>be me
>be forever alone virgin
>had good parents so I didn't fall for alpha male scam courses
>however I still felt lonely
>realize I was forever alone because I had no value
>enoughisenough.jpeg
>started working out in order to stop being skinny
>started educating myself so I would be smarter
>spend less time watching memes and more time watching documentaries.
>start taking care of myself
>stopped playing vidya with my normie friends and spent more time self improving
>ffw to few years later
>still a virgin
>still get rejected
>Didn't give up yet.
>More workouts, more educating, more hobbymaxxing, more looksmaxxing
>decided to focus on my career and got promoted
>ffw to now
>became so educated that I have a hard time relating to people
>the only women who approach me are normies that have very boring and bland personalities.
>the women I was interested in now reject me because I am "too focused of my work"
>stopped talking to my friends few years ago because I had a hard time relating to their lives of carelessness.
mfw I had followed all advices given to me only to end up in the same place I was before if not worse.

>>81955982 (OP)
>mfw I had followed all advices given to me
who gave you those advice? who told you that you needed to "improoooove" to get the girl?

>>81956006
Fucking everyone. Friends, family, internet. You always hear the "hit the gym", "get a hobby" and "get a reason for women to like you". I managed to self improve myself, get hobbies, learnt to cook food that isn't instant ramen and no luck.

>>81956053
and you did all that for yourself? or was it always about pussy?

>Self improvement is a scam
I've known this for years. It is basically the standard - and worthless - 'normie advice'.
Which is why I despise seeing it being pushed here and other 'life loser' circles.
>Wonderful. I'm now jacked and I have travelled round the world three times.
>Oh, and I am still incel as fuck, because I am a bald manlet, with no money to correct anything.
Go fuck yourselves. If women weren't so openly Chad-only now, I might have gotten some willing pussy.

>>81956080
A little bit of both. I genuinely thought if I would become better my life would improve. Instead it became worse. Now I have an even harder time finding friends, no luck with women and I feel like I had wasted my time on nothing.
>>81956101
I guess. thing is. I am not even bad looks wise. I look slightly feminine but I am not balding or anything. So I guess there is something else that makes me look undesirable. Personality is not it since I was always told I was "kind" by women.

>>81956192
>always told I was "kind" by women.
Anon, I....
I don't have the heart to tell you this...

>>81956199
What? This was told by my female friends. Or at least used to be friends because they were always to slow to reply and I got tired of it so I ghosted them and stopped being friends with them.

>>81955982 (OP)
>the only women who approach me are normies that have very boring and bland personalities.
>the only women who approach me
At least you get approached. Ive never had a girl be interested in me

>>81956192
>I guess. thing is. I am not even bad looks wise. I look slightly feminine but I am not balding or anything. So I guess there is something else that makes me look undesirable. Personality is not it since I was always told I was "kind" by women.
Same with the not-terrible looks, except for being a bald manlet. So I am particularly doomed.
I some get likes and matches, but they never lead to sex. Even old women won't fuck me.
>>81956223
Other anon is
>implying
that the women really mean that you look like a bitch, anon. Sorry.

>>81956192
>Now I have an even harder time finding friends, no luck with women
i feel like this is more of a (You) issue instead of them - you mentioned in the OP post how you find them too shallow or vapid
what's stopping you from occasionally reaching down to their level?

>>81956223
Anon, when women say you're kind, that means they don't want to fuck you
they won't mind having you around but if you want to sleep with them? fat chance hah!

>>81956247
Trust me that's nothing, sure the women may have the looks but they are so fucking boring to be with. This isn't wife material. I prioritize us having common interests and women who approach me are the type that consider shopping to be a valid hobby (which it isn't)

>>81955982 (OP)
>>81956247
>At least you get approached. Ive never had a girl be interested in me
This. All I got was stared at. They would never speak to me and they always had company. My whole life I have been cockblocked.

>>81956281
>common interests
what do you like, OP? what are your interests?

>>81956277
I guess but how do you not look like a bitch? shave your head? I don't want to since I love my long hair. I also don't like having a beard.
>>81956279
Nah by shallow I mean it. They are too boring to be with. Sex may be good but I am not that desperate to hang out with people who don't share my hobbies and who don't have their own hobbies except for shopping and browsing social media (which I don't have except Youtube for watching videos)

Changing yourself mentally (if thats even possible) does not effect the way you look. Or what magically happens to you. Women and normies are retarded for spouting this shit.

>>81956307
videogames, especially video game collecting, otaku culture, I listen to Jpop/vocaloid as well. I also like to build lego modulars and recently I got into cooking. Instead of cooking normal food. I try to experiment. Like make my own rice bowls with bacon and tabasco sauce. Sometimes I try to cook normal food and that's when I try to recreate American stuff but with European products, I managed to cook Mac n cheese with ground beef patty formed into a steak shape and corn to simulate tv dinners.

>>81956321
I really dont understand how people change mentally like from the military or lsd/religeon, different jobs/school or books. I feel like only a woman can change me.
I feel like i cant be changed by stuff like that. Thats what normies say. But its not true for me. Its strange that im on this site and have no gf. When i have a really strong mind. I can take like an oz of mushrooms and not trip out or see shit like normans do.

in what way is self-improvement a scam? you lifted weights so now you're stronger, you read books and studied so now you're more educated.
How is that a scam?

>>81955982 (OP)
literally none of that is self-improvement. going to the gym instead of playing video games is not an improvement if your goal is to be "relatable" you stupid fucking retard, you're just changing your form of escapism. One is healthier for you, so you should choose to exercise for your own health, but that should only enable you to talk to more girls, not directly give you more experience. What the fuck is wrong with your generation? I was spending 4-7 hours every fucking day just hanging out with girls I liked. You think about "hobbys" like a cuckold caricature from a hollywood movie.

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>>81957788
>you lifted weights so now you're stronger,

IN A VIDEO GAME

itt: a man who drowns in pussy tells us we wouldn't like that because it leaves no gay aftertaste in his mouth