>>81948387 (OP)you've been socialized your entire life to desire the image in your post, which was an image of a society dependent on the oppression of the population into various shapes ('man' and 'woman'). this society came about because the people who oppressed each other in this manner had more kids more reliably - and passed on those ideas about oppressing each other to have more kids through a domestic arrangement that allowed indoctrination ('education'), so on and so forth through time. this image has nothing to do with happiness or providing satisfaction to the people involved - in fact it was fairly miserable for most people involved and in an era where separating yourself from it (divorce) is more tolerable see how many prefer that. see behind the image the gleaming face of darwin using culture as his tools, and see in modernity one class of people's (womens) attempts to free themselves from it.
this system entrapped women and forced them into their roles financially and legally - bonds which they broke free from. this system, and this is the part feminism missed, this system also entraps men - it forces them into their role using personal and psychological barriers. manhood is a series of traumas inflicted to create a subject crippled from forming emotionally or physically intimate or satisfying bonds with others outside of the contexts of romance and sexuality. you have been trapped through identity and socialization to think that the image in your OP is the only way you are allowed to love and be loved.
liberate yourself, or be miserable forever.
https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/for-ourselves-the-minimum-definition-of-intelligence