really do love him but i dont know what to do

>>81948362 (OP)
is this ragebait? the way its written makes it sounds like its genuine but i refuse to believe there are women this retarded out there

>>81948397
>but i refuse to believe there are women this retarded out there
This is r9k

>>81948397
lol rather than giving advice you pull the muh retard no explanation as if i wasnt asking for one if i leave him ill be the bad person right for leaving someone who loves me

>>81948397
Not bait. This has been my experience dating insecure women as an above average attractive guy too. Nothing he can say or do will ever make OP be comfortable being in a relationship with him and it will end soon. Even if you're handsome, your shyness can still keep you a khhv while you're young, and once you make it past 20, it's still over because of how crazy women are.

>>81948464
what annoys me the most is he geniunely believes hes below me in terms of attractiveness but gets told hes handsome by stacies its like he brings himself down just for my sake

>>81948418
people who have experienced dating someone whose personality REALLY clicks with yours can never go back especially those who are isolated loners, meeting someone who you can talk to hours without feeling tired and understand on a fundamental level is way more important than looks.
Like yeah, looks are important in a relationship, I don't think I could date someone I am visually disgusted by, whoever the bar for someone to be undatable to me is very low, beyond that i literally do not care about their appearance.

>>81948486
thats what i hate we both never acknowledged eachothers apperance when we dated it was core personality but now that we've met face to face its a whole different experience its no more one to one dms in private where we can be ourselves im going to expect some replies saying i wont leave him because hes a chad by some incels but i dont know what to do when i bring up taking a break from eachother he begs me to not do that

>>81948481
Mhm. That's just how he feels on the inside, and when you eventually leave him it will only add to it. When I go on Tinder, I get matches simping for me. Begging me if they can come over or saying I can do whatever I want to them, but it doesn't magically make me feel more confident when I have never had a girlfriend before.

>>81948525
youre a retard he doesnt care about his appearance he loves you and only wants you for you who you are

>>81948486
>>81948486
yes, despite several attempts and numerous "chances" through the years, i'm still stuck on the same girl FIFTEEN YEARS LATER and boy whaddya know she initiates communication and i'm right back where i started and it is very likely not to work out again and i betcha its gonna fuck me up just like last two times

and i'm not gonna do anything to stop it, just holding out for a 5 percent or less chance because i can't help myself. nobody else made me happy. so it goes!

>>81948551
he very much does care about his appearance he geniunely believes hes ugly which hurts me because he makes jokes about me leaving him for a chad not knowing hes one himself the amount of times ive argued with him over it i love him for who he is but im scared ill watch him leave me for someone better if i do end up breaking things off i dont plan on dating anyone

>>81948585
He doesn't think he's ugly lol, he knows he's the hot one.

>>81948610
i think i know him more than you do his own mother has complained to me about it and it wouldnt benefit him in any way if that was the case

>>81948633
>guy telling his partner thems hot doesn't benefit him

>>81948362 (OP)
Yes but you should kill him first then kill yourself

>>81948362 (OP)
>60cm height difference
This nigga's a nephilim

>>81948678
we were supposed to kill ourselves together but once we started dating he said he didnt want to

>>81948685
lol im 4'11 hes 6'7

>>81948696
be the master of your own destiny

>>81948362 (OP)
Sounds like a manipulative cheater

>>81948696
Then live with him until he's ready. Why break up with him when you have nothing left to lose?

>>81948727
I'm 5'11 how am I supposed get a gf when the shortest girls can get guys like that

>>81948481
Self esteem comes from the self, not from others.
If he grew up with a mother who never loved him, as an example, no amount of "you're so pretty UWU" will make him believe them, he'll just brush it off because of course they're just trying to make him feel better.
You idiot.

>>81948746
he doesnt want to kill himself and he doesnt want me to die either he said if i killed myself hed blame himself for it

>>81948759
he wont kill himself because of his mother lol his mother says hes handsome and compared him to models like eduard badaluta theyre slavic

>>81948758
did you even bother reading the thread

Your personality will eventually drive him away

>>81948782
Yes I just hate you c:

>>81948796
and youre really asking me why you cant get a gf

>>81948362 (OP)
This is good quality rage bait or comedy larp. Chad thinks becky will leave him for Chad and Becky thinks Chad will leave her for Stacy.

>>81948804
I think there's plenty of men that men that hate their gfs

>>81948792
its the only thing holding our relationship together he calls me beautfiul but the women who flirt with him look the opposite of me

>>81948828
Sounds like you're on borrowed time

>>81948821
chad thinks hes subhuman and that becky is stacy

>>81948759
Sounds like bullshit. If everyone loved me and valued me I would have high self esteem because I would have something to generate it from.

for refrence he looks like eduard badaluta and i look like lindsay souvannarath

>>81948907
oof, not good

>>81948362 (OP)
Common sense will never go through your retarded ass but listen if he was a such a chad other whores Would have taken him already you got the bag don't be a insecure bitch that Chase other women because that will just push him away you found him you love him and he does too end of the story

If you really love him, you'll leave him for his sake

>>81948915
i dont know whats worse the fact i look like her or that she tried to shoot up a shopping centre

well guys its been quiet for a bit of time and im sleepy my boyfriends already sleeping so i'll leave this thread here thanks for the replies ill keep being presistent in our relationship and i wont give up yet goodnight everyone

>>81948362 (OP)
he loves you and you love him
the answer is no you absolute fucking retard
take something this stupid to chatgpt next time